{"id":11255,"date":"2018-01-04T08:59:12","date_gmt":"2018-01-04T08:59:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11255"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:33:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:33:13","slug":"non-aspettera-per-sempre-un-giorno-shell-se-ne-andra-e-basta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-aspettera-per-sempre-un-giorno-shell-se-ne-andra-e-basta\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ti aspetter\u00e0 per sempre, un giorno se ne andr\u00e0 e basta"},"content":{"rendered":"

L'hai resa ridicola, ma \u00e8 stato solo temporaneo. Potevi recitare sotto la maschera, ma alla fine la maschera cadeva. Lo fanno sempre; era solo una questione di tempo. Il fatto che tu l'abbia ferita \u00e8 stato temporaneo, perch\u00e9 a un certo punto ti ha capito e se n'\u00e8 andata senza voltarsi indietro. Le era rimasto un po' di rispetto per se stessa.<\/span><\/p>\n

La decisione spettava a voi. Dovevate scegliere se oltrepassare la linea che lei aveva posto quando ne aveva abbastanza delle vostre bugie e manipolazioni.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

She has been in this world, dealing with men like you for far too long. Nothing could blind her anymore because she has had her share of broken hearts and she won\u2019t let you be yet another man who strings her along and hurts her in the end.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, she realized what you\u2019ve been doing to her and alla fine si \u00e8 allontanata.<\/a> Un giorno qualunque, quando vi siete svegliati, lei non c'era pi\u00f9 e voi eravate distrutti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quel momento in cui le si \u00e8 schiarita la mente e quando ha finalmente trovato il coraggio di lasciarti, \u00e8 tornata a essere una donna felice, a differenza tua. Tu eri un disastro perch\u00e9 hai capito cosa avevi e cosa hai perso. Da quel momento in poi, sarai dispiaciuto, sarai distrutto, ma sar\u00e0 troppo tardi. Troppo tardi per te, non per lei.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non le hai dato nulla nella vostra relazione. Le avete dato solo una piccola parte di quello che si merita. Non le hai dato rispetto e amore incondizionato. L'hai calpestata perch\u00e9 lei non ti ha mai negato nulla di tutto ci\u00f2.<\/span><\/p>\n

You never made her a priority. She was always somewhere at the bottom of your list. And what\u2019s even sadder\u2014she learned to live with that. She was sad and broken but she never lost hope that someday you will change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma non l'hai mai fatto.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lei ha visto del buono in te. Ha visto questo enorme potenziale, ha continuato a sperare che venisse fuori, ma tu hai continuato a fare il tuo piccolo gioco di astuzia perch\u00e9 eri sicuro che lei non ti avrebbe mai lasciato. Credo che lo scherzo sia stato fatto a te, perch\u00e9 lei si \u00e8 svegliata dal suo sogno e si \u00e8 liberata dalla falsa sensazione che tutto sarebbe andato bene e cos\u00ec, alla fine, se n'\u00e8 andata.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'hai data per scontata<\/a> perch\u00e9 pensavate che l'amore fosse facile da trovare.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You thought that it\u2019s easy to find someone who will love the whole of you; someone who will take your flaws and accept them because they are a part of you and they make you what you are.<\/span><\/p>\n

Did you really think she was staying with you because she had to? Let me break it to you\u2014NO! She stayed with you because she didn\u2019t want to give up on something that could be perfect, something that could last forever. If only you could have made more of an effort and made the two of you last. You would be the happiest person alive.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

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She stayed because she wanted to fight for you. She cared for you and she wanted to keep you. She knew that things won\u2019t be great all the time. She knew she had to live through the hard times and despite that, ha continuato a scegliere te<\/a> anche se l'avete resa solo un'opzione.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

She was not asking for much. She wasn\u2019t asking for you to move mountains for her. She wasn\u2019t asking something impossible or crazy. She was only asking for you to commit to her because, despite everything, you would have made a good couple if you had wanted to try.<\/span><\/p>\n

She wasn\u2019t asking to have a Cinderella ending. She didn\u2019t want to live in a fairy tale. She knew that life is tough and relationships are even tougher. She knew you have to fight hard if you want something to succeed.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t run away from challenges. That\u2019s why she didn\u2019t give up on you. That\u2019s why she kept giving you second chances, although you didn\u2019t deserve them. She wanted you to last because she saw something close to perfection. She saw a potential life with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

She wanted to make you happy, but not at all costs. She wanted to wait for you and give you time to realize what you really want, but she didn\u2019t want to wait for you forever.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Ora, questo ne ha avuto abbastanza e se n'\u00e8 andata<\/a>, you realize you were being a jerk to her. But, now, it\u2019s too late to make amends. She won\u2019t take you back because she stayed with you way too long, giving you chances to join her in that beautiful love she made for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, that she\u2019s left, you feel sorry. You think over and over in your head what a jerk you were. You want forgiveness, but you aren\u2019t entitled to ask for it Even you know that you overdid it.<\/span><\/p>\n

While you were together, you should have made time for her. You should have fought for her. You should have never shut her out or ignored her. You should have known that she wanted to be yours. She wanted to spend the rest of her life with you and you selfishly ignored that because you thought she won\u2019t be going anywhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

You made a stupid mistake and now you\u2019re paying for it. You were dumb enough to let such a woman slip away from your fingers. Now, try to live with what you\u2019ve done because never again will you find someone who loved you like she did.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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