{"id":10737,"date":"2019-12-21T09:24:46","date_gmt":"2019-12-21T09:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10737"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:39:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:39:02","slug":"non-voglio-uscire-con-una-ragazza-come","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-voglio-uscire-con-una-ragazza-come\/","title":{"rendered":"Non vuoi uscire con una ragazza come me"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve read so many times how boys have made girls think they\u2019re not worthy or how they broke them and how they left them to pick up their pieces after they were gone.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t want that to happen to me. I don\u2019t want you to make me fall for you and then you choose to not date me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to leave me to handle all the emotions you\u2019ve awoken in me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve always been a bit different, so if you\u2019re not ready to accept me as I am, trust me\u2014you don\u2019t want to date me.<\/p>\n

Sono un disastro.<\/span><\/h2>\n

I\u2019m still figuring out my life and everything about me is messy.<\/p>\n

I listen to all sorts of songs because I still haven\u2019t decided what kind of music I like. Sometimes I do a thousand things in a single day and sometimes I don\u2019t feel like getting out of bed.<\/p>\n

Sometimes I love being around people and I\u2019m the funniest person to be around and sometimes I don\u2019t feel like talking at all.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just who I am and I have no idea how long it will take me to un-mess myself.<\/p>\n

Sono una persona che pensa troppo.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Essere un pensatore eccessivo<\/a> is something I\u2019m pretty sure I\u2019ll remain as long as I am alive. I want to know why and I need to find the meaning in everything.<\/p>\n

Ho difficolt\u00e0 a lasciar andare le cose. Penso a una semplice cosa in cento modi diversi, analizzo ogni singolo scenario e anche se scelgo il migliore ho sempre paura che qualcosa vada storto.<\/p>\n

Continuo a riconsiderare me stessa e faccio fatica ad addormentarmi perch\u00e9 ripasso mille volte nella mia testa tutte le cose che sono andate male.<\/p>\n

Potreste voler cambiare questo aspetto di me, ma credetemi, i vostri sforzi saranno vani.<\/p>\n

Non sono affatto perfetto.<\/span><\/h2>\n

I know I\u2019m not perfect and I know I have thousands of imperfections. I have freckles on my nose, I laugh a lot and that\u2019s why I have a lot of wrinkles around my eyes, and my body has stretch marks.<\/p>\n

I often forget things and I make promises that are hard to keep and I try harder than anyone else would and I even try to be perfect even though I know I\u2019m far from perfect.<\/p>\n

I like to call myself a perfect imperfection and if you\u2019re looking for a girl without a single flaw then I\u2019m not the one for you. Leave me for someone who\u2019ll take me as I am and love me despite my imperfections.<\/p>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Sono emotivo.<\/span><\/h2>\n

I don\u2019t even think emotional can describe me to begin with. I laugh a lot. My laugh is hilarious and once I start laughing I don\u2019t stop until tears start rolling down my face.<\/p>\n

Piango spesso. Piango quando vedo persone anziane sole, piango quando vedo un cucciolo e piango durante i film, sia che li guardi a casa da sola sia che li guardi al cinema con i miei amici.<\/p>\n

I just can\u2019t help myself. I feel everything and I feel it so intensely and I can\u2019t switch it off. If you hate emotions, if you\u2019re a cold type of a guy, you don\u2019t want to date me, trust me.<\/p>\n

Porto il mio cuore sulla manica.<\/span><\/h2>\n

I don\u2019t pretend and I am bad at lying. My cheeks blush instantly, my heart starts beating way too fast and I start mumbling.<\/p>\n

I gave up on playing games a long time ago, it just isn\u2019t my thing. And if I like someone, I make sure they\u2019re aware of it.<\/p>\n

I give them my heart and my soul even if they might not be good to me. If I don\u2019t like someone, I stay far away from them and I don\u2019t ever pretend I like them; it\u2019s really easy to read me.<\/p>\n

So if you don\u2019t like straightforward people, I\u2019m afraid I won\u2019t be your favorite person in this world. Dating me won\u2019t be something you\u2019ll enjoy either.<\/p>\n

E quando amo, amo con tutto il cuore.<\/span><\/h2>\n

I don\u2019t hold back in love. I never did. I guess that\u2019s why I had my cuore spezzato una volta di troppo.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ma non imparo mai. Niente mi impedisce di innamorarmi perdutamente di qualcuno.<\/p>\n

I just don\u2019t think love is something you should half do. That\u2019s why when I love, I love wholeheartedly.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re more for playing games, if you only do love occasionally, if you guard your heart and if you\u2019re afraid to love, please, for the sake of both of us, stay far away and don\u2019t bother dating me.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t handle everything I am, don\u2019t date me. Don\u2019t even try and make me fall for you just so you could leave once I welcome you into my heart.<\/p>\n

If I\u2019m too much, I understand.<\/p>\n

Perhaps I\u2019ll be just enough to someone else. Don\u2019t destroy me just so you\u2019d see if we could work out.<\/p>\n

If I am not the type of girl you like, then don\u2019t date me.<\/p>\n

But if you are up for it, don\u2019t expect me to change and don\u2019t try changing me. Accept me as I am. I don\u2019t ask for anything more than this.<\/i><\/p>\n

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