{"id":112706,"date":"2020-11-13T16:48:33","date_gmt":"2020-11-13T16:48:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=112706"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:21","slug":"rivelare-la-propria-attrazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rivelare-la-propria-attrazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando rivelare la propria attrazione e quando fare il duro per conquistarla"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi sentite un po' persi nel gioco degli appuntamenti?<\/strong> I hear you, you\u2019re not the only one.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to lie, incontri nel 21\u00b0 secolo<\/strong><\/a> pu\u00f2 ottenere un poco<\/em> ridicolo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t ignore the fact that we live in a world that\u2019s completely different from the world people experienced even just twenty years ago.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s just so much going on!<\/strong> People are sharing their experiences everywhere and it\u2019s easier than ever to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to other people.<\/p>\n

That also means trying different methods of flirting based on someone else’s experiences.<\/p>\n

Quando si tratta di appuntamenti, da una parte ci sono i sostenitori giurati del gioco duro come strada da percorrere. Dall'altro lato, ci sono persone che sostengono mostrare la vulnerabilit\u00e0<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the right way to go?<\/strong><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no right answer. It all depends on what YOU want and how YOU feel. It depends on the person you\u2019re pursuing, it depends on the phase of the relationship you\u2019re in\u2026<\/p>\n

However, there are some things that can help you decide which route to take, so let\u2019s start.<\/p>\n

No strings attached or…?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Playing \u2018hard to get\u2019<\/a> funziona solo se la persona \u00e8 gi\u00e0 interessata a voi.<\/p>\n

Solo questo dimostra che voi o l'altra persona siete gi\u00e0 attratti dall'altro se continuate a comunicare nonostante il gioco. Quindi, se avete risolto questo problema, possiamo andare avanti.<\/p>\n

L'aspetto pi\u00f9 importante di questo metodo \u00e8 che davvero<\/em> does work. There is actual psychological research to prove this but I don\u2019t want to bore you with facts, so let\u2019s keep it short.<\/p>\n

Why does it work? It creates mystery, it sparks interest, it\u2019s exciting.<\/strong> It says, \u201cI\u2019m desirable<\/a> and you need to work for my attention.\u201d<\/p>\n

La maggior parte delle cose preziose, in qualsiasi ambito della vita, non sono facilmente raggiungibili.<\/strong> That\u2019s why luxury exists.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s something addicting about \u2018hunting\u2019 for what you want and\/or being the prize.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Detto questo, va detto anche questo: While excitement is addictive, fun and great… it doesn\u2019t last long.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dopo la fase di eccitazione, le persone colgono i sentimenti o perdono interesse, una volta ottenuto ci\u00f2 che desiderano.<\/p>\n

A big mistake many people make is when they go on with the \u2018hard to get\u2019 attitude too far into a relationship, even after they both develop deeper feelings for each other.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che a volte si traduce in un relazione tossica<\/a>, where partners never stop conditioning each other’s attention and affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In other words, playing hard to get is a fun way to flirt at the beginning of the relationship but ultimately, it’s pretty immature.<\/p>\n

L'amore e l'importanza di essere autentici<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If you want real love and a long-term relationship, BE HONEST. It\u2019s as simple as that. If you like somebody, say it, if you want their attention, find a way to show it.<\/p>\n

La schiettezza e l'onest\u00e0 garantiscono una relazione sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean you should walk around expressing your undying love for a person you barely know… it just means that if you\u2019re honest about the way you feel, you\u2019re closer to a genuine relationship.<\/p>\n

You have nothing to lose because if they don\u2019t like you or care for you, you\u2019re better off anyway.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensateci. Fare voi<\/em> volete qualcuno che giochi con i vostri sentimenti o qualcuno che provi dei sentimenti autentici per voi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fare voi<\/em> Volete una persona che nasconde i propri sentimenti per apparire pi\u00f9 fredda o qualcuno che comunica con sicurezza e maturit\u00e0?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ascoltate voi stessi, ascoltate il vostro intuito. Don\u2019t give in to societal pressure.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Most importantly, don\u2019t ever feel bad about expressing your feelings to someone, even if they don\u2019t react how you\u2019d expect.<\/p>\n

Vulnerability isn\u2019t wrong<\/strong><\/a>. It\u2019s not weak, it\u2019s not something to be ashamed of.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fin dei conti, ci\u00f2 che rende una persona attratta da te e che rimane con te sei tu, cos\u00ec come sei, non una versione inventata di qualcuno che vuole attenzione.<\/p>\n

Se volete giocare, preparatevi al gioco. Se volete l'amore, preparatevi a qualcosa di vero.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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