{"id":103201,"date":"2020-10-15T14:13:58","date_gmt":"2020-10-15T14:13:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=103201"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:13:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:13:46","slug":"innamorarsi-inaspettatamente-di-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/innamorarsi-inaspettatamente-di-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Innamorarsi di qualcuno inaspettatamente \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 bel tipo di amore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tutti quegli uomini sbagliati e quelle relazioni sbagliate mi hanno completamente prosciugato emotivamente. Troppe persone mi hanno tradito, troppi uomini mi hanno ferito.<\/p>\n<p>My heart was broken way too many times, I&#8217;m still surprised at how it managed to heal and survive. <em><strong>Per molto tempo sono stato convinto che la mia anima fosse morta.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Vivevo solo perch\u00e9 dovevo, ma <em>Ero completamente vuoto dentro.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Prima di allora, pensavo davvero che tutti avessimo un'anima gemella da qualche parte l\u00e0 fuori, ma poi ho accettato che non c'era nessuna persona destinata a me in questo mondo e ho fatto pace con questo.<\/p>\n<p>Ho preso una decisione, pensando che fosse l'unica giusta per me. <em><strong>Decisi di alzare le mani e di smettere di lottare.<\/strong><\/em> Ho deciso di rinunciare completamente all'amore e a trovare quello giusto.<\/p>\n<p>Well, that was my mistake actually. I should never have been trying so hard to find the one. I should never have been trying to force someone to love me or have been trying so hard to deserve someone&#8217;s love.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Love isn&#8217;t a thing that should be found, it actually finds us when we&#8217;re ready to take it and welcome it in our life.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>L'amore puro e onesto \u00e8 sempre ben visibile ai nostri occhi quanto al nostro cuore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-103224 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con maglietta grigia che bacia la fronte di una donna all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-kissing-womans-forehead-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If there is love, you can see it from far away and if you have to prove anything to yourself to get someone&#8217;s love and affection, then you&#8217;re just wasting your time.<\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec come ho sprecato tanto del mio prezioso tempo con persone che non ne meritavano nemmeno un minuto.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I&#8217;m not sorry for those mistakes and that waste. I embraced them all as my lessons and made something good out of them.<\/p>\n<p>Something that&#8217;s only now meant to teach me a life lesson and serve as a reminder of how I should never give too much of myself to other people and relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Forse ho imparato tutto nel modo pi\u00f9 difficile, ma la cosa importante \u00e8 che l'ho imparato e ha cambiato completamente la mia vita. Mi ha reso la persona che sono oggi. Pi\u00f9 forte, pi\u00f9 saggia, pi\u00f9 felice e, soprattutto, pi\u00f9 amata che mai.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mentre mi trovavo al bivio pi\u00f9 importante della mia vita e stavo per rinunciare completamente all'amore, lui \u00e8 entrato nella mia vita.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Love knocked on my door so unexpectedly. The first time I didn&#8217;t actually invite it, it came. And from the first moment I saw it, I knew it had honest intentions and that it was there to stay forever.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I honestly hadn\u2019t expected it because I had just started thinking that it was never going to happen to me and I was slowly accepting that. But it did and it happened in a way I could never have even imagined.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103228\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si tengono per mano guardando l&#039;oceano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He wasn&#8217;t my type at all but still, he managed to fulfill all of my expectations. He didn&#8217;t mind all those not so perfect sides of me and accepted me as I was.<\/p>\n<p>Mi ha visto al mio meglio ma anche al mio peggio e mi ha amato lo stesso, esattamente lo stesso. <strong>Non ho mai dovuto dimostrargli nulla perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 fidato del mio cuore dal momento in cui se ne \u00e8 innamorato.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I learned how important it is to trust in God&#8217;s perfect timing because He definitely has everything planned for us already.<\/p>\n<p>We can plan as much as we can but in the end, we all know that He&#8217;s the one who decides on our destiny.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m so grateful to Him for giving me such a beautiful destiny. I&#8217;ll forever be grateful for sending me the right guy at the right time, even though I wasn&#8217;t aware of it then.<\/p>\n<p><em>Lo ringrazier\u00f2 per sempre per questo ospite inatteso che si \u00e8 rivelato la mia salvezza. Per questo bellissimo amore inaspettato che mi ha reso la persona pi\u00f9 felice del mondo. Per l'uomo che ha riportato la mia anima dalla morte.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The guy who showed me that when there&#8217;s true love, the timing is always right. <strong>L'uomo che ama perfettamente tutte le mie imperfezioni.<\/strong> The guy who spends every day showing me that he&#8217;s the one who is meant for me.<\/p>\n<p>A volte la vita pu\u00f2 essere cos\u00ec imprevedibile, cos\u00ec meravigliosamente imprevedibile. <strong>He was the only one I wasn&#8217;t looking for, yet he is the only one who has and will forever have my heart.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All those wrong men and wrong relationships have emotionally drained me completely. Too many people have betrayed me, too many guys have hurt me. My heart was broken way too many times, I&#8217;m still surprised at how it managed to heal and survive. For a long time, I was convinced that my soul was dead&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":103222,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-103201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Falling-For-Someone-Unexpectedly-Is-The-Most-Beautiful-Kind-Of-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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