{"id":111683,"date":"2020-11-09T13:02:06","date_gmt":"2020-11-09T13:02:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=111683"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:42:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:42:50","slug":"il-dolore-sparira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-dolore-sparira\/","title":{"rendered":"Resistete ancora un po', tutto il dolore che provate ora sparir\u00e0 presto."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Prima di tutto, ho bisogno che mi facciate un favore. Andate allo specchio pi\u00f9 vicino a casa vostra e ditemi sinceramente: cosa vedete?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you see a deeply hurt and broken-hearted woman who doesn&#8217;t have the strength to carry on anymore, you aren&#8217;t even aware of how wrong you actually are.<\/p>\n<p>L'unica prospettiva giusta \u00e8 quella che dovete creare nella vostra mente. Il modo in cui vorreste apparire e sentirvi e il modo in cui vorreste che gli altri vi vedessero.<\/p>\n<h2>La vita a volte diventa difficile.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111694 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water.jpg\" alt=\"donna con camicia a quadri blu seduta vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>People disappoint you. The ones you love the most hurt you. But that&#8217;s just how things really are and you can do absolutely nothing about it.<\/p>\n<p><em>La vita \u00e8 dura, ma voi dovete essere ancora pi\u00f9 duri. Consideratela come una grande battaglia con molti, molti round.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dovete reagire, qualunque cosa accada. Sapete perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 <strong>siete abbastanza forti da continuare a rialzarvi, non importa quante volte la vita vi butti gi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t give up after just a few rounds.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111698 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna con berretto grigio in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-standing-outdoor-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>You&#8217;re so much better than that. Just because someone won a little battle, don&#8217;t allow them to win the entire fight.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Hai deciso di fidarti di quell'uomo e di dargli il tuo cuore. E lui ha avuto il tuo cuore nel palmo delle sue mani e poi ha scelto di gettarlo via e di calpestarlo fino a spezzarlo completamente.<\/p>\n<p>Everything happens for a reason and that&#8217;s why you mustn&#8217;t look at it as your mistake. It was God&#8217;s choice, too. He sent you that lesson only to make you smarter and even stronger than you already were.<\/p>\n<p><em>You can cry for many more nights and shut yourself off from the world but unfortunately, that wouldn&#8217;t change a thing.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>That&#8217;s not the way you&#8217;ll heal your heart.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111701 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg\" alt=\"donna in giacca nera che guarda il mare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-looking-at-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le ferite saranno ancora l\u00ec e potrebbero fare ancora pi\u00f9 male.<\/p>\n<p>You let one wrong person inside your heart but that mustn&#8217;t make you close the door of your heart forever.<\/p>\n<p>One day, the right one will come knocking on that door and you&#8217;ll have to let him in. You&#8217;ll see all the light and happiness he&#8217;ll carry into your damaged heart.<\/p>\n<p><em>You&#8217;ll never be able to forget it, that&#8217;s a fact. And you shouldn\u2019t either.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>You&#8217;ll heal but you&#8217;ll never be able to remove all the scars left after it. And you shouldn&#8217;t even be trying to.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Leave them right where they are and embrace every single one of them. Wear all those scars proudly because they&#8217;re the only witnesses of everything you went through.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll be your little reminders to tell you when it&#8217;s time to hit the brakes every time you fall in love with someone and they don&#8217;t reciprocate your feelings in the same way.<\/p>\n<p>Aspettate ancora un po', per favore. So <strong>it&#8217;s really stormy right now but I promise you, it won&#8217;t rain forever. It can&#8217;t and it won&#8217;t.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>And if you&#8217;re feeling lost&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111702 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in top nero seduta vicino all&#039;acqua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-near-water-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u2026 if you don&#8217;t know how to move on or what to do next, don&#8217;t worry. We all feel like that sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, but really trust me on this, there is a way out. And soon, very soon, you&#8217;ll find the right direction and be able to rise above it all.<\/p>\n<h2>Le cose miglioreranno.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111704 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna con capelli ricci seduta su una roccia durante il tramonto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/woman-sitting-on-rock-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll come out as the only winner of that situation. You&#8217;ll know that you didn&#8217;t do anyone wrong, that you didn&#8217;t hurt anyone.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll know your heart is still pure, unlike the heart of the person who hurt you, and it&#8217;ll be your greatest victory.<\/p>\n<p>Ora, di nuovo, fatemi lo stesso favore. Fai un respiro profondo, vai di nuovo allo specchio e dimmi: cosa vedi adesso?<\/p>\n<p><em>Is it going to be a hurt woman who somewhere along the way of loving the wrong man lost herself or is it going to be a strong and fierce woman who is capable of everything and doesn&#8217;t give a damn about people who don\u2019t deserve her at all?<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First of all, I need you to do me a favor. Go to the nearest mirror in your home and tell me honestly, what do you see? Well, if you see a deeply hurt and broken-hearted woman who doesn&#8217;t have the strength to carry on anymore, you aren&#8217;t even aware of how wrong you actually&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":111693,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-111683","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Hold-On-Just-A-Little-Bit-Longer-All-That-Pain-You-Feel-Right-Now-Will-Soon-Be-Gone-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111683","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=111683"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111683\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/111693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=111683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=111683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=111683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}