{"id":10489,"date":"2017-12-18T08:59:26","date_gmt":"2017-12-18T08:59:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10489"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:47","slug":"9-compromessi-non-fanno-mai-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-compromessi-non-fanno-mai-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"9 compromessi che non si dovrebbero mai fare in una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avere una relazione significa fondere due vite insieme e bisogna scendere a qualche compromesso.<\/p>\n

A little flexibility goes a long way. But compromising on things that make you you\u2014those compromises should make you question staying in such a relationship.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni compromessi che non dovreste mai accettare, a prescindere da quanto amiate l'altra persona, perch\u00e9 se vi chiede di accettarli, forse non si tratta di amore vero e sincero.<\/p>\n

1. Vita sessuale<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/no-emma-stone-andrew-garfield-132j9zkFgTwfkY<\/p>\n

Differences in sex drive are a common thing\u2014there\u2019s no need to feel ashamed if you have a higher or lower sexual drive than your partner. The important thing is to talk and meet on middle ground.<\/p>\n

But if your partner likes kinky stuff, or stuff that borders on true abuse and wants you to go against your will to satisfy him, that\u2019s one compromise you should NEVER ever do.<\/p>\n

Even if he threatens to leave you or tries to guilt trip you, that\u2019s one more reason to leave. That\u2019s no longer a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

2. Obiettivi di carriera<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/suitsusanetwork-suits-donna-paulsen-xTiTnhHipnFWwwtI0U<\/p>\n

Se sognavate di essere un amministratore delegato di un'azienda, siatelo. Se sognavate di essere una mamma casalinga, allora siatelo. La cosa importante una relazione sana<\/a> \u00e8 che il vostro partner vi accetter\u00e0 a prescindere dalla scelta che farete e vi sosterr\u00e0 in questa scelta.<\/p>\n

Giving up on your dreams because someone asked you to do it will only lead you to the pit of unhappiness and despair, and maybe eventually depression. No man\u2019s worth it.<\/p>\n

3. Famiglia e amici<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/4D7ksFSUtsnvO<\/p>\n

When merging two lives together, it also means that you merge a whole bunch of people, too\u2014your friends and family with his friends and family.<\/p>\n

But if that merging means you only get to spend time with HIS friends and HIS family, that\u2019s no longer a compromise\u2014it\u2019s manipulation. Again, communication is important. Talk, discuss, and make the best out of your situation.<\/p>\n

4. Stile di vita<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/fitness-box-lifestyle-QAKOwkCIEEtSU<\/p>\n

If you lived your life to the fullest before you met him, there\u2019s no reason to change that now. You\u2019re into extreme sports and he\u2019s not? He\u2019s into movies and you\u2019re not? There\u2019s no need for both of you to give up on your passions; there\u2019s no need to give up on your lifestyle.<\/a><\/p>\n

You can still have separate life whilst together. There\u2019s a good reason why we make friends. You go hiking, while he goes to the movies. You can sing karaoke, while he drinks and cheers for you.<\/p>\n

Voi potete andare a fare shopping mentre lui fa quello che vuole. L'importante \u00e8 non arrivare a compromessi estremi e a un luogo malsano di perdita di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

5. Sicurezza finanziaria<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/paternitycourt-lauren-lake-paternity-court-l378jgHVYAPPUzagM<\/p>\n

Le cattive abitudini di spesa del vostro partner vi influenzano in pi\u00f9 di un modo. Se pensate di comprare una casa un giorno o addirittura di avviare un'attivit\u00e0 in proprio, ma il vostro partner spende i suoi e i vostri soldi in sciocchezze, potete gettare quel piano nella spazzatura.<\/p>\n

The best thing to do is to have your finances separate until their spending habits get under control. Not having financial security in today\u2019s world is a terrifying thing. No one can spread the love on bread and eat it. Unfortunately, we need money to survive.<\/p>\n

6. Principi<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-lady-gaga-i-love-you-QY8cyikxl1JFS<\/p>\n

With time, we start to sacrifice our principles in order to keep our partners happy. But when to know if it\u2019s enough? If you always hated cheaters and flirty idiots, why do you let him do that now?<\/p>\n

Excuses like \u2018They\u2019re just friends, He\u2019s just joking around.\u2019 are okay if you are truly okay with that kind of behavior. But if there\u2019s the slightest chance of that bothering you, don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Avete sempre sognato di avere tre figli e un matrimonio in grande stile, ma lui non ha intenzione di averne? Da quando devi rinunciare ai tuoi sogni pi\u00f9 grandi solo per renderlo felice?<\/p>\n

7. Necessit\u00e0 di comunicazione<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/chelseashow-chelsea-handler-l1J9IXgmv0iuf6GbK<\/p>\n

I have no idea how many times I said or wrote down: \u2018Communication is important. Communication is key.\u2019 But what to do when your partner avoids talking and ignores your need to discuss things? I\u2019m the kind of person that needs to discuss everything, from the color of shower curtains to which brand of peanut butter I am going to buy.<\/p>\n

As much as I care about myself and my own happiness, I care about his. And in order to make him happy, I need to know how he feels and the way he thinks (hint to fellas: we don\u2019t read minds).<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t care enough to talk with you, to share his feelings, to hear your fears and hopes, maybe he doesn\u2019t care about you that much. This is one compromise no couple should ever make. Nothing good ever came from the silent treatment; yell, scream, talk\u2014just keep the communication flowing.<\/p>\n

8. Mancanza di rispetto<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/relationship-santana-lhhny-QlKoqIKuMBVew<\/p>\n

All couples argue, but no one has the right to undermine the opinion of the other one or treat them badly. If you\u2019re constantly being put down in public or embarrassed, that\u2019s not cute or fun\u2014that\u2019s disrespect.<\/p>\n

Forse dovreste ripensare al vostro se vede la mancanza di rispetto come un semplice divertimento.<\/a><\/p>\n

9. Abuso<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/mic-domestic-abuse-tw-violence-vjsj1yD6vNSYU<\/p>\n

No one should put up with abuse, no matter if he apologizes later on or says he never meant to hurt you. He did and nothing can change that. Leaving abuse is hard, simply because it\u2019s hard to admit that abuse can happen to us.<\/p>\n

I know how hard it can be\u2014you always make up excuses for his behavior: maybe if I didn\u2019t act so stupid, maybe if I didn\u2019t overreact, maybe he would have never snapped. But he did, more than once. Remember, love is not abuse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being in a relationship means merging two lives together and some compromises should be done. A little flexibility goes a long way. But compromising on things that make you you\u2014those compromises should make you question staying in such a relationship. Here are some compromises that you should never make, no matter how much you love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":10497,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/almos-bechtold-429429.jpg",772,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10489","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10489"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10489\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10497"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}