{"id":10871,"date":"2020-07-02T12:46:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T12:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10871"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:54:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:54:43","slug":"non-affezionarsi-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-affezionarsi-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 non mi attacco pi\u00f9 a nessuno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non mi affeziono pi\u00f9 perch\u00e9 ho imparato che le persone mi lasceranno a prescindere da quanto sono stato buono con loro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Prima o poi creeranno un problema dal nulla e, a causa del loro orgoglio, mi cancelleranno dalla lista dei loro amici.<\/p>\n

E finir\u00f2 di nuovo in lacrime, maledicendo la mia sfortuna per non essere in grado di essere felice.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned that sometimes it is better to let go of the toxic people.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Because of them, I was putting myself last and that is something I don\u2019t want to do anymore. This time, I want to mettere me stesso al primo posto<\/a> perch\u00e9 me lo merito.<\/p>\n

E chi entra nella mia vita deve dimostrarmi che \u00e8 degno di esserci.<\/p>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I don\u2019t want to be the only one who is attached.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a friendship or love where I will be the only one trying. I don\u2019t want to be the only one making an effort for things to work.<\/p>\n

Voglio che gli altri mi dimostrino che mi amano cos\u00ec come sono e che vogliono che io faccia parte della loro vita.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I suffered every time a person abandoned me.<\/i><\/b> And that is something I don\u2019t want to feel anymore.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto mi piaccia qualcosa che qualcuno fa, non riveler\u00f2 mai completamente le mie emozioni. Sembrer\u00f2 invece una stronza a sangue freddo, perch\u00e9 nessuno vuole ferire una persona cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Everybody thinks that she is too strong and that they can\u2019t do any harm to her.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I finally learned to move on.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need people to complete me because I am enough for myself. They can just be a part of my life but I will never give myself all in.<\/p>\n

And it is not because I don\u2019t want to but because I am too scared to get hurt again.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned to feel good in my own skin.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need people to make me happy<\/a> perch\u00e9 se dovessi dipendere da loro, sarei sempre triste.<\/p>\n

I learned that the only one who should run my life is me and that I can just listen to people\u2019s suggestions but in the end do things my way.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I don\u2019t have any more tears to cry.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Prima di questa decisione, ero una ragazza che amava ciecamente tutte le persone, senza sapere che alcune di esse volevano farle del male. Pensavo che tutte le persone fossero buone perch\u00e9 io sono cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t believe that someone could sit with you and drink coffee one day and the next day gossip about you behind your back.<\/p>\n

E ogni volta che succedeva piangevo fino ad addormentarmi, chiedendomi perch\u00e9 mi succedevano cose del genere quando non avrei mai voluto che accadesse loro qualcosa di brutto.<\/p>\n

Continuavo a chiedermi se ci fossero persone buone come me che volevano solo vivere e lasciare che gli altri facessero lo stesso. Ma purtroppo non ho mai avuto una risposta.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned to love myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need anyone to give me the love I deserve because I will give it to myself. That will be the best gift I ever gave to myself and I am very proud of that.<\/p>\n

Questa volta sento veramente di essere degno e che Io sono abbastanza.<\/a><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I finally realized that you cannot force love to stay.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If it is destined, love will leave you, not because you don\u2019t deserve that kind of love but because you deserve a better one.<\/p>\n

Now I know that I can\u2019t have everything just because I want it but there are other people who have an effect on that.<\/p>\n

I just hope that one day, heaven will bless me with the kind of love I crave so much\u2014the one that feels like home.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t get attached anymore because I learned that people will leave me no matter how good I was to them. Sooner or later they will make a problem out of nothing and because of their pride, they will just cross me off the list of their friends. And I will end up in tears…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":103757,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/This-Is-Why-I-Dont-Get-Attached-Anymore.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10871"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10871\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/103757"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}