{"id":113388,"date":"2020-11-16T00:52:52","date_gmt":"2020-11-16T00:52:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113388"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:31:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:31:13","slug":"rimanere-reali-rimanere-fedeli-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rimanere-reali-rimanere-fedeli-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Siate sinceri, leali o lontani da me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever feel like you\u2019ve just had enough of it all? Like, you&#8217;re sick and tired of dating the wrong men and wasting your time on people who will never be able to see your worth?<\/p>\n<p>Vi capita mai di pensare di dover rinunciare all'amore? Come se non fosse davvero destinato a voi?<\/p>\n<p><strong>I know that giving up on love is wrong because deep down, I&#8217;m sure that we all have a soulmate, that one person who is meant for us and with whom we&#8217;ll spend the rest of our lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Ma comunque, onestamente, dopo la fine della mia ultima relazione, ero a un passo dal diventare una gattara pazza e rimanerlo per il resto della mia vita.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>What&#8217;s the point of cheating?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t get it. What&#8217;s the point of playing with someone&#8217;s heart? How can someone betray the person they swear they honestly love?<\/p>\n<p>When will some people learn that a human heart and emotions aren&#8217;t their toys? You can&#8217;t play with it and then throw it away when you get bored or find a new &#8216;toy&#8217; for yourself.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>Cercare conforto nel karma<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113395\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna sola e triste con una bottiglia di vino rosso in un hotel di lusso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/lonely-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The thing that comforts me is that those people don&#8217;t believe in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/a-tutti-gli-imbroglioni-la-fuori-il-karma-e-una-puttana\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">karma<\/a>. Ma \u00e8 cos\u00ec. E so che un giorno busser\u00e0 alle loro porte.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll catch them off guard and make them pay for hurting another human being and breaking their heart. <strong>I tempi possono essere lenti, ma il karma sar\u00e0 servito un giorno, perch\u00e9 il karma vince sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My soul is full of bruises, and my heart is full of marks. They were both hurt so many times, and I think they&#8217;ll never be able to heal completely.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>It\u2019s time for change<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I have decided to change some things. <strong>This is where I&#8217;m putting my foot down. It&#8217;s enough. I&#8217;ve had enough of the mistreatment and half-hearted love. It needs to stop right here, right now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not saying it all was my fault. Maybe some people will judge me and say how I was guilty of letting my heart get broken again and again for so many years or how it&#8217;s my fault for allowing others to treat me poorly.<\/p>\n<p>Sinceramente volevo solo essere amata. Volevo sentirmi vera, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/citazioni-sullamore-incondizionato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">incondizionato<\/a>, eternal, forever kind of love that I was giving to others. If that&#8217;s a sin, a crime, or a mistake, then I am guilty, and I&#8217;m admitting to my crime.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>To the man I will love next&#8230;<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113402\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"uomo in camicia bianca che guarda indietro con lo sfondo della citt\u00e0 sfocata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/man-in-white-shirt-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi odio un po' per aver permesso agli uomini di farmi sentire insicura.<\/p>\n<p>Now, when I&#8217;m completely aware of how much I am worth, I will never allow another man to treat me any less than I deserve ever again.<\/p>\n<p>I won&#8217;t accept being treated as basic anymore. From now on, a man who&#8217;ll want to date me will have to try hard to win over my heart.<\/p>\n<p>I will never again commit my time or give my honest and pure feelings to a man who isn&#8217;t ready to reciprocate them the way he should.<\/p>\n<p>Non lo far\u00f2 mai pi\u00f9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psychology\/advice\/8-cose-che-non-dovreste-mai-perdonare-in-una-relazione-di-coppia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">perdonare<\/a> essere tradita o tradita. Non dar\u00f2 mai pi\u00f9 a un uomo pi\u00f9 di una possibilit\u00e0 perch\u00e9 credo davvero che se ami sinceramente qualcuno, non lo ferirai mai.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I will never again settle for half-hearted love. There are no halves when it comes to real love. It&#8217;s either to the fullest or not at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-113403\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna dai capelli ricci e biondi che guarda la telecamera con pensieri profondi \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/curly-blonde-haired-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il prossimo uomo con cui uscir\u00f2 dovr\u00e0 mettermi in cima a tutte le sue liste, ma soprattutto alla sua lista di priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll have to prove his feelings, but most of all, he&#8217;ll have to prove to me that love isn&#8217;t complicated.<\/p>\n<p>And, the only way he&#8217;ll be able to do that is simply by truly and deeply loving me with his entire being.<\/p>\n<p>I know that I don&#8217;t ask for too much. I just want to be loved, truly loved without any games or betrayals. Unfortunately, I see that&#8217;s too difficult to find in this fake world today.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve decided that I won&#8217;t tolerate or entertain any more nonsense. It&#8217;s definitely time to start appreciating myself more.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s high time to stop allowing men who don&#8217;t deserve me to waste my precious time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m tired of forgiving and sick of giving second chances. From now on, it is going to be like this: <em>Rimani reale, rimani fedele, o stai lontano da me!<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you ever feel like you\u2019ve just had enough of it all? Like, you&#8217;re sick and tired of dating the wrong men and wasting your time on people who will never be able to see your worth? Do you ever start thinking like you should give up on love? Like it is really not meant&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":113404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Stay-Real-Stay-Loyal-Or-Stay-Away-From-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113388\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113404"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}