{"id":11088,"date":"2020-07-27T13:41:40","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T13:41:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11088"},"modified":"2022-03-01T22:58:22","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T22:58:22","slug":"solo-sesso-ora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/solo-sesso-ora\/","title":{"rendered":"Abbiamo appena fatto sesso, e ora?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dopo aver fatto sesso per la prima volta con un ragazzo che mi piace molto, c'\u00e8 sempre una parte di me che si sente molto triste. <\/span><\/p>\n

Certo, possiamo aver passato dei bei momenti insieme facendo quello che abbiamo fatto, ma so che nel momento in cui esco da quella porta, tutto cambia. <\/span><\/p>\n

It changes because I\u2019m terrified that he\u2019s not going to want to see me again. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m terrified that I\u2019m solo un'altra tacca<\/a> on his bedpost. But mostly, I\u2019m terrified of the fact that I meant nothing to him, and that all this time that I\u2019ve invested in him was a wasted effort. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho pensato a questo ieri sera, dopo aver coccolato il mio ultimo arrivato e aver finito il film che stavamo guardando. <\/span><\/p>\n

I stared at the door, because I didn\u2019t want to walk out, I wanted to stay there with him, because I wanted him, I had wanted him for so long.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

I thought about how every time before when I had slept with a guy (not that it has happened very often), how hurt I got afterwards. How they didn\u2019t call, they acted like nothing happened, and how low I felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this guy, this guy is different, and that\u2019s what scares me as well. This is the most genuine guy I\u2019ve come across, and I don\u2019t want to lose him before we start something that I believe could be truly amazing. <\/span><\/p>\n

I kept thinking to myself, he\u2019s not going to be like the other guys, he\u2019s different, everything going to be fine. <\/span><\/p>\n

So here lies the question: we just had sex, now what? What happens now? I think it\u2019s so sad that in our generation we always have to ask ourselves that because there is a 99.9% chance we will never hear from a guy again.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, then there\u2019s something in us that believes that this guy is going to be different, he\u2019s going to call. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s not going to ghost us, leave us in the dirt, make us shed a heavy amount of tears on our pillows. On my way home last night, I decided just to be forward with this boy and tell him how I truly felt. <\/span><\/p>\n

I told him I know what we did tonight will change things, but I didn\u2019t want them to. I told him how I liked him, and wanted to continue to see him and get to know him.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

He agreed with what I was saying, and we\u2019ve been talking all day per usual, but I\u2019m still scared.<\/span><\/p>\n

I will be perfectly honest with you all, I\u2019m terrified. Although I got an okay answer, I still didn\u2019t get the reassurance I wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I wanted was for him to tell me he\u2019s not going anywhere, that he\u2019ll call me tomorrow, and that everything will be okay. <\/span><\/p>\n

I wanted him to make me feel like we had a future since last night. And in some ways, he did, but in other ways he didn\u2019t. <\/span><\/p>\n

E naturalmente, essendo una ragazza e una persona che porta il cuore sulla manica, l'ho analizzato tutto il giorno.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne ho parlato con la mia migliore amica, chiedendo la sua opinione, e ho fatto tutto il possibile per distrarmi.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

I know guys will always have a hard time bringing up \u2018the talk\u2019 with us girls, which is why we need to bring it up ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

I need to know if I\u2019m wasting my time, if this is going anywhere or if I should leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

As a girl who doesn\u2019t sleep around, and is very cautious of her heart, it\u2019s a scary feeling to think about right after sex with someone whom I really like. <\/span><\/p>\n

Especially someone who I didn\u2019t expect to like this much\u2014that\u2019s even more scary. I don\u2019t want to lose him, we have so much more to do.<\/span><\/p>\n

Have you ever asked yourself the question I did last night? I know I can\u2019t be the only girl who\u2019s questioned it. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only girl who\u2019s thought as she walked to her car, all right, so I guess I\u2019ll never see him again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be the only girl who has prayed to God that things will work out, and fell asleep dreaming that it actually would. <\/span><\/p>\n

To each girl who asks themselves, we just had sex, now what, I pray that you get what you want, and that he doesn\u2019t leave you hanging. However, if he does leave you hanging, know that he doesn\u2019t deserve you then.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qualsiasi ragazzo che fa solo sesso con te<\/a> e decide di giocare con le vostre emozioni per il gusto di farlo, non \u00e8 un vero uomo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Un vero uomo<\/a> vi richiamer\u00e0. Un vero uomo non vi lascer\u00e0 in sospeso e vi assicurer\u00e0 che non andr\u00e0 da nessuna parte. <\/span><\/p>\n

You may feel completely fooled and broken-hearted for the moment, but remember that as many douchebags are out there who will treat you like that, there are plenty of nice guys out there who won\u2019t. It just might take a little longer to find one, but remember, you have time.<\/span><\/p>\n

di Kaylin Ochs<\/strong><\/p>\n

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