{"id":113364,"date":"2020-11-16T00:50:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T00:50:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113364"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:31:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:31:37","slug":"dire-al-mio-io-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dire-al-mio-io-single\/","title":{"rendered":"13 cose che il mio io sposato vorrebbe poter dire al mio io single"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avete sogni o obiettivi non realizzati, quelli che avreste dovuto raggiungere prima di sposarvi? Avete dei rimpianti legati alla vostra vita da single?<\/p>\n

Io lo faccio. Beh, forse non si tratta di rimpianti, ma pi\u00f9 che altro di alcuni messaggi che tornerei volentieri indietro nel tempo e che racconterei al mio io single, in modo che quella povera, ingenua ragazza non permetta a nessuno di ferirla o maltrattarla.<\/p>\n

Vorrei anche dirle che non sar\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9 sbadata di adesso. Se solo lo avessi saputo allora, forse avrei usato meglio quel tempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s too late for me now. Unfortunately, I can\u2019t travel back to the past and change it, but maybe this can help you.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, tu, una bellissima e sorprendente ragazza single che sogna di indossare presto un abito bianco.<\/p>\n

Well, stop dreaming. You\u2019re only wasting your time. Stand up and enjoy your vita da single<\/a>. Ci sono tante cose da fare prima di sposarsi.<\/p>\n

Embrace your single life and don’t waste a second of it because time flies so fast. If you don\u2019t use that precious time well, you\u2019ll definitely regret it one day.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You will never be perfect and that’s perfectly okay<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I was always trying to be the best at everything, so I could find someone who\u2019d also be the best. I was trying to find the perfect man.<\/p>\n

Beh, \u00e8 stato un errore madornale.<\/p>\n

There is no perfect person. You can neither find one nor can you become one, and that\u2019s the truth. This delusion made me suffer a lot and miss many good people.<\/p>\n

Godetevi ogni momento della vostra vita da single<\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Tick tock, tick tock, tick tock… L'orologio suona in continuazione e il tempo passa troppo velocemente.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

La vita \u00e8 davvero un proiettile che sfreccia<\/em>. Prima di rendersene conto, ci si ritrova sposati e con figli, e tutto cambia in un attimo.<\/p>\n

Of course, this is also a beautiful period of life, but it is definitely more challenging. Your single life is much more careless and that’s why you should embrace, use and enjoy every second of it.<\/p>\n

Amare prima di tutto se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Don’t ever love another human being more than you love yourself. That’s how you give them the power to control you and your life.<\/p>\n

Also, if you love yourself, you\u2019ll be aware of your self-worth, too, and you\u2019ll never allow others to treat you any less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

L'amore per se stessi<\/a> \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 importante di quanto pensiate. Chiunque pu\u00f2 entrare e uscire dalla vostra vita, ma voi siete l'unica costante della vostra vita, l'unica che \u00e8 stata e sar\u00e0 presente fino alla fine.<\/p>\n

Prendersi cura della propria salute deve essere sempre una priorit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che da giovani tutti trascuriamo un po' la salute. Siamo sempre di fretta, inseguiamo i nostri sogni e gli obiettivi del nostro futuro e diamo priorit\u00e0 ad altre cose rispetto alla nostra salute.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che la cosa migliore che possiamo fare per il nostro futuro \u00e8 dare sempre la priorit\u00e0 alla cura della salute, sia mentale che fisica.<\/p>\n

Tenere sempre in considerazione tutto ci\u00f2 che si ha<\/h2>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

It’s good to always strive for more in life, but you must also cherish and essere grati per<\/a> tutto quello che avete in ogni momento.<\/p>\n

Apprezzare il tempo trascorso da soli<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In our youth, we don’t like to be alone often because we feel too lonely in those moments. This is only because we aren\u2019t aware of the importance of trascorrere del tempo da soli<\/a> occasionalmente.<\/p>\n

Once you marry, especially when you have kids, you won’t have a lot of time for yourself and you’ll regret not enjoying that time when you were single. You’ll see, then you’ll be thankful for every minute of your ‘alone time’.<\/p>\n

Mantenere una mente aperta<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

You’re so afraid to step out of your comfort zone from time to time. You don’t know what you are missing. Go, grab your life by the horns and explore it.<\/p>\n

Ci sono ancora tante cose, nuove esperienze e avventure che vi aspettano l\u00e0 fuori.<\/p>\n

Don’t be cheap with yourself<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Buy those beautiful shoes you were looking at for so long, but you think they’re a little bit expensive. Stop overthinking it. Click that ‘buy’ button.<\/p>\n

Treat yourself as much as you can. You can be cheap on so many other things, but don’t ever be cheap on yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once you marry and have kids, you’ll have many other obligations and then you’ll have to think hard before you buy something for yourself.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should use your single life to treat yourself more often.<\/p>\n

Mantenere i propri principi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, no matter who tells you you’re wrong, you should stand by your beliefs and principles.<\/p>\n

Never allow your partner to affect your opinion too much or make you change it. By doing so, you’re giving them the power to control you, and by giving them that power, you’re slowly losing your identity in the relationship.<\/p>\n

Fidatevi pi\u00f9 spesso del vostro intuito<\/h2>\n

\"le<\/p>\n

There is something with women and their intuition and it’s almost never wrong. That’s why you should believe it more often.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t silence that inner voice every time it\u2019s telling you something about your partner.<\/p>\n

You can’t change a person by loving them harder<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che, per quanto ci si sforzi o per quanto si ami qualcuno, non si riuscir\u00e0 mai a cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

A person can change only if they want to. Your love can be their motive, but that’s it. And, don’t even think about changing your partner because it would be a huge waste of your time.<\/p>\n

Tutto \u00e8 temporaneo nella vita, tranne il vero amore<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Your life will have ups and downs, and it\u2019s the same with your relationship. The important thing is that you don’t give up after just one fight.<\/p>\n

Non importa quante volte si cada, bisogna trovare un modo per rialzarsi e continuare a lottare. La felicit\u00e0 e il dolore sono entrambi temporanei, proprio come ogni altra cosa nella nostra vita, tranne che per il dolore. amore vero<\/a> infatti.<\/p>\n

Viaggi, viaggi, viaggi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che avete una buona opportunit\u00e0 di viaggiare da qualche parte e visitare un posto nuovo, sfruttatela. Incontrate nuove persone, visitate nuovi luoghi e conoscete culture diverse.<\/p>\n

You can’t be sure if you’ll be able to travel with your spouse or if they\u2019ll like it, so use this chance before you have to beg someone to go with you, and travel as much as you can because that’s true wealth.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you have any unfulfilled dreams or goals, the ones you should have achieved before you got married? Do you have any regrets related to your single life? I do. Well, maybe not regrets, more like a few messages I would gladly go back in time and tell my single self, so that poor, naive…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":113386,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/13-Things-My-Married-Self-Wishes-I-Could-Tell-My-Single-Self-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113364"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113364\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}