{"id":112333,"date":"2020-11-16T01:02:26","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T01:02:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=112333"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:29:53","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:29:53","slug":"assumersi-la-responsabilita-delle-proprie-azioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/assumersi-la-responsabilita-delle-proprie-azioni\/","title":{"rendered":"12 modi che aprono gli occhi per assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni"},"content":{"rendered":"

Domanda veloce: Vi assumete la responsabilit\u00e0 di le vostre azioni<\/a> o tendete a dare la colpa agli altri per gli eventi della vostra vita?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se vi piace giocare al gioco della colpa, significa che rinunciate al vostro potere di cambiare in meglio. La vostra vita \u00e8 il tuo<\/em> responsabilit\u00e0 personale e le persone di successo sono note per accettare la piena responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni.<\/p>\n

Questo articolo \u00e8 dedicato all'assunzione di responsabilit\u00e0 e al lavoro per diventare un essere umano consapevole e attento.<\/p>\n

We all, on occasion, make bad choices that lead us to do bad things. That doesn’t make you a bad person; it only means you’re flawed just like the rest of us.<\/p>\n

To become a better person, you must learn to control your own behavior. Start using the ‘nessuna scusa<\/a>‘ motto and start realizing that when you make mistakes, it’s on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When things go wrong and your hard work goes to waste, it’s vital to understand the importance of personal accountability because this leads to an vita pi\u00f9 facile<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Cos'\u00e8 la vera felicit\u00e0? (E i segreti per raggiungerla)<\/a><\/p>\n

Ma cosa significa esattamente?<\/em><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It means stepping up and accepting the role you play in your own life. It’s acknowledging the good stuff along with the bad.<\/p>\n

Significa non guardarsi intorno per puntare il dito, ma piuttosto dire: “I messed up. And it was through no one else\u2019s fault but my own.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 siete VOI a decidere cosa succede nella vostra vita.<\/strong> S\u00ec, ci sono persone intorno a voi che influenzano alcune delle cose che accadono, ma in definitiva la vostra vita \u00e8 una vostra responsabilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Se fate qualcosa di sbagliato, chiedete scusa. Se la vostra scelta sbagliata \u00e8 costata qualcosa a qualcuno, sia materialmente che emotivamente, riconoscete la vostra parte.<\/p>\n

Vi chiederete cosa ci sia di preciso in tutto questo per voi.<\/p>\n

Che ne dite dello sviluppo personale? Che ne dite di sostituire il vostro personalit\u00e0 negativa<\/a> con tratti positivi?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Che ne dite di imparare a condurre una vita soddisfacente non solo per apparire su Facebook e LinkedIn, ma anche nella realt\u00e0?<\/em><\/p>\n

The best way to get to that place is through self-discipline and self-respect. And with each small step in the right direction, you’ll start noticing changes in both your private and professional lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that you’re starting to realize that siete l'unico artefice della vostra felicit\u00e0<\/a>, you’re ready to take it further.<\/p>\n

Di seguito sono riportati i passi che vi invito a compiere nel vostro viaggio verso l'autoresponsabilit\u00e0. Ogni azione positiva vi aiuter\u00e0 a recuperare la vostra autostima e a prendere il controllo delle vostre azioni.<\/p>\n

A un certo punto, \u00e8 necessario farsi avanti e assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie vittorie e delle proprie sconfitte.<\/strong> E oggi \u00e8 un ottimo giorno per farlo. Quindi, provate a fare un giro e assicuratevi che sia importante!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 25 affermazioni positive per la felicit\u00e0 e il successo<\/a><\/p>\n

Come assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Basta con il gioco delle colpe<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il primo passo \u00e8 l'accettazione della responsabilit\u00e0. Incolpare gli altri e trovare costantemente scuse per le proprie difficolt\u00e0 e i propri errori \u00e8 incredibilmente facile.<\/p>\n

Do you know what isn’t? Accepting that voi<\/em>‘re the one who caused your own suffering. Accepting that il tuo<\/em> Le colpe caratteriali hanno portato a una situazione spiacevole.<\/p>\n

La prossima volta che vi viene voglia di puntare il dito, voglio che vi fermiate un attimo a riflettere.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata quella persona a creare questa situazione negativa o \u00e8 il vostro ego a rendervi impossibile ammettere il vostro disordine?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

At first, it’ll suck. Trust me, I’ve been down that road. I always used to blame others whenever I was unable to do what I was supposed to or deliver on a promise.<\/p>\n

It’s so easy to relinquish any personal responsibility and go through life playing the victim card.<\/p>\n

Solo quando vi renderete conto che la crescita personale \u00e8 impossibile fino a quando non smetterete di dare la colpa, sarete in grado di maturare in tutti i modi che contano davvero.<\/p>\n

Smettete di guardarvi intorno per cercare un capro espiatorio e guardatevi allo specchio.<\/strong> Che vi piaccia o no, farete delle scelte sbagliate lungo il cammino. Ci\u00f2 che rende una persona buona \u00e8 la sua capacit\u00e0 di possederlo<\/strong> e imparare da essa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be true to your word and do what you say you’ll do<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

The first thing I’d like you to understand is that making promises you know you won’t be able to keep is never a wise move.<\/p>\n

Not only does it make people lose trust in you but it also paints a picture of you as an unreliable person. So from today on, I want you to think twice before you make a promise you’re unlikely to keep.<\/p>\n

It’s unfair to the people who count on you. If you’re not down with something, just say it. Nobody’s going to think less of you if you occasionally say no.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che date la vostra parola a qualcuno, assicuratevi di farla valere. Una persona vale quanto la sua parola.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be someone your loved ones can count on and I guarantee you that your life will improve. If you said you’d do something, do whatever it takes to deliver.<\/p>\n

Believe it or not, people don’t forget these things. The more trustworthy you are, the stronger your relationships will become.<\/p>\n

Smettete di essere passivi e agite per migliorare la vostra salute.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Start being proactive. If you want to change, you’re going to have to make it happen for yourself. All changes start with you.<\/p>\n

Essere passivi o circondarsi di emozioni negative, rabbia e risentimento non far\u00e0 altro che rovinare la vostra autostima. Smettete di concentrarvi sul passato e iniziate a guardare avanti.<\/p>\n

Whatever happened in the past is over. There’s no reason for you to dwell on something that’s gone. Assumetevi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle vostre azioni passate e lasciate che vi guidino verso un futuro pi\u00f9 proattivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Figure out what you want to do, what kind of person you’re eager to become and the best ways to get there.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, don’t rush it. Follow your own pace, take small steps and look ahead. If you want to change for the better, you’re going to have to take action.<\/p>\n

Embrace the \u2018NO excuses\u2019 mantra<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Volete fare progressi o continuare a trovare scuse? Si spera che conosciate gi\u00e0 la risposta.<\/p>\n

Ascoltate, trovare scuse non vi porter\u00e0 mai lontano. Sia che vogliate avere successo nella vita professionale che in quella privata, la responsabilit\u00e0 personale gioca un ruolo fondamentale.<\/p>\n

Nobody’s going to hire an individual who can’t admit when they’re at fault. Nobody’s going to appreciate a coworker who keeps pointing fingers at them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Soprattutto, nessun relazione romantica<\/a> non andr\u00e0 mai a fondo finch\u00e9 non imparerete a prendervi la vostra parte di colpa.<\/p>\n

From now on, no excuses. Before you look at someone else, take a look within. It’s scary but oh so necessary.<\/p>\n

Smettere di autocommiserarsi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The importance of a positive attitude cannot be stressed enough. Yes, life is going to bring you a fair share of drama and at times, you’ll even feel as if the world is out to get you. It’s not, though.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bad things happen to every single one of us. One mess after another might feel like a personal attack but it’s just reality. A brutal, harsh reality.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma una cosa che nessuno pu\u00f2 togliervi \u00e8 il vostro atteggiamento. Siete voi a scegliere come farvi influenzare dalle cose!<\/p>\n

Please don’t be that person. Don’t be someone who constantly feels sorry for themselves and expects pity. Life doesn’t take it easy on anyone.<\/p>\n

Affrontate le difficolt\u00e0, rialzatevi e perseverate. Imparate a trovare il lato positivo in ogni situazione e rinunciare alla mentalit\u00e0 della vittima.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Sfida di 30 giorni all'amore per se stessi: diventare la versione migliore di se stessi<\/a><\/p>\n

Creare obiettivi realistici per la propria vita<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Knowing your limitations is important. You don’t want to set yourself up for failure, right? So don’t! Be realistic about what you can and cannot accomplish regarding your future.<\/p>\n

You know yourself better than anyone so you’ll be the best judge of what that is. Il motivo per cui questo \u00e8 fondamentale \u00e8 che il senso di realizzazione vi aiuter\u00e0 a vedere la vostra autostima.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In turn, you’re going to be less inclined to blame others for your mess-ups, as you’ll be more self-aware as a human being.<\/p>\n

And accomplished, self-aware people don’t go around pointing fingers. They’re too busy making stuff happen for themselves. The only validation that you’ll ever need is your own.<\/p>\n

Imparare a perdonare se stessi quando si commettono errori<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I am my own worst critic. When I do something wrong, no one is harder on me than myself. I guess that’s how most people are. But at what cost?<\/p>\n

Il mondo \u00e8 gi\u00e0 abbastanza duro cos\u00ec com'\u00e8. Ci sono cos\u00ec tante persone l\u00e0 fuori che sono pronte ad abbatterti e a provare piacere nel vederti cadere. Perch\u00e9 mai dovreste aiutarli a farlo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imparate l'importanza di prendervi cura di voi stessi. Siate i migliori amici di voi stessi. Quando fate involontariamente una cosa sbagliata, perdonatevi. Tutti commettono errori!<\/p>\n

If you’re willing to acknowledge it and learn from it, then you’re more than deserving of being forgiven. Kindness is so important, soprattutto<\/em> verso se stessi.<\/p>\n

Riconoscere e interrompere le cattive abitudini<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

Taking responsibility for your actions (or a lack of them) is one of your habits, right? The first step toward betterment is pinpointing your bad habits. Looks like that part is covered. Now, it’s time to break away from it.<\/p>\n

This is the tough part but I’m positive that by now, you’ve started seeing that it’s not impossible.<\/p>\n

I’ve mentioned the importance of proactivity and the no-excuses mantra. The next time you sense that you might say something you know you’ll regret, stop yourself. Think about whether that is the right thing to do.<\/p>\n

Don’t make an excuse as to why it is but rather acknowledge the mistake, apologize if needed and do better next time.<\/p>\n

Smettete di lasciare che gli altri influenzino la vostra visione di voi stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Someone’s opinion of you does not define you in any way, shape or form. So why would you let it affect you so badly?<\/p>\n

I’ll be the first to admit that I tend to let others’ opinions get to me badly. Or should I say, used to let it get to me? Ever since I decided to take control of my life, things have changed significantly.<\/p>\n

Non permetto pi\u00f9 a nessuno di avere una presa su di me. Non permetto pi\u00f9 agli estranei (o a chiunque sia irrilevante) di influenzare la mia visione di me stesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’ve realized that everyone has an opinion and that’s something I’ll never be able to change. But what I CAN change is my perspective. And che<\/em> \u00e8 stata un'importante svolta.<\/p>\n

The only opinion that matters is your own! The sooner you realize it, the better you’ll feel for it.<\/p>\n

Amare se stessi (difetti e tutto il resto)<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Amare se stessi<\/a> nei giorni in cui vi svegliate e nulla sembra andare per il verso giusto. Amate voi stessi nei giorni in cui vi sentite particolarmente gi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Love yourself even more when you don’t believe that there’s anything to love about you.<\/p>\n

We are all just trying to find our way in this mess called life. But guess what? Life doesn’t come with instructions, so all you can do is wing it.<\/p>\n

Just remember that no matter how bad things seem to be at the time, there’s one thing you should never forget…<\/p>\n

To LOVE YOURSELF. Because if you don’t, who will?<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Un promemoria per essere sempre grati di ci\u00f2 che si possiede<\/a><\/p>\n

Frequentare persone che vi incoraggiano e vi sollevano<\/h2>\n

\"quattro<\/p>\n

Una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti quando si parla di miglioramento personale \u00e8 circondarsi delle persone giuste.<\/p>\n

You need someone you can count on day and night. You need someone who won’t push you aside as you learn to take responsibility for your actions.<\/p>\n

You deserve someone who’s going to love you nella buona e nella cattiva sorte<\/a>con i suoi difetti e tutto il resto. Non accettate niente di meno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Rivalutate la vostra cerchia ristretta ed eliminate coloro che sminuiscono voi e le vostre scelte. Migliori sono le persone che vi circondano, maggiore \u00e8 la probabilit\u00e0 di apportare cambiamenti positivi alla vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Good people encourage their friends and root for them behind their back. It’s not about how big your circle is; it\u2019s the quality of it that makes all the difference.<\/p>\n

Riconoscere le proprie scelte per imparare a non rifarle.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Every day, you’re faced with numerous choices. Those tiny moments that seem irrelevant but that can change your entire life.<\/p>\n

Alcuni sono davvero fugaci e senza un grande impatto, ma altri portano a cose grandi e importanti.<\/p>\n

A volte, queste cose portano a scelte sbagliate che finiscono per essere l'ultima cosa che volevi che accadesse, ma ecco che ti ritrovi. In momenti come questo, mostri la tua vera natura.<\/p>\n

Will you be able to take responsibility for your actions and own up to that unintentional mistake? Or will you blame it on external factors that didn’t actually play a role in it?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Poter dire di aver sbagliato aiuta a crescere come essere umano. Ti aiuta a maturare in modi che alla fine hanno un grande impatto su chi sei come persona.<\/p>\n

Riconoscere la propria scelta sbagliata e ammetterla, se non altro per il solo scopo di sapere che cosa si sta facendo. non<\/em> di ripetere mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Ci sono sempre due scelte semplici: Accettare la colpa e correggere la situazione o puntare il dito ed evitare di assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quale sar\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Citazioni sull'assunzione di responsabilit\u00e0 per le proprie azioni<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Come tocco finale e come modo perfetto per esemplificare l'importanza della responsabilit\u00e0 personale, vi propongo le citazioni pi\u00f9 stimolanti sull'assunzione di responsabilit\u00e0 per le proprie azioni.<\/em><\/p>\n

1. “It is only when you take responsibility for your life that you discover how powerful you truly are.” \u2013 Allanah Hunt<\/p>\n

2. “Responsibility is the thing people dread most of all. Yet it is the one thing in the world that develops us, gives us manhood or womanhood fiber.” \u2013 Frank Crane<\/p>\n

3. “When you think everything is someone else\u2019s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.” \u2013 Dalai Lama<\/p>\n

4. “Attack the evil that is within yourself, rather than attacking the evil that is in others.” \u2013 Confucius<\/p>\n

5. “The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life.” \u2013 Hal Elrod<\/p>\n

6. “The power behind taking responsibility for your actions lies in putting an end to negative thought patterns. You no longer dwell on what went wrong or focus on whom you are going to blame. You don\u2019t waste time building roadblocks to your success. Instead, you are set free and can now focus on succeeding.” \u2013 Lorii Myers<\/p>\n

7. “The key is taking responsibility and initiative, deciding what your life is about, and prioritizing your life around the most important things.” \u2013 Stephen Covey<\/p>\n

8. “Stop blaming other people for your own behavior! Own the truth. If you don\u2019t like it, then invest the time and energy to change it.” \u2013 Akiroq Brost<\/p>\n

9. “You are responsible for your life. You can\u2019t keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on.” \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/p>\n

10. “Responsibility to yourself means refusing to let others do your thinking, talking, and naming for you; it means learning to respect and use your own brains and instincts; hence, grappling with hard work.” \u2013 Adrienne Rich<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

11. “If you want to change something about yourself, you need to be willing to take full responsibility for yourself. If you are going to hide behind stories and excuses, it won\u2019t work!” \u2013 Akiroq Brost<\/p>\n

12. “Take responsibility for your own happiness, do not expect people or things to bring you happiness, or you could be disappointed.” \u2013 Rodolfo Costa<\/p>\n

13. “With freedom comes responsibility. For the person who is unwilling to grow up, the person who does not want to carry his own weight, this is a frightening prospect.” \u2013 Eleanor Roosevelt<\/p>\n

14. “Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility.” \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

15. “Action springs not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility.” \u2013 Dietrich Bonhoeffer<\/p>\n

16. “A sign of wisdom and maturity is when you come to terms with the realization that your decisions cause your rewards and consequences. You are responsible for your life, and your ultimate success depends on the choices you make.” \u2013 Denis Waitley<\/p>\n

17. “Accepting personal responsibility for your life frees you from outside influences \u2013 increases your self-esteem \u2013 boosts confidence in your ability to make decisions \u2013 and ultimately leads to achieving success in life.” \u2013 Roy T. Bennett<\/p>\n

18. “When we have begun to take charge of our lives, to own ourselves, there is no longer any need to ask permission of someone.” \u2013 George O’Neill & Nena O’Neill<\/p>\n

19. “The disappearance of a sense of responsibility is the most far-reaching consequence of submission to authority.” \u2013 Stanley Milgram<\/p>\n

20. “Character \u2013 the willingness to accept responsibility for one\u2019s own life \u2013 is the source from which self-respect springs.” \u2013 Joan Didion<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

21. “In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.” \u2013 Eleanor Roosevelt<\/p>\n

22. “The victim mindset dilutes the human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.” \u2013 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n

23. “Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.” \u2013 Les Brown<\/p>\n

24. “Stop pointing fingers and placing blame on others. Your life can only change to the degree that you accept responsibility for it.” \u2013 Steve Maraboli<\/p>\n

25. “There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction. The moment you are old enough to take the wheel, the responsibility lies with you.” \u2013 J.K. Rowling<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 21 decisioni che cambiano la vita da prendere nel 2021<\/a><\/p>\n

Se volete imparare ad assumervi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle vostre azioni, i 12 passi sopra descritti sono il vostro biglietto d'oro per arrivarci.<\/p>\n

You can’t keep skating through life fault-free. There comes a time when you need to learn the importance of personal responsibility and start living your life accordingly.<\/p>\n

Assumete la responsabilit\u00e0 di ci\u00f2 che dite e fate e accettate le vittorie e le sconfitte. O in parole povere, stop making excuses and decide that it\u2019s time to start making progress.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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