{"id":10809,"date":"2017-12-21T13:04:09","date_gmt":"2017-12-21T13:04:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10809"},"modified":"2022-05-11T19:50:27","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T19:50:27","slug":"bellezza-con-coerenza-cuore-aperto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/bellezza-con-coerenza-cuore-aperto\/","title":{"rendered":"La bellezza di un cuore costantemente aperto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ho un'amica di nome Lauren. Lauren mi ispira in molti modi, ma in particolare sono in soggezione per la sua ferma capacit\u00e0 di riprendersi da una situazione di crisi. relazioni interrotte<\/a>. Ha la straordinaria capacit\u00e0 di continuare a espandere il suo cuore attraverso il dolore, invece di contrarlo.<\/p>\n

Questa ragazza ne ha passate di tutti i colori. Ha frequentato, frequentato e frequentato ancora, ma non ha ancora trovato una persona con cui vuole condividere la sua vita. Si tratta di una tipica ragazza di vent'anni, ma i suoi scenari sono un po' diversi, perch\u00e9 il suo le relazioni tendono a terminare molto bruscamente<\/a> and not peacefully. She has had a relationship with someone who was verbally abusive to her. She\u2019s had relationships that seemed to be going great and then out of nowhere taken a turn for the worst. She\u2019s had a relationship with an alcoholic and still she manages to always lead with her heart. She dusts herself off again and gets right back up.<\/p>\n

Whether or not she knows this about herself, Lauren recognizes that each person she\u2019s with for any amount of time is essential for her growth. She doesn\u2019t look back, she keeps going. This is what makes her beautiful. She doesn\u2019t wrap her identity up with any other human, no matter how much she loved them. This is what makes her beautiful. When a new opportunity presents itself to her, she says yes with an open heart. This is what makes her beautiful.<\/p>\n

I see so many young women face the end of a relationship and believe that is the end of the road. They can\u2019t get over their past which in turn destroys their future. Let me help expel the thoughts in your head that are saying, \u201cBut I could\u2019ve done it differently<\/a>. I should have done more for this person, otherwise they wouldn\u2019t have left me.\u201d<\/p>\n

Yes. You absolutely could\u2019ve done things differently, you could have said, done, been something that you weren\u2019t but you didn\u2019t and that\u2019s okay. You were exactly who you were supposed to be in the relationship, you did exactly what you were meant to. I firmly believe that what comes into our lives is supposed to be enjoyed with great pleasure, but when it leaves (however it does) it should be let go with the same amount of ease that we welcomed it.<\/p>\n

I know this is hard to do because as human beings we become attached and we want things to stay the way they are, but they don\u2019t. Life evolves, that is just a very natural cycle of life and humans change along with it. We can evolve too or we can resist. If we choose to resist we are setting ourselves up for great suffering, but if we accept it as it shows up\u2014that is a wildly powerful thing.<\/p>\n

The beauty of my friend Lauren is that she is able to feel great sadness when it shows up, but not cling to it. Of course she\u2019s not smiling when the break-up happens, she feels her grief and does what we all do\u2014pensare troppo a noi stessi fino alla morte<\/a>. Then little by little she gathers herself up off the floor and rebuilds her life. She finds solitude in herself again and does not identify with her past. And then away she goes on more dates as if she\u2019s never been hurt, venturing off into the wilderness on the hunt for the one whom her soul will love.<\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi dica che quando trover\u00e0 quella persona, ogni brutta esperienza passata, ogni lacrima versata, ogni momento di dolore o di pena, non lo ricorder\u00e0. Perch\u00e9 sar\u00e0 inghiottita dalla purezza dell'amore vero, autentico e che \u00e8 senza tempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

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di Hailey Yatros<\/em><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I have a friend named Lauren. Lauren is inspiring to me in so many ways, but in particular I am in awe of her steadfast ability to bounce back from broken relationships. She has an uncanny capability to keep expanding her heart through pain instead of contracting it. This girl has been through the wringer….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":10813,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/yoann-boyer-293779.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10809","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10809"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10809\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10813"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}