{"id":10563,"date":"2019-12-19T10:12:55","date_gmt":"2019-12-19T10:12:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10563"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:35:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:35:11","slug":"grazie-finalmente-in-partenza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grazie-finalmente-in-partenza\/","title":{"rendered":"Grazie per avermi finalmente lasciato"},"content":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t know how long I hated you, how long I wanted to destroy you the way you destroyed me. <\/span>But I\u2019m finally over it, I\u2019m finally over you.<\/b> So, I\u2019m using this chance to thank you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Grazie per essere stata la lezione pi\u00f9 dura che abbia mai imparato.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for treating me the way you did. Thank you for never supporting me, for making me feel like I wasn\u2019t enough. Because, you see, now I know my worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ora so di meritare di essere amata, di essere abbracciata e accudita. Merito qualcuno che esca con me per il resto della nostra vita, solo perch\u00e9 lo vuole. Merito qualcuno che mi veda cos\u00ec come sono e mi ami comunque.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9, <\/span>it took me two years with you to realize that I\u2019m perfect the way I am.<\/b> That I don\u2019t have to change for anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for not loving me. The hardest thing I ever did was beg you to love me. I tried so hard to be perfect for you, I tried so hard to be something I wasn\u2019t, hoping maybe you would love me then. <\/span><\/p>\n

If I try just a little bit more, maybe I\u2019ll be enough for you.<\/b> Ma non lo sono mai stata. E quando te ne sei andato, non sapevo pi\u00f9 chi ero. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quindi, grazie per avermi fatto a pezzi, perch\u00e9 ho avuto l'occasione di ricostruirmi da capo.<\/a> Ho avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di amare ognuno di quei pezzi e di reincollarli come volevo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi tradito. Pi\u00f9 di una volta. <\/span>Perch\u00e9 ora so che non essere abbastanza non \u00e8 mai stata colpa mia.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ora so che non ti \u00e8 mai importato nulla di me, ma solo di avere qualcuno che rafforzasse il tuo ego. E sai qual \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 triste? Ero pronta a essere il tuo ego per tutta la vita, ero pronta a perdonarti per avermi tradito. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ora lo so meglio. Ora so com'\u00e8 il vero amore, so com'\u00e8 l'impegno. <\/span>Ora so che la nostra era solo una relazione unilaterale.<\/b><\/p>\n

Grazie per avermi lasciato quando avevo pi\u00f9 bisogno di te. Perch\u00e9 ora so come prendermi cura di me stessa. Ora so come amarmi come tu non hai mai saputo fare. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now I know that I wasn\u2019t unlovable, it was you who was incapable of loving.<\/span> Quindi, grazie per avermi lasciato, perch\u00e9 mi ha salvato la vita.<\/b> Mi ha dato una nuova possibilit\u00e0 di vivere. <\/span><\/p>\n

It gave me a fresh start with a new, better and stronger me. Me who loves herself, me who doesn\u2019t need a man to feel loved.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you for leaving me, because I can finally look back and see how much I\u2019ve changed. <\/span>Vedere quella bambina distrutta crescere fino a diventare una donna straordinaria e fiera.<\/b> Una donna che non si vergogna pi\u00f9 di essere rimasta in una relazione tossica. Una donna che non si rimprovera pi\u00f9 di aver dato tutto quello che aveva a te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now I know it was never my fault. Now I know that you were a lesson I needed to learn in order to learn to love myself, in order to see what true love really is. And what we had was never love. It was just another story of toxic love, but this one has a happy ending. You see, you may have broken me, but I\u2019m still standing. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m still breathing and my heart is beating.<\/span> I\u2019m still loving, but this time, myself.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t know how long I hated you, how long I wanted to destroy you the way you destroyed me. But I\u2019m finally over it, I\u2019m finally over you. So, I\u2019m using this chance to thank you. Thank you for being the toughest lesson I have ever learned. Thank you for treating me the way…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":10581,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/giancarlo-bastos-189883.jpg",800,567,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10563\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10581"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}