{"id":113572,"date":"2020-11-18T10:30:10","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T10:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113572"},"modified":"2022-02-06T17:00:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T17:00:31","slug":"voglio-solo-essere-amato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/voglio-solo-essere-amato\/","title":{"rendered":"Voglio solo essere amato: 11 sorprendenti ragioni per cui si desidera l'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Voglio solo essere amato<\/em>. At first glance, there’s nothing unusual about this notion. But when you take a second look, a lot can be uncovered.<\/p>\n

Non tutti possono vivere una favola amore vita<\/a>. Per alcuni l'amore romantico lascia molto a desiderare. Questo articolo si rivolge a tutti coloro che hanno difficolt\u00e0 a trovare la persona con cui trascorrere l'eternit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

The first thing I want you to know is that there’s nothing wrong with being desperate for love. At the end of the day, isn’t that the entire purpose of our existence?<\/strong><\/p>\n

No matter what anyone tells you, don’t beat yourself up for being a little bit lost. Just because you find yourself thinking: Voglio solo essere amato<\/em> quite often, doesn’t mean you’ll never find it.<\/p>\n

At this point, you’re probably done wasting time on social media, dating sites, scrolling through lovey-dovey Tumblr memes, and listening to podcasts that just won’t shut up about trovare quello giusto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It seems like all your close friends and family members have their love lives figured out. But let me tell you something…<\/p>\n

There are lots of terrible things in this world, but not having a loved one isn’t one of them.<\/strong> Si tratta solo di un contrattempo temporaneo che si pu\u00f2 facilmente risolvere.<\/p>\n

There are numerous possible reasons why you’re feeling particularly impatient for that all-encompassing love right now.<\/p>\n

Below, I\u2019ll reveal all about them and how you can open your heart to finding the kind of love you deserve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ecco perch\u00e9 si soffre cos\u00ec tanto per l'amore<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Vi siete mai chiesti perch\u00e9 a volte vi sentite cos\u00ec desiderosi e disperati di amore e affetto? Le ragioni potrebbero sorprendervi.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’ve set the bar way too high<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don’t beat yourself up about this. We all expect a lot from love, even though it doesn’t always work out the way we envisage it.<\/p>\n

What’s important to take away from this is the following: By having your bar set so high, you chase away all the potential love interests that might be good for you.<\/p>\n

You’re not going to find a person who checks all your boxes.<\/strong> That’s just not real life.<\/strong> Ma si pu\u00f2 trovare qualcuno che si impegna ogni giorno, nonostante i suoi difetti (proprio come tutti noi).<\/p>\n

You’re feeling super anxious and desperate for love right now because you haven’t given yourself a chance to experience it. Lower the bar (just a little bit) and see what’s out there.<\/p>\n

Essere single da un minuto e mezzo vi ha fatto sentire non amati<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Non avere avuto un partner per un po' di tempo \u00e8 stato rovinare la vostra salute mentale<\/a>. It has made you feel as if there’s something about you that screams ‘unlovable.\u2019<\/p>\n

Toglietevi dalla testa questa idea. La quantit\u00e0 di tempo che passate da single o da fidanzati non ha nulla a che vedere con il fatto che non siete amabili.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, things just pan out that way. But you can’t let this affect your view of yourself. You’re most probably a great person with a stroke of bad luck. That’s all.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 9 stereotipi sulle donne single che devono essere smessi immediatamente<\/a><\/p>\n

Trascorrete del tempo con persone che non sono amorevoli nei vostri confronti.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Essere circondati dal narcisismo pu\u00f2 farvi sentire a terra. Vi siete mai fermati a guardarvi intorno?<\/p>\n

Le persone di cui vi circondate vi influenzano pi\u00f9 di quanto pensiate. Non lasciate che persone narcisiste e tossiche si avvicinino a voi e vi riempiano la testa con la loro logica contorta.<\/p>\n

Dovreste passare del tempo solo con persone che vi apprezzano, vi incoraggiano e vi amano per come siete. Gli altri si meritano il benservito.<\/p>\n

La visione di film romantici vi ha dato aspettative irrealistiche<\/h2>\n

\"Messa<\/p>\n

Ever since you were a little girl, you’ve been dreaming about that seemingly perfect movie love. But movies are not real life.<\/p>\n

While it’s understandable that a young girl would idealize and romanticize love, it’s time to face reality as a grown-up.<\/p>\n

You’re not going to find your Prince Charming, who’ll knock you off your feet and take you to his kingdom where you’ll live happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

I film sono una grande fuga dalla vita reale, non<\/em> un sostituto.<\/strong> Cogliere se stessi pensando disperatamente: Voglio solo essere amato<\/em> potrebbe avere a che fare con questa illusione autoinflitta.<\/p>\n

You’re jealous of the “perfect” social media couples<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The first time you see the #couplegoals hashtag (and others like this trend), naturally, you’re going to start feeling jealous.<\/p>\n

But with time, hopefully, you’ll understand that social media<\/a> is just that. It’s not anyone’s reality. Sure, those couples might be genuinely happy at that moment in time.<\/p>\n

Ma pensate davvero che le cose siano sempre perfette? Non \u00e8 cos\u00ec. Le persone pubblicano solo ci\u00f2 che vogliono che tu veda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t shake the feeling of desperation and hopelessness<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I get it. There were times when I was single for a bit where I’d think to myself: I just want to use your love tonight…<\/em><\/p>\n

And when I’d realize that it’s not going to happen, I’d just fall into a bottomless pit of hopelessness and desperation. While it can be discouraging at times, it’s important to know how to pick yourself up.<\/p>\n

Vi incoraggio a leggere quotidianamente, se necessario, parole di forza. Parlate con qualcuno che conosce il vostro valore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Boy George gets you too (If you’re not familiar, play his bop \u2018I just wanna be loved,\u2019 ASAP). All joking aside, you’re not going to feel like this forever. Remind yourself of this.<\/p>\n

Una recente rottura vi ha fatto mettere in discussione la vostra autostima<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Your ex has filled your mind with self-doubt. That’s what bad break-ups can do to a person. I’ve been there myself.<\/p>\n

Per dimenticare, si va a fare shopping su Amazon e si partecipa ai loro omaggi, come se i rivenditori potessero aiutare in qualche modo (ci sono gi\u00e0 stati, l'ho fatto).<\/p>\n

But an awesome purchase won’t help you get your self-esteem back. Do you know what will? Realizing that this una persona<\/em> non pu\u00f2 metterti in difficolt\u00e0 in questo modo.<\/p>\n

You’re so much more than what your ex has to say about you. There’s a reason why they’re no longer in your life.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Cosa fare quando ci si riprende da una rottura: 90 giorni senza contatti<\/a><\/p>\n

Tutte le persone intorno a voi sono troppo occupate con le loro vite<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sembra che i tuoi amici pi\u00f9 stretti siano tutti l\u00e0 fuori a fare ci\u00f2 che amano, e che i membri della tua famiglia abbiano le loro cose da fare.<\/p>\n

La maggior parte di loro si trova in una situazione completamente diversa nella vita sentimentale. Naturalmente, questo pu\u00f2 farvi sentire soli e alienati.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing like watching your loved ones living their lives to the max, and you\u2019re standing on the sidelines. But to get where they are now, they probably experienced some bad stuff too, right?<\/p>\n

Who knows, maybe you’re at a crossroads right now too. You just have to stick it out a bit longer to get through this mess.<\/p>\n

You don’t know how to love yourself<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che avete fatto qualcosa di gentile per voi stessi? Meglio ancora, cosa pu\u00f2<\/em> you do for you that’ll make you appreciate yourself more?<\/p>\n

The love in your life starts with loving yourself. You cannot be self-deprecating and then wonder why you’re non amato<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siate i primi a offrire un'abbondanza di amore a voi stessi. Fate le cose che vi rendono felici. Rendetevi conto dell'incredibile importanza dell'amore per voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Once you do, I promise, what’s ahead will no longer seem so gloomy and dark.<\/p>\n

Vi manca l'affetto fisico<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una cosa che tutti possono capire. I vantaggi di una relazione sentimentale sono tantissimi.<\/p>\n

Alcuni dei pi\u00f9 importanti sono le coccole, i baci e gli abbracci costanti. Oziare sul divano e guardare un film mentre il partner ti tiene la mano o ti accarezza i capelli.<\/p>\n

Camminare per strada e sentire la propria mano saldamente stretta nella loro. Piccole cose come queste fanno sembrare la vita molto migliore.<\/p>\n

If you’ve been struggling with thoughts like I just vogliono essere amati<\/em> Ultimamente, questo potrebbe essere il motivo. In fin dei conti, l'affetto fisico rilascia gli ormoni del benessere. Come si fa a non sentirne la mancanza?<\/p>\n

Avete molto amore da dare e nessun posto dove concentrarlo.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Certo, questo \u00e8 uno dei sentimenti peggiori in assoluto. Avete tanto amore da dare, ma nessuno a cui darlo.<\/p>\n

After having been through so many trials and tribulations and working hard at learning to love yourself, you’re left all alone. But don’t let this discourage you.<\/p>\n

L'amore arriva nei momenti pi\u00f9 inaspettati. Oggi potreste sentirvi gi\u00f9 di corda e non amati, ma domani le cose potrebbero risollevarsi.<\/strong> And that’s the beauty of life.<\/p>\n

You never really know what it has in store for you. To think that it’s always going to be like this is foolish. Don’t lose faith in yourself and all the love you have to give.<\/p>\n

I don’t know when, but one day, this is all going to be but a memory that will fizzle out as you’re drinking your morning coffee with the love of your life.<\/p>\n

5 consigli utili per aprire il cuore all'amore<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

You can’t wave a magic wand and have the love of your life appear on your doorstep. But you can make a continuous effort that will give you the necessary tools for finding them.<\/em><\/p>\n

Permettete a voi stessi di essere vulnerabili<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le (non cos\u00ec) piccole cose, come essere vulnerabili, possono aiutarvi a creare legami pi\u00f9 profondi con i vostri cari (e con i potenziali futuri amanti).<\/p>\n

Let your vulnerabilities out in the open. This is the only way to attract someone and get them to like you. Why? Because it\u2019s the only way they can meet the real you.<\/p>\n

People go through an array of emotions throughout their lives. You cannot close yourself off from everyone and wonder why you’re so alone.<\/p>\n

Show them you’re ready to open up. Vulnerability and transparency are attractive. Putting up walls isn’t.<\/p>\n

Learn to be happy on your own before finding a partner who’ll add to it<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that if you’re not happy alone, you’re not going to be happy with someone else.<\/p>\n

As I’ve already mentioned, love comes from within. Amate voi stesse (difetti e tutto il resto) e imparate a trovare la felicit\u00e0 nella vostra condizione di single. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ci sono cos\u00ec tanti vantaggi nel non essere legati a un'altra persona.<\/p>\n

While you’re on the lookout, find yourself in the process. What makes you smile from ear to ear? What do you like to do when you don’t have to consider your partner’s needs?<\/p>\n

Do ALL the stuff you normally wouldn’t get to do and see that being on your own is not the end of the world. When you find your happy place alone, then you’re ready to find your bae who’ll only add to it.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 30 giorni di sfida all'amore per se stessi: diventare la versione migliore di se stessi<\/a><\/p>\n

Change your beliefs about what love is “supposed to be”<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Lasciate andare tutte le vostre idee idealizzate su ci\u00f2 che l'amore dovrebbe<\/em> be, and understand what it really is: compromise, sacrifice, moodiness, and picking up your partner’s slack when they’re at 20%.<\/p>\n

Love is never going to be roses and butterflies 24\/7, and as long as you keep expecting it to be, you’ll always remain utterly disappointed.<\/p>\n

There will be happy days, sad days, confusing days, and moments when you’ll want to strangle them (not really, though).<\/p>\n

That’s love in all its messy glory;<\/strong> il bello, il brutto e il cattivo di tutto.<\/p>\n

Smettete di lasciare che siano gli altri a decidere come vi sentite con voi stessi.<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Or should I be more precise\u2013stop letting a disgruntled ex make you think you’re not enough. You’ve broken up for a reason.<\/p>\n

It’s foolish to keep letting someone from your past affect you so badly. Let go of them. They’re no longer a part of your life.<\/p>\n

The only thing that matters is how you see yourself, as well as those who know you best. Everyone else doesn’t get to have a say.<\/p>\n

Come potrebbero? They don’t know you well enough for their opinion to matter.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Surround yourself with a small circle of people who uplift you, and watch your life ‘magically’ change for the better.<\/p>\n

Don’t model your love life after others’ (everyone has their struggles)<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Smettete di guardare i post dei social media che vi piacciono e di pensare che le cose siano perfette e impeccabili come sembrano.<\/p>\n

Niente \u00e8 mai come sembra in superficie. L'amore \u00e8 pi\u00f9 di una semplice foto di una coppia felice e di un hashtag sexy.<\/p>\n

Love is everything that the post doesn’t say. Don’t let la sindrome dell'erba pi\u00f9 verde<\/a> rovinarvi per amore. Le persone sono mai<\/em> che si accingono a postare sulle loro lotte. Ricordate che.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

We all have ugly stuff we deal with. Just because it’s not out in the open doesn’t mean it’s not real. Chances are, those happy couples go through the same stuff you do.<\/p>\n

The only difference? They never let it show. But hey, now that you know, hopefully, you’ll never let appearances fool you again.<\/p>\n

15<\/strong> Voglio solo essere amato<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. \u201cTo be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow\u2013this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.\u201d\u2015Elizabeth Gilbert<\/p>\n

2. \u201cMy great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return.\u201d\u2015Maya Angelou<\/p>\n

3. \u201cThere’s nothing stupid about wanting to be loved. Believe me.\u201d\u2015Nina LaCour<\/p>\n

4. \u201cHe’s not your Prince Charming if he doesn’t make sure you know that you’re his princess.\u201d\u2015Demi Lovato<\/p>\n

5. \u201cSeize the moments of happiness, love, and be loved! That is the only reality in the world, all else is folly. It is the one thing we are interested in here.\u201d\u2015Leo Tolstoy<\/p>\n

6. \u201cThe supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves\u2014say rather, loved despite ourselves.\u201d\u2015Victor Hugo<\/p>\n

7. \u201cTo be deeply loved means a willingness to cut yourself wide open, exposing your vulnerabilities…hopes, hurts, fears and flaws. Hiding behind the highlight reel of who you are, is the real you, and that person is just as worthy of love. There is nothing more terrifying or fulfilling than complete love. It\u2019s worth the risk…Reach for it.\u201d\u2015Jaeda DeWalt<\/p>\n

8. \u201cWhat a grand thing, to be loved! What a grander thing still, to love!\u201d\u2015Victor Hugo<\/p>\n

9. \u201cOnce someone loves you that much, loves you more than you deserve, you can\u2019t go back to being loved the normal way.\u201d\u2015Tiffany Reisz<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

10. \u201cWhen you are loved, you can do anything in creation. When you are loved, there’s no need at all to understand what’s happening, because everything happens within you.\u201d\u2015Paulo Coelho<\/p>\n

11. \u201cTo be loved and to love takes courage. To be fully seen is incredibly rare and breathtaking. We lower our masks and see a celestial inner being. It is our full self\u2015the supernova as well as the black holes. Our fears and doubts. Our anger and joy…This is love.\u201d\u2015Carolyn Riker<\/p>\n

12. \u201cUltimately, everything we do is merely in hopes of being loved or spreading it.\u201d\u2015Nalini Dhiman<\/p>\n

13. \u201cLoving is giving, and being loved is receiving. Loving should not depend on being loved, but to all intents and purposes, your commitment in a relationship is grossly expressed by how much of yourself you share with your partner.\u201d\u2015Olaotan Fawehinmi<\/p>\n

14. \u201cBehind every angry soul is a wounded child that just wanted you to love them for who they are.\u201d\u2015Shannon L. Alder<\/p>\n

15. \u201cHope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.\u201d\u2015Mandy Hale<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Citazioni sull'amore in attesa: 130 frasi che dimostrano che vale la pena aspettare l'amore<\/a><\/p>\n

Alla fine della giornata, voglio solo essere amati<\/a> anche. \u00c8 cos\u00ec per tutti. Ma non bisogna mai lasciare che questo sentimento comprometta la propria felicit\u00e0.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hopefully, you’ve pinpointed the reasons for feeling so unloved at the moment. When you learn to trovare la vera felicit\u00e0<\/a> in yourself, you’ll be closer to finding it elsewhere.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nelle parole di Paul Pearsall: \u201cStop looking for love and start showing it.\u201c<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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