{"id":10979,"date":"2020-07-25T10:07:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-25T10:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=10979"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:30:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:30:22","slug":"fottere-lamore-spaventato-della-ragazza-carina-in-ogni-caso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fottere-lamore-spaventato-della-ragazza-carina-in-ogni-caso\/","title":{"rendered":"Fottiti per aver ferito la ragazza carina che aveva paura di amarti in ogni caso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/liane-white\/2017\/05\/this-is-why-shes-scared-to-fall-for-you-2\/\" rel=\"noopener\">She didn\u2019t want to fall in love with you.<\/a> Era la cosa che temeva di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>She tried to avoid you because she knew her heart was going to defy what her mind wanted. She knew her heart had made another decision\u2014a decision she knew she would regret.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t even want to like you, let alone love you. And then, all of a sudden, she found herself in a situation she couldn\u2019t control anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Every time she saw you, she felt butterflies in her stomach. Every time someone mentioned your name, a smile sneaked up on her face. She knew you were bad for her, but her heart wouldn\u2019t listen.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>She knew she shouldn\u2019t love you and she feared to love you. Her heart had been broken too many times before and she knew the feeling too well. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Purtroppo, questa volta il suo cuore non le ha lasciato altra scelta se non quella di battere e soffrire per te.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Aveva paura di amarti perch\u00e9 ci era gi\u00e0 passata. Sapeva cosa l'aspettava.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114213\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi su una strada appoggiata a un muro di mattoni\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-a-street-leaning-on-a-brick-wall-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She knew one person will get out of this with their heart shattered into a million pieces and that person won\u2019t be you.<\/p>\n<p>Aveva paura di amarvi perch\u00e9 sapeva che questa falsa felicit\u00e0 la accecava temporaneamente.<\/p>\n<p>Questo sentimento di eccitazione di breve durata, la speranza di aver finalmente trovato il vero amore, la fece uscire dai binari.<\/p>\n<p>It made her forget about her past and about all those times she\u2019d been happy at the beginning\u2014and wounded and hurt at the end.<\/p>\n<p>Aveva paura di amarti perch\u00e9 tu le hai dato speranza. Le hai fatto credere di essere il vero uomo per lei. Le hai sorriso come se fosse l'unica al mondo che contava per te.<\/p>\n<p>You took her hand and hugged her when she needed your touch. But none of these things were sincere. None of it was real. This wasn\u2019t unconditional love\u2014it was something completely else.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Le hai fatto perdere tempo e le hai dato false speranze. Hai approfittato del suo cuore tenero.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>She was scared to love you because she knew you would disappear with no closure at all, not even a goodbye or you would make false excuses and stupid reasons which she wouldn\u2019t understand.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna bella e pensierosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-beautiful-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sapeva che sarebbe rimasta sola, chiedendosi senza speranza cosa avesse fatto di male, anche se non era mai stata colpa sua.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Aveva paura di amarti perch\u00e9 sapeva che si sarebbe fatta male.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>She is a girl with a soft and sensitive heart. She is just an ordinary girl who didn\u2019t want to love you in the first place. You sneaked up on her and seduced her heart with empty words and your false appearance.<\/p>\n<p>You enchanted her wearing your \u2018good guy\u2019 mask. You\u2019ve hurt her because you never cared about her.<\/p>\n<p>Non ti sei mai preoccupato di chiederti perch\u00e9 fosse cos\u00ec spaventata o cosa avesse passato e perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/holly-sidell\/men-three-things-the-woma_b_5689169.html\" rel=\"noopener\">she doesn\u2019t want to trust you<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t ask any of those questions because you didn\u2019t want them answered.<\/p>\n<p>You needed someone to be there for you\u2014someone to talk to you, someone to love you. She did all that and all she got in return was heartbreak and some more pain.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto ci\u00f2 che ha ottenuto \u00e8 stato piangere nella sua camera da letto nel cuore della notte, guardando le pareti che si restringevano intorno a lei.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114217\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste e sola che guarda in basso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-lonely-woman-looking-down-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le venne voglia di strapparsi dalla pelle per farla finita con il dolore. Era troppo per lei da sopportare. Voleva strisciare da sola nel posto pi\u00f9 buio del mondo e morire.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>When you hurt her, she dwelled in pain and she kept asking herself why she can\u2019t be loved the way she deserves. She knows how to love and she has loved before.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong> So, why can\u2019t she even get to experience even the smallest portion of the love she has for others on her own skin?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Love showed her its bitchy face. To her, love is every time she has made a mistake, every time she was the one who wasn\u2019t trying enough. To her, love is that \u2018It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me\u2019 sentence.<\/p>\n<p>Per lei l'amore \u00e8 una sensazione di abbandono senza motivo. Naturalmente, ha paura di amare.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>L'amore le ha sbattuto la porta in faccia ogni volta che stava per entrare.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Despite all she went through. Despite her warning you and telling you she doesn\u2019t want to be with you, you continued to push her. And what\u2019s even worse, she became even more interesting because she didn\u2019t want you.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lasciarsi-andare-e-la-cosa-piu-difficile\/\">Invece di lasciarla andare<\/a> and keeping her heart safe from you, you chose to be selfish. You chose to play with her to fulfill your needs and toss her away when you\u2019d had enough.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114218\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna pensierosa seduta su una panchina nel parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pensive-young-woman-sitting-on-bench-in-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>You chose to give her hope which made her stay a bit longer\u2014thinking you will change.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hai scelto di mancarle di rispetto rendendola ridicola.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hai scelto di essere un vigliacco, quindi hai interrotto la relazione scappando senza dire una parola.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hai scelto di rimanere in silenzio quando lei ti ha pregato di parlare per cercare di salvare voi due.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Hai scelto di farle del male e l'hai fatto.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ha ancora paura dell'amore. \u00c8 ancora terrorizzata dai colpi di fulmine. Dubita ancora delle persone.<\/p>\n<p>But, real love will come to her doorstep sooner or later. It will wipe away the fear and fill her heart with true love like she\u2019s always wanted.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-114197\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Screw-You-For-Hurting-The-Nice-Girl-Who-Was-Scared-To-Love-You-Anyway-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Fottiti per aver ferito la ragazza carina che aveva paura di amarti in ogni caso\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Screw-You-For-Hurting-The-Nice-Girl-Who-Was-Scared-To-Love-You-Anyway-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Screw-You-For-Hurting-The-Nice-Girl-Who-Was-Scared-To-Love-You-Anyway-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Screw-You-For-Hurting-The-Nice-Girl-Who-Was-Scared-To-Love-You-Anyway-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/Screw-You-For-Hurting-The-Nice-Girl-Who-Was-Scared-To-Love-You-Anyway-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She didn\u2019t want to fall in love with you. That was something she feared the most. She tried to avoid you because she knew her heart was going to defy what her mind wanted. She knew her heart had made another decision\u2014a decision she knew she would regret. 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