{"id":107811,"date":"2020-10-28T16:16:16","date_gmt":"2020-10-28T16:16:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=107811"},"modified":"2022-10-23T09:09:46","modified_gmt":"2022-10-23T09:09:46","slug":"imbroglioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/imbroglioni\/","title":{"rendered":"Come reagiscono i traditori quando vengono accusati? (9 modi scioccanti)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you doubt your partner&#8217;s fidelity and want to confront them about it, the first question you probably have is:<\/p>\n<p>Come reagiscono i traditori quando vengono accusati? Che tipo di comportamento ci si pu\u00f2 aspettare quando si affronta un tema cos\u00ec delicato?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s more than enough that you have seen all the signs of cheating. You&#8217;re heartbroken and emotionally devastated by the mere thought that your partner stabbed you in the back like this.<\/p>\n<p>On top of it all, now you must take over the role of a lie detector and do your best to get to the bottom of their reaction. Are they lying to get away with infidelity? Did you really imagine things and they&#8217;re telling the truth?<\/p>\n<p>La buona notizia \u00e8 che i nostri esperti di relazioni vi daranno le risposte a tutte queste domande, compresa quella pi\u00f9 importante: Come reagiscono i traditori quando vengono accusati?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rifiuto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107857 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-6.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano seduti sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-6.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-6-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-6-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-talking-6-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How do cheaters react when confronted? Well, most married men and women&#8217;s first impulse is to deny everything.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non c'\u00e8 molto da filosofeggiare al riguardo; vi diranno semplicemente che la loro relazione non \u00e8 mai avvenuta e che si tratta di false accuse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, your cheater can\u2019t be sure how much you know. They\u2019re not even certain whether you\u2019re bluffing or not, so this is always the first card they\u2019ll play.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they have nothing to lose. If they\u2019ve been caught, nothing they can say can fix the situation.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you\u2019re really bluffing, the worst thing they can do is admit everything. In that scenario, they would be signing their own death sentence.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, most cheaters think that denial is the only way out of this horrible situation. No matter how strong the evidence you have is, they will try to convince you that they\u2019re the one telling the truth.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if your best friend saw your partner with another man or woman, naturally, you\u2019ll want to talk to your other half about it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, invece di ammettere i propri errori, probabilmente faranno del loro meglio per convincervi che il vostro amico sta mentendo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107863 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-5.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna seduto a tavola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-5-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Everyone who can confirm your story is allegedly manipulating you and they\u2019re all jealous of your idyllic love life. These are all false accusations!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sounds familiar, doesn\u2019t it? Well, it\u2019s a common tactic all adulterers use to brainwash their victims. You see, this technique works in most cases.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you like it or not, after you hear them convincing you, you\u2019ll start doubting something you know is true.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che volete crederci. Volete che tutto questo sia solo un malinteso e che non sia altro che un brutto sogno.<\/p>\n<p>On top of that, they\u2019re so persuasive. You can show them proof or bring out witnesses but they will stick to their story.<\/p>\n<p>Believe it or not, there is a subgroup of cheaters who wouldn\u2019t admit to having an affair even if their life depended on it.<\/p>\n<p>You might be the one who caught them red-handed but even that won\u2019t be reason enough for them to come clean.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Giochi di colpa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107867 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-6.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna in piedi vicino alla porta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-6.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-6-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-6-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-6-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How many times have you heard the infamous sentence, \u201cMy significant other accused me of cheating but they pushed me to have an affair,\u201d while talking to an adulterer?<\/p>\n<p><strong>These are the people who can\u2019t or don\u2019t want to accept responsibility for their own actions. Instead, they try to make you, the person they consciously cheated on, feel guilty for their unfaithfulness.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Reading it like this, you notice how absurd this sounds, right? Well, what\u2019s even worse is that this keeps on happening.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In effetti, una delle risposte pi\u00f9 comuni alla domanda su come si comportano i traditori quando vengono accusati \u00e8 che cercheranno di impegnarsi nel gioco della colpa.<\/p>\n<p>Secondo gli esperti di relazioni, questo \u00e8 un modo in cui l'adultero proietta il proprio senso di colpa sulla vittima. Improvvisamente la situazione si ribalta e l'adultero diventa l'accusatore.<\/p>\n<p>Una delle loro prime scuse sar\u00e0 che si sono sentiti trascurati emotivamente nella relazione. Questo ha avuto un impatto sulla loro salute emotiva e mentale e ha distrutto la loro autostima.<\/p>\n<p>They weren\u2019t getting enough attention, you weren\u2019t intimate as often as they wished, they feel like you never listen to them, they think you don\u2019t understand them, you were working too much, which left you no time for them&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The list goes on and on. You see, some cheaters really believe in all of these things they\u2019re saying. This is especially true for married women and men.<\/p>\n<p>Sono quelli che di solito si lamentano che il loro matrimonio \u00e8 caduto in un solco e che sono stati quasi costretti a cercare un po' di eccitazione altrove.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107868 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-11.jpg\" alt=\"donna arrabbiata che guarda l&#039;uomo mentre \u00e8 seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-11.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-11-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-11-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-11-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-11-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How convenient, isn&#8217;t it? It\u2019s easier for them to accept what they\u2019ve done if they make you look like the bad guy of the story.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In questo caso, all'improvviso, lui o lei vi accusano di tutto ci\u00f2 che non va in una relazione. Prima che ve ne rendiate conto, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 stata stravolta.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Now, you find yourself apologizing for something the cheater did. Apparently, they would never have made such a mistake if you hadn\u2019t made them do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t misunderstand me; it\u2019s possible that they really did feel like this. You might have given your entire self but for some people, that\u2019s not enough and they end up feeling neglected, unloved or unwanted.<\/p>\n<p>However, that is no justification for their horrible actions. You see, if your partner wasn\u2019t happy next to you, they could have left you in good time before having an affair.<\/p>\n<p>Please, don\u2019t allow them to make you feel guilty and don\u2019t play along with this blame game. Remember one thing: you\u2019re the victim here and the victim is never to blame!<\/p>\n<p>Cheating was their choice, which they consciously made. Your behavior could never make them do something they didn\u2019t want to do.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, if they noticed your relationship was in trouble, why didn\u2019t they do something to improve it? Why didn\u2019t they talk to you about it in time?<\/p>\n<p>Why didn\u2019t they tell you how they felt before fooling around behind your back? After all, they have no trouble expressing their dissatisfaction now, do they?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Correlato: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-traditori-sentono-la-mancanza-del-loro-ex\/\">Ai traditori manca l'ex? La verit\u00e0 svelata<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Scuse vuote<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107870 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-7.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-7-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-7-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-7-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Secondo gli esperti di relazioni, quando le persone tradiscono, raramente si assumono la piena responsabilit\u00e0 delle loro azioni. Invece di sostenere i propri errori, cercano di coprire tutto ci\u00f2 che hanno fatto.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u00c8 stato un caso isolato.<\/strong><\/em> <strong>(It lasted for a couple of months but I really do hope that you didn\u2019t dig around and find all the details.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Mi ha manipolato per farmi stare con lei.<\/strong><\/em> <strong>(Apparently, I\u2019m nothing but an immature boy who can\u2019t make decisions on his own. This mean girl wanted to destroy our relationship and she tricked me into cheating on you.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Ero ubriaco e ancora non ho idea di cosa ho fatto.<\/strong><\/em> <strong>(Alcohol was just an excuse for me to do something I obviously wanted to do all along. Also, I have no control over my actions when I\u2019m drunk.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It didn\u2019t mean anything.<\/strong><\/em> <strong>(But what we have doesn\u2019t mean much either, since I was ready to betray you like this.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Era la prima volta che succedeva.<\/strong><\/em> <strong>(It&#8217;s been happening for a while now but this is the first time I got caught.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107871 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-8.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna in piedi vicino a una parete di legno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-8.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-8-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-8-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-8-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you have ever been cheated on, you know that the above lines are the answers to the question of how do cheaters react when accused. You\u2019ve heard at least one of these sentences.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re smart enough, you also know what each one of them really means. You see, some cheaters will lie and deny that the affair ever took place.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, ci sono anche quelli che ammettono le loro malefatte. Tuttavia, mentiranno sui dettagli. Per essere precisi, distorceranno la verit\u00e0 a loro favore.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019ll think that they\u2019re being honest. They\u2019ve made a mistake and if they wanted to lie, they wouldn\u2019t have admitted doing something as awful as this in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>However, what you don\u2019t see here is that these are nothing but empty excuses. This is a way every cheater justifies themselves for their wrongdoings.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m begging you to understand one thing: they cheated on you because they consciously decided to do so. There isn\u2019t any excuse that can annul their sins.<\/p>\n<p>Even if they admit that they are a jerk who is sorry for hurting you, this is also probably a lie. Let&#8217;s face it; how come they didn\u2019t think this way about themselves while they were engaged in an affair?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">False promesse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107872 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che conforta la donna seduto al chiuso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All cheaters who ask for a second chance will promise you that they will change. All of a sudden, they&#8217;re ready to do whatever it takes to make you happy. This was a moment of weakness and it will never happen again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hearing that, you assume that you&#8217;re about to live in a fairy tale. This nightmare is far behind you and you don&#8217;t have to wonder how to deal with it anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You think that your significant other has finally realized that you&#8217;re the one. They won&#8217;t be making the same mistake ever again and everything in your relationship will be in perfect order.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Vi riempiono d'amore, vi danno la loro totale attenzione e infine vi trattano come meritate di essere trattati fin dal primo giorno.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>In effetti, il vostro matrimonio o la vostra relazione sembrano essere migliori di quanto non fossero prima di questa relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, ci\u00f2 dura solo fino a quando il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/49-segni-di-un-partner-che-tradisce\/\">partner traditore<\/a> \u00e8 certo di aver ottenuto il vostro perdono.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It takes them a while to get back under your skin, a while to regain your trust and to convince you not to leave them. As soon as they&#8217;re certain of their position in your life again, believe me, they&#8217;ll go back to their old ways.<\/p>\n<p>The number one promise that people who cheat make is: I won&#8217;t do it ever again! However, it&#8217;s a proven fact that many repeat their sins from the past, as soon as they get the chance to. Why? Simply because they can.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107873 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-12.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si tengono per mano seduti sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-12.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-12-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-12-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-12-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/couple-holding-hands-12-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you forgive your partner for cheating, you&#8217;re giving them the green light to keep up with the good work.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re sending them a clear message: your behavior is acceptable and I will take you back every time you promise me that you will change.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, ci sono imbroglioni che mantengono le loro parole, quelli che credono onestamente a tutto ci\u00f2 che dicono e che imparano dai loro errori.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, the majority of adulterers are just giving out promises they don&#8217;t intend to keep. They&#8217;re ready to tell you everything you want to hear, just to make peace with you.<\/p>\n<p>These people will promise you the moon and the stars. However, as soon as the initial crisis is over, they will show you that they&#8217;re unable to stay faithful, let alone anything more.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry, you&#8217;re not the only one who falls for these false promises. You hold on to them, simply because you want to hope that things will be better in the future, despite what your gut feeling might be telling you.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you end up doing, I&#8217;m just begging you one thing: don&#8217;t forgive your significant other just because of something they said. Focus on concrete actions instead of empty words.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Illuminazione a gas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107874 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-near-man-5.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con maglietta bianca seduta vicino a un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-near-man-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-near-man-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-near-man-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-near-man-5-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-near-man-5-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This might go hand in hand with denial but it\u2019s even worse. Gaslighting is a tactic commonly used by narcissistic people but plain cheaters are also familiar with it.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, the main concept of this technique is to make you look like you\u2019re crazy. When a cheater gaslights you, they\u2019re playing with your mind and they\u2019re making you question your own sanity.<\/p>\n<p>This usually happens when you\u2019re the one who caught your cheating spouse or partner. You don\u2019t have to actually catch them in action but all the signs of cheating are present.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you might have heard your partner talk on the phone with someone. They don\u2019t know that you\u2019re listening so you get to hear the details of the conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Based on everything you hear, this is a romantic convo. It\u2019s pretty obvious that they\u2019re talking to their lover. However, when you confront them about this, they\u2019ll tell you that you didn\u2019t hear things right.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll start convincing you that they weren\u2019t talking on the phone at all or that they were talking to a friend or a co-worker.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, tutti i tabulati dei loro cellulari vengono magicamente cancellati, quindi non avete alcuna prova delle vostre accuse.<\/p>\n<p>Another common situation is that you find suspicious text messages on their phone. You don&#8217;t take screenshots but by the time you confront your partner about them, the texts have already been deleted.<\/p>\n<p>So, you find yourself in a situation where you&#8217;re being convinced that these messages never existed. You were imagining things or you dreamed about reading them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If something like this happens only once, you&#8217;ll second-guess your suspicions. You\u2019ll want to believe them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107875 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in top bianco appoggiata al divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-3-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>It will be easier for you to accept the fact that you\u2019re imagining things than grasp the idea that your loved one is cheating on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ciononostante, la stessa pratica continua. Vi sar\u00e0 capitato di vedere per caso la loro auto dall'altra parte della citt\u00e0, mentre avrebbero dovuto essere al lavoro.<\/p>\n<p>You may even take pictures as evidence. Nevertheless, they\u2019ll still continue with the gaslighting.<br \/>\nThey\u2019ll do everything in their power to persuade you that this wasn\u2019t their car.<\/p>\n<p>Quando sentite un profumo sconosciuto o trovate un capello che appartiene chiaramente a qualcun altro, cercheranno di convincervi che si tratta del vostro profumo o dei vostri capelli.<\/p>\n<p>In sostanza, ci\u00f2 che fa un traditore che agisce da gaslighter \u00e8 chiedervi di credere a loro piuttosto che ai vostri occhi. Per quanto possa sembrare assurdo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nella maggior parte dei casi funziona.<\/p>\n<p>However, they won\u2019t stop there. Once again, you\u2019ll be to blame for confronting them about cheating. They will accuse you of making things up, just to pick a fight.<\/p>\n<p>Or they will tell you that you don&#8217;t know how to break up so you\u2019re trying to use this imaginary scenario as an excuse to walk out on them.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, you\u2019ll be the one apologizing. Not only that but this will awaken some serious insecurities and trust issues and it will destroy your confidence.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest problem is that you\u2019ll no longer know what the truth is. Did you really imagine this infidelity? Are you being paranoid? Are you overreacting? Or has your partner been playing you all along?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Minimizzare la situazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107876 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-crying-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna che piange seduta vicino a un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-crying-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-crying-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-crying-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-crying-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-crying-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>An affair is an affair. It doesn\u2019t matter whether it was a physical or emotional affair. It doesn\u2019t matter whether it lasted a week, if it was a one-time thing or if it lasted a year.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is that your partner consciously chose to betray you. They didn\u2019t just cheat on you and they didn\u2019t hurt you only as their romantic partner.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they backstabbed you. They showed you that they were never trustworthy and that you can\u2019t count on them.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, l'unica cosa che conta \u00e8 il modo in cui vi sentite in questa situazione. Ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 il vostro dolore, la vostra delusione e il vostro lutto.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, la maggior parte dei traditori pensa che il modo migliore per uscire da questo pasticcio sia quello di minimizzare la loro relazione. Infatti, la maggior parte di loro user\u00e0 la stessa vecchia scusa: era solo una questione fisica.<\/p>\n<p>A quanto pare, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-fisici-che-lui-va-a-letto-con-unaltra\/\">andare a letto con un'altra persona<\/a> without any emotions included should be less painful. It should be something you can forgive with more ease and it shouldn\u2019t bother you that much.<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t it be amazing if things could work like that? Well, sadly for you, they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107877 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-indoor-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna con top a righe seduta vicino a un uomo al chiuso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-indoor-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-indoor-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-indoor-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-indoor-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-indoor-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>In fact, the problem with this entire scenario is not that your partner is trying to minimize the situation they\u2019ve gotten you into. After all, it\u2019s in human nature to try and escape a problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Also, they are probably putting all of their efforts into staying with you, which doesn\u2019t justify them. They think that you\u2019ll forgive them more easily if you rule out any possible emotions from the equation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The actual problem is that they\u2019re invalidating your pain by doing all of this. It\u2019s like they\u2019re telling you that you\u2019re making a big fuss out of nothing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re turning this into a bigger deal than it actually is. It wasn&#8217;t emotional cheating, it meant nothing, so you shouldn\u2019t be as upset about their affair as you are, right?<\/p>\n<p>Un altro modo per minimizzare l'infedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 dire che si \u00e8 trattato solo di una cosa occasionale. Ebbene, quello che ovviamente si rifiutano di capire \u00e8 che questo fa male comunque.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, probabilmente vi farebbe pi\u00f9 male sapere che il vostro partner ha agito di nascosto alle vostre spalle per mesi o addirittura anni, senza che voi vi accorgeste di nulla.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, il solo pensiero che abbiano baciato un'altra persona, che l'abbiano toccata e che siano andati a letto con lei, anche se \u00e8 successo solo una volta, \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che sufficiente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Mentire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107878 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-9.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-9.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-9-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-9-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-9-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una delle prime bugie che i traditori raccontano sulla loro relazione \u00e8 legata alla sua importanza. Cercano sempre di presentarla come una cosa occasionale e del tutto irrilevante.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, they\u2019ll never admit the intensity of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll never talk to you about their true feelings, about the time they spent with this person, about the presents they bought them or about the fact that they probably promised to break things off with you.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, continueranno a impigliarsi nella loro rete di menzogne.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, their initial goal is to get out of trouble but they never choose the truth as their tactic. Let\u2019s be real here; you shouldn\u2019t be worried about the fact that they\u2019re lying.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s an awful thing to do but they\u2019re just trying to get out of this horrible situation.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 molto peggio \u00e8 il fatto che <strong>vedono tutte queste bugie come un modo per assolversi dai propri peccati.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108363 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-10.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che parla con una donna seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-10.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-10-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-10-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-10-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-talking-to-woman-10-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s like their affair is not such a big deal if it only happened once or if they just slept with this person, without going on dates and spending time together.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some will also lie about the third person\u2019s identity. Naturally, this can only happen if you noticed the red flags that they were cheating but you still haven\u2019t figured out with whom they\u2019ve been doing it.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if your spouse is cheating on you with a co-worker, they will never admit their lover\u2019s identity. They don\u2019t want you to know that they\u2019ll keep bumping into this person even if they end the affair.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, la pi\u00f9 comune di tutte le bugie dette dai traditori \u00e8 che interromperanno la relazione con questa persona. Purtroppo, molti di loro continuano a frequentare l'amante, solo che diventano pi\u00f9 prudenti.<\/p>\n<p>In alcuni casi, si allontanano davvero dalla loro relazione. Si sentono in colpa e sono pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa per preservare la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, mostly, they\u2019re just buying time and waiting for the storm to go away. As soon as this happens, they\u2019re back to their old ways.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Separazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108364 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-4.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste appoggiata al divano marrone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-4-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-4-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-4-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re asking yourself how do cheaters react when accused, the sad truth is that sometimes, this is the best thing that could happen to them.<\/p>\n<p>You see, some people don\u2019t cheat just because they want some extra-marital or out-of-relationship kind of fun.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, an affair happens because they\u2019ve truly fallen in love with someone else. As painful as this realization might be, the fact is that they are not happy next to you. They stopped loving you.<\/p>\n<p>In effetti, potrebbero ancora amarvi in un certo senso e persino vedervi come un membro della famiglia. Tuttavia, non provano pi\u00f9 alcun sentimento romantico nei vostri confronti. In tutta onest\u00e0, vogliono uscire da questa relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, they want to start a new life together with this person they\u2019re having an affair with. They love them and are ready to leave you this instant.<\/p>\n<p>Ora che sapete tutto questo, <strong>you are probably wondering why they didn\u2019t break things off a while ago. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why didn\u2019t they come clean and leave you as soon as they realized they were falling for the other person?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, the answer is pretty simple: they\u2019re a coward.<\/strong> They didn\u2019t have the decency to tell you the truth and they didn\u2019t respect you enough not to sneak around behind your back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108365 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-7.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta su un divano blu\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-7-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-7-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-sitting-on-sofa-7-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, <strong>basically, they prayed for you to catch them. It\u2019s easier for them to be confronted than to admit out of the blue everything they\u2019ve been doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>All of this is a relief to this kind of person. They don\u2019t want you to forgive them; actually, they sincerely hope that you\u2019ll be the one to do the dirty work, so they don\u2019t have to dump you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This type won\u2019t ask for your forgiveness. Even if they do, they will tell you that they\u2019re sorry for breaking your heart but they won\u2019t be asking for a second chance.<\/p>\n<p>They won\u2019t make empty excuses, nor will they promise you and swear that they will never do something like this again. They won\u2019t even try minimizing their affair by lying that it never meant anything.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re the one who wants to try and work things out and who is ready to fight for your relationship, they will tell you that breaking up is the only real option.<\/p>\n<p>La vedono come la loro unica possibilit\u00e0 di sfuggire a questa relazione fallita e intendono sfruttarla.<br \/>\nWhatever happens, I\u2019m begging you for one thing: don\u2019t feel sorry for them.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t sympathize with the fact that they didn\u2019t have the strength to reveal to you the truth. The only thing that differentiates this type from any other cheater out there is their lack of courage.<\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t caught them, they would have continued with this charade for ages.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pentirsi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108370 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che conforta la donna seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/man-comforting-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un'altra cosa comune che fanno i traditori quando vengono scoperti \u00e8 pentirsi. O almeno, si comportano come se lo facessero. Una volta ottenute tutte le prove della loro infedelt\u00e0 e una volta che non hanno via d'uscita, ammettono tutto.<\/p>\n<p>Si scompongono davanti a voi e iniziano a dirvi quanto siano incredibilmente dispiaciuti per aver commesso un tale errore.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you are not interested in their explanations. You don\u2019t want to see their face, let alone give them a chance to come back into your life.<\/p>\n<p>However, they don\u2019t accept no for an answer. You see, this is the type of person who won\u2019t leave you alone until you forgive them.<\/p>\n<p>Vi inseguiranno letteralmente ovunque andiate. Sono pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di farvi vedere quanto sono dispiaciuti per il loro comportamento scorretto.<\/p>\n<p>Trascorreranno ore e ore sulla soglia di casa vostra, pregandovi di parlare con loro. Si presenteranno in tutti i luoghi che visiterete, chiameranno i vostri amici e familiari e vi perseguiteranno in numerosi altri modi.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that but they will be surprising you with romantic gestures. You\u2019ll get tons of surprises, love letters, poems and so on.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 nulla che possa contrastare la loro persistenza. Potete bloccare il loro numero o i loro account sui social media e ne troveranno di nuovi; potete evitarli per tutto il tempo che volete, ma vi troveranno.<\/p>\n<p>Se a fare queste cose fosse una persona per la quale non provate alcun sentimento, le considerereste dei campanelli d'allarme. Lo considerereste uno stalker e un maniaco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108371 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-12.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda l&#039;uomo mentre \u00e8 seduta al tavolo di un bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-12.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-12-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-12-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-12-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/woman-looking-at-man-12-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, quando la persona che amate ancora fa tutto questo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che lo trovate adorabile e irresistibile.<br \/>\nPer quanto siate feriti, ammirate la loro perseveranza.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t help but feel flattered about the fact that they won\u2019t let you go, even if their life depended on it. After all, it\u2019s clear that they\u2019re sorry.<\/p>\n<p>Si pentono a tal punto della loro decisione che prendete in considerazione l'idea di dare loro una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Look, I won\u2019t lie to you: <strong>c'\u00e8 un'enorme possibilit\u00e0 che il vostro partner traditore si sia davvero pentito. Forse si \u00e8 finalmente reso conto di ci\u00f2 che ha fatto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe they don\u2019t want to lose everything they built with you over a few temporary moments of passion. Maybe they really are sorry and would give everything in their power to go back in time and erase their mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, it\u2019s up to you whether you\u2019ll forgive them or not. Everyone thinks they know what the right thing to do is but you\u2019re the one making the final call.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D'altra parte, dovete essere onesti con voi stessi e capire una cosa. Il vostro coniuge o partner traditore \u00e8 dispiaciuto di avervi tradito? O \u00e8 dispiaciuto di essere stato scoperto?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>In questo caso c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza. \u00c8 probabile che avrebbero continuato a comportarsi cos\u00ec anche se non l'aveste mai scoperto.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Besides, their repentance cannot heal your broken heart. It can\u2019t glue its pieces back together and it can\u2019t undo the things that occurred.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/codici-dei-messaggi-di-testo-del-coniuge-traditore\/\">30 Codici dei messaggi di testo del coniuge traditore rivelati<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere:<\/h2>\n<p>Now that you have all the answers to the question of how do cheaters react when accused, you&#8217;re ready to confront your adulterer and start the process of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/recupero-della-relazione\/\">recupero della relazione<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>However, please gather as much solid evidence as you can before acting on your doubts. This way, they&#8217;ll have less chance to play you for a fool.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you doubt your partner&#8217;s fidelity and want to confront them about it, the first question you probably have is: How do cheaters react when accused? What kind of behavior can you expect when you tackle this sensitive issue? It&#8217;s more than enough that you have seen all the signs of cheating. You&#8217;re heartbroken and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":107856,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-107811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/How-Do-Cheaters-React-When-Accused-9-Shocking-Ways.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=107811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107811\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107856"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=107811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=107811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=107811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}