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<\/p>\nVi sentite un fallimento a causa di una relazione fallita? Molti di noi lo fanno.
\nCosa si pu\u00f2 fare?<\/p>\n
Well, the first step is to stop believing you\u2019re beyond repair or doomed. That\u2019s simply not true.
\nLa seconda cosa \u00e8 che dovete smettere di provare risentimento per l'altra persona.<\/p>\n
Sometimes relationships aren’t about the other person but you.<\/p>\n
Of course, the point of a relationship should be both of you, together, but I’m talking about curveballs that life throws at us in the form of a relationship.<\/p>\n
If you had a relationship that made you insecure about yourself, the way you look, what you do, how you do it, the way you are\u2026 take it as a lesson.<\/p>\n
Questo accade spesso dopo le relazioni tossiche, che di solito includono l'abuso verbale: sminuire, svergognare o lasciare cadere casualmente commenti che ovviamente vi feriscono pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte.<\/p>\n
It’s so easy to fall under someone\u2019s spell \u2013 and not just in a romantic sense. It’s easy to start believing what other people think of you. It\u2019s easy to lose a sense of self.<\/p>\n
I’m here to tell you that whatever happened to you, whatever is said to or about you, doesn’t define you. If you’ve been left by someone you loved deeply, that doesn\u2019t define you.<\/p>\n
It hurts like hell. It’s real. It’s part of you. But it doesn’t define you. You’re not a girl who’s been left. You’re not someone\u2019s pastime or second option.<\/p>\n
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However, to realize that, you first must believe it yourself. That’s where any healthy relationship starts: with self-love.<\/p>\n
In effetti, la maggior parte delle nostre relazioni sono solo lo specchio di ci\u00f2 che pensiamo di noi stessi e di come ci trattiamo.<\/p>\n
In this case, there’s a possibility you already thought you weren\u2019t not good enough even before the first unsuccessful relationship.<\/p>\n
You may have been carrying that belief about yourself since you were little, and now it\u2019s manifesting through your romantic relationships. Think about it. Why don’t YOU think you’re worth keeping?<\/p>\n
Whatever you come up with can be changed. Our personalities aren’t set in stone. You can be whatever you want, you just have to believe it first.<\/p>\n
Il magnetismo che attira le persone e le aiuta a restare insieme \u00e8 pi\u00f9 forte quando entrambi i partner sono autentici.<\/p>\n
Men don\u2019t want women to control them. Men want companions. They want a partner in crime. Even when they don\u2019t know it.<\/p>\n
If there\u2019s no personality, no authenticity, there\u2019s nothing to pull them in and make them stay.<\/p>\n
La cattiva notizia \u00e8 che non tutte le donne lo capiscono. La buona notizia \u00e8 che potete sempre cambiare questa situazione iniziando ad amare voi stessi.<\/p>\n
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Tutti noi abbiamo quel qualcosa di speciale che ci rende una persona da tenere d'occhio. Pi\u00f9 vi comportate come voi stessi, maggiore \u00e8 la possibilit\u00e0 che vi trovi qualcuno a cui piacete per quello che siete.<\/p>\n
Once that person comes into your life, you\u2019ll forget that you ever thought about not being a keeper and crying over some half-relationships you had.<\/p>\n
Come ho detto prima, a volte le esperienze traumatiche o strazianti servono a ricordarci di noi stessi, a ricordarci i nostri bisogni.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s time to stop thinking about that last person who hurt you and start thinking about why you\u2019re hurt.<\/p>\n
I promise you that once you find the source of your pain (that isn\u2019t another person), you\u2019ll find freedom. You\u2019ll be in control of your own emotions.<\/p>\n
It doesn\u2019t matter that you\u2019re not a keeper to someone else, what matters is that you genuinely feel good in your own skin.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s when good things start to happen. That\u2019s when life finally starts feeling right.
\nDon\u2019t be afraid to say goodbye to things you know aren\u2019t good for you, even if you\u2019re crying while doing it.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s something better waiting for you. There\u2019s someone who\u2019s going to make you feel like you\u2019re the only person in the world and, trust me, that will make up for all the times you felt like you weren\u2019t.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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