{"id":10939,"date":"2020-04-22T13:50:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T13:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10939"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:28:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:28:12","slug":"lasciarsi-andare-e-la-cosa-piu-difficile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lasciarsi-andare-e-la-cosa-piu-difficile\/","title":{"rendered":"Lasciarti andare \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile in assoluto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">L'ho visto nel modo in cui mi parlavi, nel modo in cui mi guardavi, nel modo in cui mi abbracciavi. L'ho visto arrivare. L'atto straziante di una rottura.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Perch\u00e9 doveva essere cos\u00ec? Tu che mi sovrasti, guardando la tua gi\u00e0 ex ragazza che piangeva e ti implorava di dire che stavi scherzando.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But with the look on your face, I was pretty sure that you weren&#8217;t joking. You were dead serious when you told me that you didn&#8217;t love me anymore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Volevi che lasciassi andare tutto e andassi avanti, proprio come avresti fatto tu. Hai mai pensato a come mi sentivo in quel momento?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Il modo in cui hai fatto sembrare che lasciarsi andare fosse la cosa pi\u00f9 facile del mondo, mentre in realt\u00e0 sentivo il mio cuore morire nel petto.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">No, I&#8217;m not exaggerating. It was the worst feeling in the world, when you&#8217;re left by the one person that you thought would be there for you for your whole life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Facevamo tutto insieme, avevamo anche lo stesso gruppo di amici. Ero cos\u00ec abituata a starti vicino, come ti aspettavi che cambiassi completamente vita dopo che mi hai lasciato?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78674 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-in-denim-jacket-covering-her-face-e1590773895585.jpg\" alt=\"donna con giacca di jeans che si copre il viso\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It&#8217;s not impossible, you were always telling me how much of a strong woman I am, so I can handle it. Do I have any other choice?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So let me tell what \u2018letting you go\u2019 looks like:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>A volte mi dimentico di respirare.<\/strong> It&#8217;s not a joke. I really do. When I&#8217;m crying and sobbing, curled up in my bed between a ridiculous amount of pillows, I start choking.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Semplicemente, sono talmente consumata dalle mie lacrime che respirare diventa davvero difficile.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The moment I start to feel like I&#8217;m going to be OK and that I\u2019m done with the crying for now, I get a flashback so hard that it breaks me apart and makes me choke on my tears even more.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Mi sento come se mi avessero strappato il cuore.<\/strong> Immagino che tu ricordi tutte le volte che ti ho detto che il mio cuore apparteneva a te.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nessun altro se non tu! Vedi, quando mi hai lasciato, anche il mio cuore mi ha lasciato.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78675 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173.jpg\" alt=\"donna sdraiata sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/woman-lying-on-bed-e1590773959173-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mi \u00e8 stato strappato dal petto, ancora pulsante, mentre cercavo di prenderti. Ha fallito. Il mio povero cuoricino.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I don&#8217;t want anyone else.<\/strong> I want you! Can&#8217;t you see that? I&#8217;m not going to be desperate and beg you to take me back, I&#8217;m too proud for that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ma se mai dovessi tornare, vorrei dirti che non c'\u00e8 nessuno in grado di prendere il tuo posto.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I&#8217;d love to say that it&#8217;s only for a certain period of time, but I simply can&#8217;t imagine myself in anyone else&#8217;s arms but yours. How devastating is that?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Immagino di parlare con voi. Lo faccio tutto il giorno, tutti i giorni.<\/strong> I think about something I&#8217;ve been going through and how I would like you to be there for me so I could talk about it with you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You might think I&#8217;m crazy, but I really do imagine that you&#8217;re sitting next to me, carefully listening to my words, giving me advice and hugging me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78673 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/sad-woman-on-the-wind-e1590773868701.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste al vento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nessuno ha il diritto di dirmi che lasciarsi andare pu\u00f2 essere facile se si prova a parlarne con qualcuno o se si \u00e8 davvero disposti a lasciarsi andare.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It\u2019s all just bullshit! I don&#8217;t want to hear it anymore! My head is full of advice from people and magazines telling me to move on and how to do it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">They keep telling me that it&#8217;s the will that succeeds, I want to forget you and move on, BUT I CAN&#8217;T! It&#8217;s the hardest thing in this world.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I&#8217;m really sorry for writing this to you, as you&#8217;re probably extremely happy right now, somewhere far away from me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Maybe you&#8217;re not even thinking about me anymore. But I&#8217;m thinking about you. A lot. I know this won&#8217;t change anything but my heart is still in your hands.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Per favore, abbiatene cura. Sar\u00e0 sempre vostra.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-78672 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lasciarti andare \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 difficile in assoluto\" width=\"852\" height=\"1278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 852px) 100vw, 852px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I saw it all in the way you were talking to me, the way you were looking at me, the way you were hugging me. I saw it coming. The heartbreaking act of a break-up. Why did it have to be that way? You standing above me, looking down on your already ex-girlfriend crying and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":78671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Letting-You-Go-Is-The-Hardest-Thing-Ever.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10939"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10939\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}