{"id":10933,"date":"2020-07-22T13:45:34","date_gmt":"2020-07-22T13:45:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10933"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:52:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:52:26","slug":"smettere-di-lottare-contro-qualcuno-che-sta-bene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-lottare-contro-qualcuno-che-sta-bene\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di lottare per qualcuno a cui va bene perdere voi stessi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Devi smettere di lottare per qualcuno che dice solo di amarti ma non fa nulla per dimostrarti le sue parole.<\/p>\n

You need to stop hurting yourself and stop decreasing the possibility of having a happy future by fighting for someone who\u2019s okay with losing you.<\/p>\n

Because no matter how hard you try, you\u2019ll end up being the only one fighting for the two of you anyway. There is no happiness in that.<\/p>\n

Have the dignity to say, \u201cI love you, but I love me more.\u201d Have the dignity to choose yourself when that someone didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Just because you chose someone and you chose to fight for him, it doesn’t mean he\u2019s ready to do the same for you.<\/p>\n

If he eventually shows you he doesn\u2019t want to put any effort in or fight for you, then stop running in a circle because you\u2019re not getting anywhere.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy and everyone knows it. It\u2019s not easy to rinunciare a qualcuno che si ama.<\/a> But that\u2019s the only thing to do when that someone is okay with losing you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 un pulsante di reset sul vostro cuore e permettere alla realt\u00e0 di affondare, di vedere che tutti i vostri sforzi sono stati vani, significherebbe accettare che il vostro amore vi ha spezzato.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

But doesn\u2019t getting broken just once by accepting the truth and walking away hurt less than getting broken all over again by choosing to stay and fight for someone who\u2019s okay with losing you?<\/p>\n

Open your eyes and save your heart. Enough is enough. How much of yourself can you give to someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you? <\/b><\/p>\n

How long will you be able to be the only one fighting? Love isn\u2019t supposed to feel this hard, and if it does, it\u2019s most certainly not love. <\/b><\/p>\n

Okay, you love him. Let\u2019s call what you feel love. You love the idea of love.<\/p>\n

You love the perfect future you\u2019ve planned for you. You love all of everything you might be and that\u2019s why you\u2019re fighting so hard.<\/p>\n

You love the feeling you get when he shows you just a bit of attention or when he treats you right for a second. But you don\u2019t deserve to only get one minute of his attention in 24 hours.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be treated right just sometimes, you should be treated right every single day. For all the effort you made and all the things you did for you two, meritate molto di pi\u00f9<\/a> than he\u2019s giving you and much more than you\u2019ve got so far.<\/p>\n

But he isn\u2019t ready to give you what you deserve, so why would you continue giving him much more than he deserves?<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Just think about it; if loving someone who\u2019s wrong for you is so intense and strong, imagine what loving someone who\u2019s right and good for you will feel like? If you don\u2019t let go of your one-sided love now, you\u2019ll never find out.<\/p>\n

Darling, save your efforts for someone who cares for you. Save your efforts for someone to whom they won\u2019t be in vain.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go into battle for someone who won\u2019t care if you die on the battlefield. Save yourself for someone who\u2019ll treat you with respect and who will never take you for granted.<\/p>\n

Show this man for whom you’ve been fighting so hard how it feels when you walk out of someone’s life.<\/p>\n

Mostrargli come ci si sente quando qualcuno che ha lottato per lui con tutto se stesso se ne va.<\/p>\n

Mostrategli come ci si sente quando una ragazza follemente innamorata riacquista la propria autostima. Mostrategli quanto ci si sente vuoti a non avervi pi\u00f9 nella sua vita.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t lose yourself to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

\"Smettete<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You need to stop fighting for someone who only says he loves you but does nothing to prove his words to you. You need to stop hurting yourself and stop decreasing the possibility of having a happy future by fighting for someone who\u2019s okay with losing you. Because no matter how hard you try, you\u2019ll…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":91835,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10933","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Stop-Fighting-For-Someone-Who\u2019s-Okay-With-Losing-You.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10933","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10933"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10933\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163580,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10933\/revisions\/163580"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91835"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10933"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10933"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10933"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}