{"id":105096,"date":"2020-10-26T16:09:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-26T16:09:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=105096"},"modified":"2022-11-20T15:20:22","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T15:20:22","slug":"come-parlare-con-un-ragazzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-parlare-con-un-ragazzo\/","title":{"rendered":"Come parlare con un ragazzo che ti piace e far s\u00ec che ti insegua"},"content":{"rendered":"

Wondering how to talk to a guy you like and capture his attention? Worry no more because today you’ll learn how to talk to him in a way that will far s\u00ec che vi insegua<\/a>.<\/p>\n

“Appearance is what attracts people, but personality is what makes them stay.” \u2013 Unknown<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, l'aspetto conta, ma sapere come parlare a un ragazzo \u00e8 il vostro strumento pi\u00f9 potente quando si tratta di attrarlo.<\/p>\n

You could be the most beautiful woman in the world, but if you don’t know how to get a guy’s attention and keep a conversation going, your romance will be doomed before it even starts.<\/p>\n

I used to have a hard time implementing this one into my love life, but once I did, everything changed. I’m no longer that girl sitting in the corner who seldom gets any attention from guys. They now stick to me like glue.<\/p>\n

If you want to be that girl too, it’s time to step up your game and learn how to talk to men and make them do what you want them to do.<\/p>\n

It’s time to show them what a beautiful and inspiring girl you are inside and out, and here’s how you’ll do it.<\/p>\n

Siate positivi e sorridete<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se volete imparare come essere irresistibili per gli uomini<\/a> e come convincere un ragazzo a parlare con te, ho una parola per te: sorriso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every guy is a sucker for a girl’s smile and positive attitude. Instead of worrying about conversation starters, the most important thing is to ooze positive vibes.<\/p>\n

A great conversation is all about that. It’s about sharing your inspiring energy with the guy you like and inspiring him to reciprocate and make an effort to make you smile more.<\/p>\n

So che tutte quelle farfalle nello stomaco possono distrarre, quindi fate qualche respiro profondo prima di iniziare una conversazione con lui. Rilassatevi e seguite il flusso.<\/p>\n

Complimentarsi con lui<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing that works in all social situations, it is compliments. Society teaches us that only girls love to be complimented, but this is not true.<\/p>\n

Anche i ragazzi amano sentirsi dire qualcosa di bello su di s\u00e9. Amano ricevere complimenti per il loro aspetto, la loro personalit\u00e0 e le loro capacit\u00e0 (SPECIALMENTE le capacit\u00e0).<\/p>\n

If your guy does something for you (helps you lift something heavy), don’t forget to commend his strength. Trust me, he will feel like the most powerful guy in the world just because of that simple gesture.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcune idee su come fare i complimenti a un ragazzo per la sua personalit\u00e0:<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re such a great listener.<\/p>\n

Lei ha una personalit\u00e0 cos\u00ec premurosa.<\/p>\n

I’m impressed by your taste in music.<\/p>\n

Oltre ai complimenti, anche fare domande \u00e8 un aspetto importante della conversazione. Assicuratevi di attenersi a domande significative e aperte, che vi aiuteranno a mantenere viva la conversazione.<\/p>\n

Toccarlo (sottilmente)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Surely, your smile will knock him off his feet, but do you know what also will? Your subtle touch. Yes, men love to be unexpectedly touched by a woman during a conversation \u2013 it sparks their imagination.<\/p>\n

Cominciano a immaginare come ci si sentirebbe se i vostri tocchi sfuggenti si trasformassero in qualcosa di pi\u00f9 diretto. Inoltre, vi aiutano a entrare in sintonia con un ragazzo.<\/p>\n

You see, having a conversation is not so much about saying the right words. It’s all about your body language and gestures.<\/p>\n

Sono queste le cose che lo influenzano a livello subconscio e che gli dicono ci\u00f2 che le vostre parole non possono dire.<\/p>\n

Cercare protezione<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Oh, yes! In case you didn’t know, guys love girls who seek protection. By this, I don’t mean seeking protection in a desperate way, but elegantly playing damsel in distress.<\/p>\n

This will rekindle his primal instinct to protect you. If there is a guy you\u2019re into, ask him to defend or shelter you from some danger.<\/p>\n

Ci sono tanti modi in cui potete chiedere il suo aiuto e la sua protezione ed egli sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 che felice di farlo per voi.<\/p>\n

Se riuscite a evocare la sua mascolinit\u00e0 e a farlo sentire speciale aiutandolo, sicuramente conquisterete anche il suo cuore.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Mi piace lui o l'idea di lui? Dare un senso ai propri sentimenti<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Essere misteriosi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mystery. One of the greatest things since sliced bread. If you know how to be mysterious, girl, you’ll make him not only like you, but he will fall in love with you.<\/p>\n

Guys don’t like girls who tell them everything about themselves on the first date. Don’t be one of those girls. Instead, be one who gives it to him bit by bit and never the whole piece.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t quench his thirst and he\u2019ll want to drink more!<\/strong><\/p>\n

When texting, don’t reply the same second. Let him think that you’re busy doing something important or texting with another guy. Make him compete for your attention and wonder what\u2019s happening in your life.<\/p>\n

Think of yourself as a box of chocolate. If you let him eat the whole box at once, he\u2019ll be over it real quick, but if you surprise him from time to time with something new, he will keep coming back for more.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una delle stesse attraenti I trucchi che le donne usano per far sentire la loro mancanza agli uomini<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Impressionatelo con il vostro senso dell'umorismo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Spesso dimentichiamo che anche gli uomini amano ridere. In qualche modo ci si aspetta che siano sempre gli uomini a far ridere le ragazze, tanto che le donne hanno rinunciato a usare il proprio senso dell'umorismo.<\/p>\n

And now it’s time to change that. You don’t need to be a comedian to far ridere un ragazzo.<\/a><\/p>\n

Potete raccontargli qualcosa di divertente che vi \u00e8 successo di recente o un ricordo d'infanzia, inviargli un meme divertente, fare una battuta, ecc.<\/p>\n

But, make sure to avoid becoming a girl who tries too hard to make him laugh all the time. Remember that it\u2019s his job too (and he better be doing it well!)<\/p>\n

Siate civettuoli<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un linguaggio del corpo civettuolo e la scelta corretta delle parole sono vere e proprie gemme. Per imparare a essere flirtante, devi pensare alla conversazione con un ragazzo come a un gioco.<\/p>\n

Combinate un tono di voce roco, un tocco sottile quando meno se lo aspetta, stuzzicatelo con le parole e fatelo lottare duramente per ottenere la vostra attenzione.<\/p>\n

Be flirty with every fiber of your being and he will ENJOY it. This is what adds excitement and fun to the whole conversation. So, the more you act coy, the more he’ll fall for you.<\/p>\n

Avviare la conversazione con interessi comuni<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If there’s one thing I’ve learned when it comes to mastering the art of come parlare a un ragazzo,<\/em> it’s to find a common ground.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect a guy to talk to you about latest fashion shows, makeup, or similar. The best bet is to pick some gender-neutral topics like music, TV shows, or video games.<\/p>\n

Topics to talk about with a guy should be interesting, entertaining, and engaging. Also, the more shared interests you have, the easier you’ll connect with each other.<\/p>\n

Don’t be afraid to contradict him<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Wondering how to keep a guy interested? Here’s a solution: If you really want to win his attention, you need to show him that you have an opinion and aren\u2019t afraid to contradict him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the essence of every interesting conversation. Because good conversation isn\u2019t only about nodding and exchanging words. It\u2019s about having your own opinions and passionately expressing yourself.<\/p>\n

Inevitably there\u2019ll be something you won\u2019t agree with him on. This doesn’t mean you should pretend that you do even when you don’t.<\/p>\n

Instead, use this situation to playfully contradict him and give him a new perspective on things. Trust me, unless he has mental health issues, he\u2019ll be more than amazed by it!<\/p>\n

Siate gentili e sicuri di voi stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Make sure to be polite toward everyone around you and not only a guy you’re talking to. He’ll notice all that. Also, be confident!<\/p>\n

Uno dei miei migliori amici una volta ha detto: Se una ragazza \u00e8 sicura di s\u00e9, pu\u00f2 conquistare qualsiasi uomo in un secondo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You show your confidence with the way you walk, talk, and smile \u2013 in other words, not only your words, but also your body language.<\/p>\n

And if you’re not feeling extra confident because you’re usually anxious when it comes to talking to guys, then fake it till you make it! I myself faked it many times and every single time it worked.<\/p>\n

Show him that you’re a woman who is confident in herself, who knows what she wants and how to get it. That’s the true recipe to winning any man’s heart.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Cose di cui parlare con un ragazzo: 13 modi per mantenerlo interessato<\/p>\n

Don’t gossip or use foul language<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I think there’s no need to explain this one. Gossiping and foul language are a huge turn-off for guys because such behavior is neither feminine or sophisticated.<\/p>\n

Essere se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

And remember to be yourself! Mass media often forces us to behave in certain ways and we start detaching from our true self. Don’t let that happen.<\/p>\n

Be yourself in real life and on social media as well. Don’t pretend you’re something you’re not because you’ll turn him into a confused man.<\/p>\n

Don’t live a fake life. Be unique and every guy will love that part of you more than anything else.<\/p>\n

And here\u2019s a simple trick I\u2019ve used with great success when I\u2019m overly anxious about talking to a guy for the first time: Pretend that he’s a family member or il tuo amico maschio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It makes it that much easier when it comes to talking to a guy you don’t know (yet), both in person and over text.<\/p>\n

Fatelo lavorare duramente per conquistarvi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Come parlare a un ragazzo che vi piace in modo da impressionarlo? In pratica, tutto ci\u00f2 che dovete fare \u00e8 far s\u00ec che lui si impegni a fondo per conquistarvi.<\/p>\n

Don’t be too available. Maintain mystery, but don’t overdo a game of playing hard to get either. The secret lies in finding a balance between the two.<\/p>\n

Make him work hard to win you and he will make an effort to show you that he’s the right man for you.<\/p>\n

If a man sees you as a challenge, he will do everything in his power to pursue you and show you that he’s the one who deserves to be with you.<\/p>\n

E nel caso in cui le cose si facciano cattive, ecco qualche consiglio in pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come parlare sporco a un ragazzo senza mettersi in imbarazzo<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Ditegli tutte le cose che volete che vi faccia.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Il turpiloquio \u00e8 una vera e propria forma d'arte. Se volete impressionare il vostro uomo con la vostra abilit\u00e0, dovete dirgli tutte le cose che volete che vi faccia.<\/p>\n

I know you have that imaginary list of kinky questions to ask your partner, so now\u2019s the time to use it.<\/p>\n

As you’re telling him all your fantasies, make sure to establish deep eye contact \u2013 that screams confidence. You want him to see that you’re serious about it, that you really mean it.<\/p>\n

Si potrebbe dire qualcosa come: “I want you to start kissing me slowly all over my body…”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Digli cosa vuoi fargli<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Another great way to spice things up is by telling your guy what you want to do to him. This will drive him insane and he won\u2019t be able to control himself (especially if you whisper it to his ear when you’re in public).<\/p>\n

Also, you can choose to be naughty over text messages as well. If you’re wondering how to do it over the phone, here are some examples to get you started:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen you get here, I\u2019m going to slowly undress\u2026 but there\u2019ll be one rule you need to obey: You can\u2019t touch me until I tell you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Tonight you’ll be my slave and I plan on doing terribly naughty things to you.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

“I want you to take your clothes off, lie down, and shut up.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

“You’re so hot. I want to taste all of you right now.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 400 frasi sconce per rimorchiare (l'elenco definitivo)<\/p>\n

Raccontagli di quel sogno sconcio che hai fatto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I’m sure you had a couple of naughty dreams so far and now is the right time to share them with your guy. And even if you haven\u2019t had one, you have every right to pretend you did.<\/p>\n

Potete iniziare la conversazione con qualcosa di simile: “I had the dirtiest dream last night\u2026 You were there with me and we were\u2026”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Quando inizierete a parlarne, vi guarder\u00e0 come una dea. I ragazzi amano le storie sporche e soprattutto se hanno avuto il ruolo principale. Pi\u00f9 dettagli gli fornite, meglio \u00e8.<\/p>\n

Ricordate di menzionare il vestito sexy che indossavate nel sogno, perch\u00e9 gli uomini sono creature visive.<\/p>\n

Una volta che il vostro uomo avr\u00e0 un'immagine vivida del vostro sogno, sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 che eccitato per quello che accadr\u00e0 dopo, ma questa volta nella realt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Condividete con lui le vostre fantasie segrete<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Molto spesso le persone hanno difficolt\u00e0 a condividere le loro fantasie con gli altri perch\u00e9 hanno paura di essere giudicate per questo.<\/p>\n

But, trust me, there’s nothing you should be ashamed of, no matter how crazy you think your fantasies are.<\/p>\n

Get out of your comfort zone and get naughty with your man (verbally naughty) by sharing all your secret fantasies with him. Okay, you don’t need to share all of them, but perhaps only your favorite.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcune fantasie comuni che vi aiuteranno a stimolare la memoria:<\/p>\n

Potenza e controllo<\/p>\n

Fare qualcosa di perverso<\/p>\n

Fare qualcosa di nuovo (posizioni e luoghi selvaggi)<\/p>\n

Non monogamia<\/p>\n

Sharing your fantasies is a great way to spice up things in the bedroom and your relationship. Since it\u2019s not something easily shared with others, when it is, it has the power to strengthen your trust bond.<\/p>\n

Fategli capire che volete avere il controllo<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If you ask any guy out there, he will tell you that there’s nothing hotter than a girl who is in control. In order to be dominant, you need to be self-confident and know what you’re doing.<\/p>\n

If you let him know that you’re capable of all that, he will be smitten by you. All you have to do is establish rules so that he knows what he can and cannot do to you.<\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 dire qualcosa come: “Tonight I’m in charge. If you try to do something you’re not supposed to, I’ll have to punish you.”<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

E ricordate di divertirvi!<\/h2>\n

Invece di preoccuparvi eccessivamente di come parlare con un ragazzo che vi piace, quello su cui dovete concentrarvi \u00e8 godervi il momento. Rilassatevi e siate voi stesse e, credetemi, tutto andr\u00e0 per il meglio.<\/p>\n

Regarding dirty talk, you don’t need to force things if you don\u2019t feel ready for it. You can start with some, let’s say, lighter dirty phrases and then switch to the heavy stuff.<\/p>\n

L'importante \u00e8 che entrambi vi godiate il tempo trascorso insieme e tutto il resto andr\u00e0 al suo posto! Buona fortuna e coraggio!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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