{"id":10389,"date":"2020-05-14T10:05:49","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T10:05:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10389"},"modified":"2022-02-01T01:17:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T01:17:09","slug":"7-consigli-per-smettere-di-essere-ossessionato-da-un-ragazzo-che-non-gliene-frega-niente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-consigli-per-smettere-di-essere-ossessionato-da-un-ragazzo-che-non-gliene-frega-niente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 consigli su come smettere di ossessionare un ragazzo a cui non importa nulla di te"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first thing you need to understand is that there are plenty of fish in the sea, so stop obsessing over that particular one, especially if that fish just doesn\u2019t want to bite your hook bait.<\/p>\n

Non ha senso, perch\u00e9 l'unico risultato di questa situazione \u00e8 che tu ti faccia male.<\/p>\n

And another thing is that while you\u2019re fishing for the wrong one, the right one may just slip through your fingers because you\u2019ve put all your energy in a person who doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Being hooked on the wrong guy has become a Hollywood clich\u00e9. Almost every romantic Hollywood plot begins with a young and beautiful woman who aches for a guy who is completely uninterested or he is just a friend.<\/p>\n

But, she doesn\u2019t give up. If he is a friend, she will continue to hurt in silence, misreading all the signals he is sending her in the hope he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente ha anche una fidanzata e, come fanno tutti i buoni amici, lei siede pazientemente ad ascoltare i suoi problemi d'amore, sperando che le cose tra loro vadano a rotoli e che lui apra improvvisamente gli occhi e si renda conto che il suo vero amore \u00e8 sempre stato davanti a lui.<\/p>\n

Or, she will ache for the guy who doesn\u2019t even know she exists. Soffrir\u00e0 in silenzio<\/a> e lei far\u00e0 pace con il fatto che non potr\u00e0 mai stare con lui, ma il suo cuore si rifiuter\u00e0 di andare avanti.<\/p>\n

She will watch him from a distance and she will continue breaking her own heart because she is hooked on him and doesn\u2019t want to let go.<\/p>\n

Ma a differenza della vita reale, queste storie hanno sempre un lieto fine.<\/em><\/p>\n

Quel ragazzo che era suo amico improvvisamente si rende conto di essere stato innamorato di lei per tutto il tempo e vivono felici e contenti.<\/p>\n

Or that guy who has never noticed her suddenly opens his eyes and has an epiphany\u2014he falls in love with her immediately.<\/p>\n

Well, in real life, things usually don\u2019t go that way. Usually, you waste your life and time on someone who is just not right for you and he could never be because you don\u2019t have the right one.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that you didn\u2019t find him yet because you\u2019ve wasted time trying to impress someone else. And that leads to a broken heart and pain.<\/em><\/p>\n

Spare yourself the pain and try to cut the problem at its root. Stop breaking your own heart by hoping he\u2019ll come around.<\/p>\n

Stop living in a romantic movie. You\u2019ll have your moment and it won\u2019t be a cheesy clich\u00e9.<\/p>\n

It will be the most romantic moment of your life and it will be your happily ever after. But first, learn how to stop obsessing over a guy who\u2019s not into you.<\/p>\n

1. Ricordare che non \u00e8 impeccabile<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 la perfezione che avete fatto credere. \u00c8 un essere umano proprio come voi e ha le sue stranezze, come tutti noi.<\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 impeccabile o onnipotente, quindi smettete di guardarlo con occhiali rosa e di vedere solo le cose buone che ha fatto e che vi hanno fatto perdere la testa.<\/p>\n

Stop for a second and try to look at the whole picture. Try to act like this situation doesn\u2019t concern you, like you are observing him and his behavior for a friend.<\/p>\n

Siate obiettivi e fate un elenco dei contro e dei pro, quindi leggete i vostri contro e guardateli bene.<\/p>\n

Once again, remember that no one is perfect. Maybe that should help you take him off of the pedestal you\u2019ve put him on.<\/p>\n

2. Forzarlo non vi aiuter\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Anche se lo fate impazzire e lo implorate di darvi una possibilit\u00e0 e lui cede, vi state preparando a un futuro strazio. Non c'\u00e8 modo da questa relazione uscir\u00e0 qualcosa di buono<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If he wasn\u2019t into you from the moment he saw you, if there is no connection between the two of you, it will never be.<\/p>\n

3. Parlare con gli amici<\/h2>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

Se la persona a cui vi rivolgete per chiedere aiuto \u00e8 davvero un vero amico, vi dir\u00e0 la verit\u00e0. Vi dir\u00e0 di lasciar perdere e di andare avanti.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, when you\u2019re blinded by obsession<\/a>, emotions and a possible past you had with him, you can\u2019t look at the whole picture, so your obsession grows even more.<\/p>\n

Potreste persino iniziare a immaginare le cose, o a dare un significato maggiore a cose che sono banali.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s when a good friend is more than welcome. Try to present the problem that is bothering you with as many facts as possible and try to exclude your emotions from it.<\/p>\n

Il vostro vero amico vi dir\u00e0 cosa dovreste fare o potrete trovare una soluzione insieme, perch\u00e9 due teste sono meglio di una.<\/p>\n

Anyhow, it\u2019s always nice to hear selfless and sincere advice from a person who cares for you deeply.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ll miss out on your best years<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

If you continue obsessing over someone who doesn\u2019t know you exist or who sees you just as a friend or a friend with benefits, there\u2019s a high chance that you\u2019ll miss out on someone who truly wants to be with you.<\/p>\n

If you continue to think about him, you\u2019ll waste your youth and your best years.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to spend the time of your life when you are supposed to have the most fun in tears and sorrow.<\/p>\n

Meritate di avere qualcuno che vi ami per quello che siete. Meritate qualcuno che sia felice di svegliarsi al vostro fianco ogni mattina.<\/p>\n

Vi meritate una persona che voglia passare il resto della sua vita con voi.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. Stop allo stalking sociale<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Looking at his Facebook profile won\u2019t get you anywhere except to heartbreak.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll stalk him, look at his amazing photos, see where he is going and with who he is with and it will only make you sad and maybe even jealous.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get sucked into an infinite hole of previous information and girlfriends.<\/p>\n

Your obsession will just keep growing as you reveal new things about him. It will be like you\u2019re addicted. You will just keep wanting more.<\/p>\n

6. Recuperare la propria autostima<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Sedetevi e fate una chiacchierata con voi stessi. Ricordate a voi stessi quanto siete straordinari.<\/p>\n

Remind yourself that you don\u2019t need anyone to be happy, especially not someone who doesn\u2019t want to be with you.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 vi negate l'opportunit\u00e0 di incontrare qualcuno che non vi perder\u00e0 mai di vista e che vi protegger\u00e0 da tutto e da tutti?<\/p>\n

You need to realize that if you go on a date with someone and they don\u2019t call you back, it\u2019s not your fault. You are not the one to blame if he didn\u2019t like you but you liked him.<\/p>\n

You need to be patient because if you stick to the one who doesn\u2019t want to be with you, you\u2019ll miss out on the one who does.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t let him take advantage of you<\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

By liking him and getting nothing in return, you\u2019re just going to stay in his shadow.<\/p>\n

Sa che pu\u00f2 contare su di voi in ogni caso e vi user\u00e0 per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vuole.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow yourself to be someone\u2019s causality, someone\u2019s convenient tool for the time he needs it.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 anche attirarvi, dandovi abbastanza attenzione da tenervi agganciati.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll say something or he\u2019ll \u2018open up\u2019 and give you a reason to think he is into you when he\u2019s not. Don\u2019t fall for that and mantenere il rispetto di s\u00e9.<\/a><\/p>\n

Remember that you are one special person. Don\u2019t undermine and disrespect yourself.<\/p>\n

Dovete essere orgogliosi di ci\u00f2 che siete, perch\u00e9 un giorno qualcuno che vi aspettava busser\u00e0 alla vostra porta.<\/p>\n

So, make sure you are there when he does instead of chasing someone who couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

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