L'unica cosa che posso dire con certezza ora \u00e8 che L'amore \u00e8 un'emozione cos\u00ec potente e allo stesso tempo cos\u00ec strana.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s powerful in the way that it can cure even the most damaged hearts and bring back faith in life even to those people who completely lost it.<\/em><\/p>\n Why is it weird? Well, it takes over your heart but it also has command over your mind and body too. Sometimes it makes you so blind that you can’t see even the most obvious things.<\/p>\n L'amore vale la pena di rischiare tutto? Vale la pena rischiare di farsi spezzare il cuore? Vale la pena di passare attraverso tanto dolore e dramma?<\/p>\n Naturalmente, nella vita non c'\u00e8 mai nulla di certo. Non possiamo mai essere sicuri di ci\u00f2 che ci riserva il futuro e a volte dobbiamo semplicemente rischiare e fare qualcosa anche se potrebbe rivelarsi negativo per noi.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, questo dilemma non \u00e8 cos\u00ec semplice.<\/p>\n Our heart is suffering because the person we love doesn’t love us in the same way but our heart also aches at the bare thought that we should let them go and move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n How can we make a decision when we know that it’ll hurt us badly, no matter what we decide? It seems like we actually have to decide what will hurt us less.<\/p>\n L'amore \u00e8 davvero cos\u00ec potente che se qualcuno vi d\u00e0 cos\u00ec tanti motivi per andarsene e voi avete solo QUELLO per restare, avete solo il vostro amore, \u00e8 davvero sufficiente? Questo vi renderebbe onestamente felici?<\/p>\n L'amore pu\u00f2 davvero farvi dimenticare tutti gli altri lati, tutti i lati negativi, della vostra relazione? Ha anche questo potere?<\/p>\n The thing is that for the rest of your life, you won’t be able to justify him treating you badly with the fact that he loves you and you love him.<\/p>\n Just because you love him, you can’t keep forgiving him for his mistakes. It’s not true love then, it’s just infatuation. And be careful, as those two are very similar so you may confuse them.<\/p>\n However, there is one very important difference between them, that true love is timeless, it doesn’t have an expiry date, while infatuation only lasts for some time and makes you obsessed with a person.<\/p>\n The sad truth is that it’ll really hurt you no matter what decision you make. But that’s just how life is and sometimes it truly isn’t fair and it seems like it’s only playing with us.<\/p>\n You know, I was once at the same crossroads where you’re now standing. I was also suffering the way you do now.<\/p>\n Anch'io pregavo Dio, proprio come voi ora. Gli ho chiesto di indicarmi la direzione giusta.<\/strong> But that wasn’t happening because He wanted to make me come to the right decision by myself.<\/p>\n Amavo quell'uomo, anche se in realt\u00e0 non mi ha mai dato delle buone ragioni per farlo. Ero profondamente innamorata di lui anche se le sue azioni mi ferivano cos\u00ec spesso, anche se mi spezzava il cuore ogni giorno, pezzo per pezzo.<\/em><\/p>\n It’s the weird side of love. Continuavo a chiudere gli occhi di fronte alla verit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n Anche se il mio cuore era gi\u00e0 in mille pezzi, continuava a funzionare e a portare con s\u00e9 la stessa quantit\u00e0 di amore, l'amore per l'uomo che in realt\u00e0 era colpevole di tutto il suo dolore e che lo aveva spezzato.<\/p>\n I made my decision and chose a direction a while ago. That was a really tough call but I don\u2019t regret it so now I know it definitely was the right one.<\/em><\/p>\n You have to fall in love with yourself again. 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