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<\/p>\nTi dir\u00f2 un piccolo segreto, ma ti prego, che rimanga tra noi: Non sono affatto la donna che vedete il sabato sera o sul mio profilo Instagram.<\/p>\n
Avete presente quella che continua a postare foto della sua meravigliosa vita? Quella che ha sempre un ampio sorriso sul viso e che apparentemente non \u00e8 mai di cattivo umore?<\/p>\n
Onestamente, quella donna ha ben poco in comune con me.<\/p>\n
Yeah, that\u2019s right, I\u2019m talking about that tall, skinny blond whose selfies you keep seeing on your social media feed. I don\u2019t know who she is as I definitely don\u2019t look like that.<\/p>\n
In fact, I\u2019ve just spent years mastering the art of looking like her.<\/p>\n
E che dire del suo fantastico fidanzato? Sembra che i due non litighino mai. Le fa sempre delle sorprese e sembra essere l'uomo pi\u00f9 romantico del mondo.<\/p>\n
Oh, intendi quel ragazzo che l'anno scorso si \u00e8 dimenticato del mio compleanno e poi ha comprato 101 rose per cercare di rimediare il giorno dopo?<\/p>\n
Tanto per essere chiari, stiamo ancora parlando del tizio che mi fa sentire emotivamente trascurata per la maggior parte del tempo?<\/p>\n
Dovremmo iniziare a parlare della sua incredibile carriera o del modo in cui \u00e8 sempre circondata da un gruppo di amici?<\/p>\n
The list can go on forever, but you get the picture. This woman\u2019s life is apparently every little girl\u2019s dream come true. It looks like she has it all.<\/p>\n
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Beh, tesoro, I\u2019m here to tell you that nothing is as it seems.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m a professional at faking it, trust me. In fact, I\u2019ve spent most of my adult years trying to convince strangers that my life is perfect.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m not just talking about my social media profiles, I\u2019m also referring to the phony smile that\u2019s become a part of me. Never mind the fact that I\u2019ve been repressing my true emotions for as long as I can remember.<\/p>\n Basically, I\u2019ve been living a lie for so long that I\u2019ve ended up believing it as well. You see, I was so hard on myself that I refused to accept anything below perfection.<\/strong><\/p>\n Beh, al diavolo! The truth is that my life is a huge mess and I\u2019m finally learning to embrace it.<\/strong> I don\u2019t have to be flawless to be fantastic.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m honestly grateful for all of my blessings. I\u2019m thankful<\/a> e orgoglioso di me stesso per tutti i miei successi e le mie conquiste.<\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean that I don\u2019t experience failures as well. It also doesn\u2019t mean that there aren\u2019t days when I hate myself and would jump right out of my skin if I had the chance.<\/p>\n So, I\u2019ve decided to cut the crap. I\u2019ve decided to put a stop to these false pretenses and show the real me to the world.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t look like a top runway model. My mother has never encouraged me, my job has made me reach my breaking point, my love life is falling apart, and I\u2019m pretty sure I don\u2019t have more than one amico vero<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n There are mornings when I don\u2019t have the strength to leave my bed, there are days when I feel like the biggest loser in the world, and there are nights when I cry myself to sleep.<\/p>\n There are moments when my insecurities get the best of me and when my own self-doubts overwhelm me. There are days when I can\u2019t see my worth no matter how much I try.<\/p>\n However, you don\u2019t notice any of this, do you? Well, now you know. There, I said it. I\u2019m not perfect nor will I ever be.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quindi, basta essere cos\u00ec duri con me stessi e criticarmi per aver avuto l'audacia di essere umani.<\/p>\n Enough with pretending that everything is okay while I\u2019m falling apart. Enough with laughing when I would actually rather cry my eyes out.<\/p>\n Basta con il paragone con gli altri. Basta con lo spreco di tempo ed energie per cercare di soddisfare qualche standard sociale imposto.<\/p>\n![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sad-woman-lying.jpg\")
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