{"id":10891,"date":"2017-12-22T11:53:52","date_gmt":"2017-12-22T11:53:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10891"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:29:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:29:30","slug":"non-era-abbastanza-buono-e-diventato-perfetto-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-era-abbastanza-buono-e-diventato-perfetto-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 non ero abbastanza bravo per te, sono diventato perfetto per me stesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sento che dovrei ringraziarti per aver fatto l'imbecille, perch\u00e9 mi ha aiutato a cambiare il modo in cui mi sento con me stesso<\/a>. Vedi, ho usato tutte le tue parole velenose come carburante. Ho usato tutto l'inferno che mi hai fatto passare come scudo. Ho usato ogni singolo difetto che hai trovato come mia corona.<\/p>\n

Hai preso in giro il mio corpo.<\/strong> You made fun of my stretch marks, saying only old ladies have them. You made fun of my hair and clothes. And thank you for that, because now I wear them with pride. Now I know they tell the story of who I am, they tell the story of this invincible, amazing woman that I am now. I\u2019m not ashamed of my stretch marks, of the cellulite I have or maybe some of that belly fat I have. Because I\u2019m living my life to the fullest and I\u2019m finally in love with myself and no one\u2019s words are strong enough to change that.<\/p>\n

Hai preso in giro il mio intelletto.<\/strong> Ti ho amato tanto, Volevo essere perfetto per te<\/a> that I let you get away with that. But you know what? I\u2019m a hell of a smartass. I\u2019m not ashamed to ask about something I don\u2019t know. I\u2019m not ashamed if I don\u2019t know everything, because I want to learn more. And you know what else? I\u2019m actually doing great in life with this little brain of mine, I have an amazing job, an amazing audience and co-workers. I\u2019m done letting other people make me doubt my intellect, because now I know better.<\/p>\n

Hai preso in giro il mio lavoro.<\/strong> Always saying how writing isn\u2019t a job for adults, saying how I\u2019ll be flipping burgers in no time. And I don\u2019t know why I ever let you make me doubt myself. Why I ever let you make me question my passion, my biggest love in life. When I stopped giving a damn about your words, I started giving a damn about my thoughts.<\/p>\n

Hai preso in giro le mie scelte.<\/strong> But guess what? You were one of them. You made fun of every book I decided to read, saying how Harry Potter is for children, how John Green is boring or how Tolstoy is overrated. You were never satisfied, nothing was good enough for you. Every movie I chose, every song I ever decided to play you, you never approved of. But I\u2019m done looking for approval from other people. Because I finally understand that I\u2019m not living for you or for anyone else. The only person I should be living for is me.<\/p>\n

So, thank you for letting me know that I\u2019m not good enough for you,<\/strong> perch\u00e9 mi ha fatto capire che I\u2019m perfect for myself<\/a>. I\u2019m not flawless and I\u2019m sure as hell not some kind of a goddess. But I love myself like I\u2019m both flawless and a goddess. I learned to love every flaw of mine, I learned to love every silly thing I do, because all of them are parts of me. All of that makes me different from other women.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not perfect, I don\u2019t wear little black dresses to parties, I don\u2019t wear stilettos or my hair in a bun. I don\u2019t eat healthily and I don\u2019t read grown-up books, or even watch grown-up movies. I wear jeans and T-shirts to fancy parties and consider it a success if I comb my hair. I watch cartoons and still dream about meeting Marvel Heroes. I wear sneakers and stumble in high heels. But what matters to me, more than anything else, is that I\u2019m happy the way I am. I\u2019m not perfect by standards of the world, but I\u2019m perfect for myself.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I feel like I should thank you for being a jackass, because that helped me to change the way I feel about myself. You see, I used all of your poisonous words as my fuel. I used all of the hell you put me through as my shield. I used every single flaw you found…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":10898,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/erii-gutierrez-487083.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10891"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10891\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10898"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}