{"id":10578,"date":"2020-11-19T10:13:23","date_gmt":"2020-11-19T10:13:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10578"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:25:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:25:01","slug":"se-te-ne-vai-non-tornare-a-chiedere-una-seconda-possibilita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-te-ne-vai-non-tornare-a-chiedere-una-seconda-possibilita\/","title":{"rendered":"Se dovete andarvene, non tornate indietro chiedendo una seconda possibilit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se siete stati abbastanza fortunati da trovare la ragazza che vi ama alla follia e che farebbe di tutto per il ragazzo che le piace, siate abbastanza intelligenti da tenervela.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be just another fuckboy whose intentions are just to use her kindness because, regardless of how good she is, if you cross the line, if she decides it\u2019s over, it\u2019s over forever.<\/p>\n<p>You might not have had the chance to meet someone like her, but that doesn\u2019t give you the right to mistreat her or to behave toward her like you did toward other girls.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make the assumption that she\u2019s the same as any other airheaded girl who was hitting on you. This one is one of the good girls, this one is gold. You\u2019ll be able to see it by the way she treats you.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s a believer. <\/b> She has a heart as big as space and she\u2019s the one who gives all of herself to love. She\u2019s one of those rare girls who loves and doesn\u2019t hold back in love.<\/p>\n<p>Spera sempre in giorni migliori e cerca sempre di trovare qualcosa di buono anche nelle situazioni peggiori. Rimane accanto a coloro che ama anche quando le cose si fanno difficili. Ma quando le persone le voltano le spalle, non le prega mai di tornare indietro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123670 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una bella bruna triste nel parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s a fighter. <\/b> Combatte per tutto ci\u00f2 che crede valga la pena. Non si riposa nemmeno per un secondo finch\u00e9 le persone a cui tiene non sono felici.<\/p>\n<p>Spesso rinuncia alla propria felicit\u00e0 solo per vedere felici coloro a cui tiene. Combatte con ogni essere del suo corpo e lotta fino all'ultimo respiro.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s a forgiver. <\/b> She forgives so easily. Because she always tries to understand, she tries to put herself in other people&#8217;s shoes and she just can\u2019t hold grudges.<\/p>\n<p>Anche quando le persone la feriscono, anche quando le spezzano il cuore, trova un modo per giustificare le loro azioni. E anche se ricorda quello che \u00e8 successo, anche se le fa male, cerca di lasciare tutto nel passato e di andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma sa anche quando \u00e8 sufficiente.<\/b> She might try with all her being for the things she wants in her life, she might forgive all the mistakes and she might believe in something with all her heart, but she can also give up on everything the minute she sees you\u2019re not in it as much as she is.<\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s the type of girl who loves wholeheartedly, but she\u2019s also the type of girl who won\u2019t put up with someone who doesn\u2019t see her worth.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t ever settle for someone who doesn&#8217;t\u2019 respect her or who doesn\u2019t appreciate her values and, most importantly, she won\u2019t welcome back someone who had the audacity to walk away.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123673 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"la brunetta si siede sul molo del lago e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-brunette-sits-on-the-lake-pier-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>If she\u2019s the one to fight for love, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-situazioni-vuole-combattere\/\">si aspetta di non essere l'unica a combattere.<\/a> If you\u2019re ready to turn your back on her once, she\u2019s ready to turn hers on you forever. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Just because she\u2019s been so good to you does not give you permission to take her for granted.<\/b> You don\u2019t get to treat her poorly.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t get to take her for granted or use her and then leave her, thinking you\u2019ll find someone better than her.<\/p>\n<p>And moreover, you don\u2019t get to come back and ask for another chance once you realize there isn\u2019t a better one than her. Because that is exactly how things will turn out.<\/p>\n<p><b>Le persone hanno la tendenza a dare per scontate le cose belle. <\/b> And once they get used to good things they tend to think that they deserve better and more, so they forget what they have next to them. But don\u2019t ever allow this to happen to you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Regardless of how good she is, she isn\u2019t stupid enough to welcome back someone who had the audacity to walk away from her.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123676 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something.jpg\" alt=\"un&#039;attraente donna di colore rifiuta un uomo che la supplica per qualcosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/an-attractive-black-woman-rejects-a-man-begging-her-for-something-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t that naive and she has more self-love than you\u2019re able to wrap your head around. She will never let someone who once walked away from her to come back. She\u2019ll never give anyone the chance to hurt her the same twice.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you\u2019re going to walk away and only then see her worth, you don\u2019t deserve her. <\/b> If you\u2019re only going to see how much she means to you once you don\u2019t have her anymore, you\u2019re not the one for her.<\/p>\n<p>If you walk away, don\u2019t bother coming back. Once you leave, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/nessuna-seconda-possibilita-sprecata\/\">don\u2019t come back asking for a second chance<\/a> because she isn\u2019t a girl who gives second chances.<\/p>\n<p><b>She deserves someone who\u2019ll appreciate her all the time. <\/b> Merita di essere rispettata e di avere qualcuno su cui poter contare.<\/p>\n<p>And she\u2019s aware of what she deserves so she won\u2019t settle for less. Do yourself a favor and value her while you still have the chance.<\/p>\n<p><i> And if you\u2019re going to walk away, don\u2019t bother coming back. Let someone else appreciate her and give her everything she deserves. Let someone else worthy of her love take your place.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123680 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se dovete andarvene, non tornate indietro chiedendo una seconda possibilit\u00e0\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you were lucky enough to find the girl who loves you to the moon and back and who\u2019d do anything for the guy she likes, be smart enough to keep her. Don\u2019t be just another fuckboy whose intentions are just to use her kindness because, regardless of how good she is, if you cross&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":123668,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10578","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/If-Youre-Going-To-Walk-Away-Dont-Come-Back-Asking-For-A-Second-Chance-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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