{"id":104914,"date":"2020-10-19T11:22:18","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T11:22:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=104914"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:44:38","slug":"le-anime-gemelle-sono-sopravvalutate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-anime-gemelle-sono-sopravvalutate\/","title":{"rendered":"Le anime gemelle sono sopravvalutate, ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 la connessione e l'impegno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ever since we were little girls, my best friends and I have dreamed about love. The four of us would get together once a month at someone\u2019s house for a sleepover.<\/p>\n

We\u2019d throw a pajama party and talk about what we wanted to be when we grow up. One of us wanted to be a lawyer, another a teacher, the next a doctor, and I wanted to be a writer.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, tutte noi volevamo essere felicemente innamorate. Sognavamo un principe azzurro che galoppasse nelle nostre vite sul suo cavallo bianco e rendesse tutto improvvisamente perfetto.<\/p>\n

Allo stesso tempo, eravamo ossessionati da tutti i film romantici. I nostri cuori si scioglievano ogni volta che vedevamo una ragazza e un ragazzo innamorarsi a prima vista.<\/p>\n

Scommetto che conoscete la procedura: I due si scontrano letteralmente. Lei fa cadere i libri, lui la aiuta a raccoglierli e i loro occhi si incrociano.<\/p>\n

Time stops and in that exact moment, they just know that this is it. They realize they\u2019ve been searching for each other throughout eternity.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whatever happens from that moment on doesn\u2019t really matter. Yes, they go through dozens of obstacles. They need time before they end up together. But eventually they do have their happily ever after.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 sono anime gemelle. Sono destinati a stare insieme e tutto il resto \u00e8 completamente irrilevante.<\/p>\n

Quindi, noi sciocchi volevamo lo stesso tipo di amore. Anzi, pensavamo che qualsiasi cosa diversa da quella fosse un accontentarsi di meno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ci siamo rifiutati di accettare una storia d'amore senza i fuochi d'artificio. Volevamo le farfalle che svolazzano nelle nostre pance e l'intera montagna russa delle emozioni.<\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 di vent'anni dopo, io e i miei migliori amici ci siamo riuniti di nuovo e abbiamo ricordato questo. Abbiamo ricordato i nostri desideri e i nostri sogni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qualcuno di loro si \u00e8 trasformato in realt\u00e0? No. Qualcuno di noi ha trovato l'anima gemella? No. Che tristezza, penserete. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I beg to differ. And you know why? Because soulmates are overrated. In fact, I\u2019m not even sure they exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Actually, as I\u2019m getting older, I\u2019m more and more convinced that it\u2019s nothing but a Hollywood fabrication \u2013 that soulmates are made up by some producer or writer who ran out of ideas to make his work interesting.<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s forget about fairytales, and let\u2019s turn to real life. You know what counts here? Effort, dedication, connection, and compatibility. These are what every healthy relationship is based on.<\/p>\n

Moreover: These are all the things you have to work on. They don\u2019t appear out of nowhere or fall from the sky.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For a romance to succeed, it\u2019s not enough for some random guy on the street to knock you off your feet. It\u2019s not enough for you to feel butterflies throwing a party in your stomach.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest here: Chemistry is important. However, it\u2019s not crucial and it\u2019s definitely not enough to build a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

True love needs fighting. But I don\u2019t mean fighting against the evil forces that try to break you two apart.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m referring to everyday battles that seem completely unimportant and uninteresting, yet actually matter the most.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about fighting against your differences, against the house chores, the finances, the in-laws, the kids who refuse to listen, and a host of other seemingly trivial things.<\/p>\n

You see, there\u2019s a lot of effort that goes into making any relationship work.<\/strong> E la vostra relazione sentimentale non fa eccezione.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t magically be perfect just because you two are a match made in heaven.<\/strong>
\nE indovinate un po'? Non c'\u00e8 nessun \"vissero felici e contenti\".<\/p>\n

When the movie ends and the two protagonists kiss at the altar, you think that this is it \u2013 their battles are over and they\u2019ll have the rest of their lives just to enjoy their love. Well, the truth is quite the opposite.<\/p>\n

In effetti, \u00e8 qui che inizia la vera lotta. Una lotta per mantenere il loro amore, per mantenere salda la loro unione e per rialzarsi pi\u00f9 forte ogni volta che cadono.<\/p>\n

A struggle that lasts a lifetime. Only when you win this war will you understand that what counts is finding your forever person \u2013 not your soulmate.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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