{"id":11358,"date":"2020-04-29T11:48:51","date_gmt":"2020-04-29T11:48:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11358"},"modified":"2022-01-10T21:00:35","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T21:00:35","slug":"15-tratti-che-definiscono-la-fidanzata-appiccicosa-sbarazzarsene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-tratti-che-definiscono-la-fidanzata-appiccicosa-sbarazzarsene\/","title":{"rendered":"15 tratti che definiscono una ragazza appiccicosa (e come liberarsene)"},"content":{"rendered":"

When people are in love, they often get clingy, especially girls. Even though there’s a thin line between love and clinginess, your significant other won’t understand that too well.<\/p>\n

So, when a girl starts to act like she needs her guy to be with her all the time, he’ll probably run and won\u2019t look back, scared off by her neediness, unaware that this is not the real her; it’s just her insecurity manifesting itself in a faulty way. Vi rifiuter\u00e0 anche se gli piacete<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Maybe you’ve also \u00e8 stato appiccicoso nelle sue relazioni passate<\/a> senza nemmeno sapere per quanto tempo \u00e8 andata avanti, e forse per questo erano tutti condannati.<\/p>\n

Ai vostri fidanzati \u00e8 stato concesso pochissimo spazio personale, che \u00e8 una di quelle piccole cose che a lungo andare significano molto.<\/p>\n

Una fidanzata appiccicosa \u00e8 molto spaventata dall'idea di una rottura, ed \u00e8 per questo che diventa cos\u00ec gelosa delle amiche di lui e inizia a mandargli messaggi incessanti un po' troppo spesso quando si sente minacciata da loro.<\/p>\n

Possessiveness is one of the key traits of a clingy girlfriend and the less time he dedicates to her, the more she’s going to start badgering him with text messages and give him zero to no alone time.<\/p>\n

La prima volta che lui inizia a notare i piccoli segnali di appiccicosit\u00e0, invece di tagliarla, l'idea migliore \u00e8 quella di avere una conversazione a cuore aperto con la sua ragazza.<\/p>\n

This is rarely something that can’t be fixed, so he should give her some time and show her his patience.<\/p>\n

If this is a new relationship, he should give her a chance to show him that she does have her interests and isn\u2019t as needy as she may be presenting herself.<\/p>\n

He needs to trust the vibe she gave out when he first met her, and remind himself of how amazingly cool she is when her low self-esteem isn’t getting the best of her.<\/p>\n

She may seem like a clinger now, but that’s only because she cares so much.<\/p>\n

And clingy girlfriends are nothing if not caring and compassionate. Needy girls can end up being guys\u2019 best friends and lovers all in one, once seen through their insecurity.<\/p>\n

Guys, hold onto your girls and help them get better. And girls, if you find yourselves in this, just know that this is just a small part of you and it’s easily fixed \u2013 read and implement these tips to get to a healthy place and be the best girlfriend your man could ever wish for.<\/p>\n

15 caratteristiche delle fidanzate appiccicose:<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t give him enough space<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

This is something most guys are terrified of. They simply hate it when their girlfriend doesn\u2019t leave them any alone time that they badly need.<\/p>\n

They hate it when she’s always there when they\u2019re talking on the phone, texting their friends, and talking to people on the street.<\/p>\n

You know, nobody likes to be suffocated with love and attention because that’s not natural.<\/p>\n

So even if she loves her man and she wants to spend some time with him, it\u2019s important to remember that maybe he needs some time for himself just to organize his thoughts.<\/p>\n

Trust me, he’ll be so thankful for that and the relationship will be healthy and stable.<\/p>\n

Tutti hanno bisogno di un po' di spazio personale e fornirlo a un uomo aiuter\u00e0 la relazione a prosperare.<\/p>\n

She talks even when he’s not interested<\/h2>\n

\"Il<\/p>\n

The worst thing for a man is a girl who talks for hours over the phone about things that he’s not interested in.<\/p>\n

Questo pu\u00f2 far impazzire ogni uomo, quindi \u00e8 meglio che le telefonate siano brevi e informative.<\/p>\n

She can ask her man how his day was or just check up on him, but she should try to avoid a long conversation, especially if she\u2019ll be the only one talking.<\/p>\n

Immaginate come ci si sente ad avere un partner che parla solo di se stesso.<\/p>\n

It would suck, right? That\u2019s how a man feels around a clingy girlfriend every day.<\/p>\n

Parlare con le migliori amiche di tutte quelle cose che riguardano le ragazze e i pettegolezzi \u00e8 il modo migliore per farlo, mantenendo le cose che riguardano la relazione per il partner.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have her own life and hates him for having his own<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Una ragazza come questa vuole che il suo uomo si dedichi a lei 24 ore su 24, 7 giorni su 7, ma questo \u00e8 impossibile.<\/p>\n

Voglio dire, in una relazione normale e sana, entrambi i partner dovrebbero avere la loro vita privata con i loro amici e la loro famiglia e poi godersi la loro vita insieme quando arriva il momento giusto per farlo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the type of girl who hates on her man for going out and having some fun, you can be sure that you\u2019re being clingy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quindi, per evitare che il vostro uomo si senta dispiaciuto per voi, uscite e divertitevi da sole. Avete una sola vita, quindi godetevela finch\u00e9 potete.<\/p>\n

P.S. Girls who have a lot of fun on their own are very attractive to men! Show him you’ve got a full life that you live like there’s no tomorrow and I promise you he’ll be more drawn to you than ever. Happy girls are the sexiest!<\/p>\n

She\u2019s insecure when hot girls are next to her man<\/h2>\n

\"persone<\/p>\n

Per qualche motivo, una ragazza del genere pensa che tutte le altre ragazze siano migliori di lei e che il suo ragazzo la lascer\u00e0 se trover\u00e0 una ragazza pi\u00f9 divertente e attraente di lei.<\/p>\n

This is the worst thing that can happen to a girl in a relationship because by thinking like this, she\u2019ll never make any progress with her self-esteem.<\/p>\n

To feel good in your skin, you should try to flirt with some good-looking guys when your man isn\u2019t around.<\/p>\n

After you do that, you will feel better and desirable and you won\u2019t be so clingy because you will realize that there are more cute guys out there, other than your man.<\/p>\n

And yes, you will start to gain a different outlook on life. For as long as you just look and don’t touch, it’ll boost your confidence and help you get your mojo back!<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t like it when her man spends time with his friends<\/h2>\n

\"amici<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il suo incubo, letteralmente. Pensa che, cos\u00ec facendo, il suo uomo le sar\u00e0 infedele perch\u00e9 i suoi amici maschi lo costringeranno a provarci con un'altra ragazza.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she wants him only for herself, because when he is with her he will do everything that she wants.<\/p>\n

But you need to know that this is not a good foundation for a healthy relationship \u2013 you need to change something if you want to keep your man close.<\/p>\n

Please bear in mind that you can\u2019t make him love you if he doesn\u2019t feel it and that you will just make things worse if you try and keep him by force.<\/p>\n

Alla fine, se voi due siete destinati a stare insieme, ritroverete la strada.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 estremamente sospettosa<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She is suspicious of every girl who enters her man\u2019s life. Well, you know what?<\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 siete sospettose, pi\u00f9 il vostro uomo lo percepir\u00e0 e desiderer\u00e0 porre fine alla relazione<\/a> con voi.<\/p>\n

If he wants to have an affair, you won\u2019t be able to forbid him from doing so. Only his love for you can stop him, so don\u2019t sweat the small stuff.<\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec facendo, vi fate del male e vi concentrate sulle cose brutte invece che su quelle belle.<\/p>\n

Try to relax \u2013 if one man doesn\u2019t respect you and love you, it means that he isn\u2019t the right one for you.<\/p>\n

Quindi, quello che dovete fare \u00e8 lasciare andare quello sbagliato affinch\u00e9 quello giusto prenda il suo posto. E credetemi, questo atteggiamento vi ripagher\u00e0 nel lungo periodo.<\/p>\n

It may seem substantially difficult, but with time, you’ll see that it was the best decision you could’ve made.<\/p>\n

Vuole essere sempre in contatto<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 uno dei tratti pi\u00f9 evidenti (e irritanti) di ogni fidanzata appiccicosa.<\/p>\n

She will constantly call her man to check up on him and ask him what he’s doing. She does this to find out if he is in the company of any girls.<\/p>\n

This may flatter him at the beginning of the relationship when everything’s still spicy and nice, but as time passes, he\u2019ll become more and more irritated by her frequent calls.<\/p>\n

So, to keep him interested and into you as much as possible, don\u2019t check up on him every half an hour.<\/p>\n

Make him miss you by having super fun with your own friends. It\u2019ll only be a matter of time before he looks for you just like you were looking for him.<\/p>\n

And once he’s the one pursuing you, it’ll be clear how clinginess is never the answer.<\/p>\n

Live your life, have your fun, and give him the chance to miss you. That’s your solution and a way to keep him hooked for a long time.<\/p>\n

She thinks her partner doesn\u2019t love her as much as she loves him<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo accade quando una ragazza \u00e8 appiccicosa<\/a> e ossessionata da un certo uomo della sua vita.<\/p>\n

Only in this state of mind will she think that her man doesn\u2019t love her as much as she loves him.<\/p>\n

Non vede mai tutte le cose belle, ma solo quelle brutte, e per questo inizia a crearsi idee false e malsane sulla sua vita sentimentale.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you really see that your man is neglecting you and that he is canceling your dates at the last minute just so he can go out with his friends, you should know that’s not the way a girl should be treated.<\/p>\n

In entrambi i casi, la cosa migliore sarebbe sedersi e parlargli apertamente.<\/p>\n

Maybe he’s keeping some feelings to himself so that if you say something first, he will find it easier to open up to you.<\/p>\n

If this method doesn\u2019t work, just finish your glass of wine and leave as he is not the one who deserves you.<\/p>\n

Vuole che lui si impegni il prima possibile<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When a girl is clingy and needy, she’ll want her man just to herself. That\u2019s why she’ll insist on getting married even if she’s not quite sure that she\u2019s really ready for it.<\/p>\n

She thinks that she will never find a man who\u2019ll love her like her partner and therefore has to use all means necessary to make him commit to her.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll do crazy things and believe that\u2019s the right way to win a guy over.<\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che dovete ascoltare il vostro cuore quando si tratta di amore e non reagire in modo eccessivo con il love bombing.<\/p>\n

A nessun uomo piace, e invece di farlo restare, lo allontaner\u00e0 da voi.<\/p>\n

Guys often get cold feet when confronted with situations like this, so don\u2019t think that you will get him if you keep on doing all these things.<\/p>\n

Let it happen organically, otherwise, it\u2019s doomed to fail at some point.<\/p>\n

She tells everyone on social media that she\u2019s met her soulmate<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Ok, molte ragazze postano spesso foto con i loro fidanzati e altro, ma una fidanzata appiccicosa fa un passo in pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

She posts photos of her man saying that he\u2019s the best thing that has ever happened to her and she’d be lost without him.<\/p>\n

She says that to her friends on social media and many of them think she’s a pain in the ass because of it.<\/p>\n

Other people also have their loved ones, but they don\u2019t talk about them 24\/7 on Facebook. To her, though, it doesn\u2019t matter. She needs to post it in order to prove to herself that it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n

Ama vivere nella sua piccola bolla d'amore perfetta, dove trova il suo principe azzurro e tutto va a gonfie vele.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t actually live in reality and that might be the reason for her strange behavior.<\/p>\n

Ma questo non \u00e8 senza rimedio. Potete amarvi in privato e sar\u00e0 altrettanto fantastico. Meno persone lo sanno, pi\u00f9 la vostra relazione \u00e8 sana.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 ossessionata dal suo partner<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

She believes that the man she’s met is her perfect match and she will never find someone like that ever again. That\u2019s why she becomes so obsessed with him.<\/p>\n

She works hard on keeping him close, and even if her partner doesn\u2019t feel good in that relationship, she tries to convince him to stay because she can make him happy.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s pretty obsessed with him, and believes that she\u2019d fall apart if he had to leave.<\/p>\n

E se un'altra donna lo seducesse, tutto il suo mondo crollerebbe.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why she does things that she never thought she’d do, and in so doing, loses her self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Una ragazza come questa ha in realt\u00e0 molto da offrire, ma lascia che l'amore la accechi e si fa vedere disperata.<\/p>\n

Once you see that your world is just as amazing without him, will you understand that a guy isn’t the center of your universe. He has become an integral part of your world, but he’s never irreplaceable. There’s plenty more fish in the sea.<\/p>\n

Ha una bassa autostima<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

One of the reasons a girl becomes clingy can be her low self-esteem. If she thinks that she’s not worthy or good enough, she’ll do whatever it takes to prove the opposite.<\/p>\n

She’ll even do all the crazy things she thought she\u2019d never try. And all for the wrong reasons.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t believe in herself. She doesn\u2019t believe she is beautiful.<\/p>\n

Pensa di poter essere sostituita da qualcuno migliore di lei e questa sensazione la sta divorando.<\/p>\n

But if she had just a little more faith in herself, perhaps she wouldn\u2019t feel this way. If she had more courage to stand up and fight for herself, she wouldn\u2019t go through all this turmoil.<\/p>\n

E se siete una ragazza di questo tipo, tenete presente che tutto pu\u00f2 cambiare nella vostra vita se solo cambiate le vostre priorit\u00e0 e la vostra visione della vita. Nulla \u00e8 permanente. Potete facilmente ritrovare la vostra strada.<\/p>\n

La vostra bassa autostima potrebbe essere il risultato delle persone che frequentate.<\/p>\n

Make sure those are good, kind people and you’ll start noticing small yet significant changes.<\/p>\n

Litiga costantemente con lui<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

A clingy girl always fights with her partner because she doesn\u2019t like it if he pays attention to anyone but her.<\/p>\n

She wants to be in the spotlight all the time, and if she doesn\u2019t get it, she gets pissed off.<\/p>\n

The catch is that she has put a lot of effort into her relationship, and if it’s not reciprocated, she’s bound to feel disappointed.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s under the impression that her partner will leave her and easily get bored of her.<\/p>\n

Si inventa il peggior scenario possibile nella sua mente e non rinuncia mai ai suoi pensieri negativi. E devo ammettere che essere una ragazza cos\u00ec non \u00e8 affatto facile.<\/p>\n

Deve combattere le sue battaglie interiori e solo rare persone possono capirla.<\/p>\n

But she also needs to know that life is in front of her and that she shouldn\u2019t sweat the small stuff.<\/p>\n

She’s not calm when he’s not around<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

A clingy girlfriend isn\u2019t able to be calm if her partner’s not there. She always thinks of the worst possible scenarios about why he isn\u2019t with her.<\/p>\n

Every time he goes out with his friends, she thinks he\u2019s cheating on her, which gets her so frustrated and sad. And the saddest part is that he genuinely meant no harm.<\/p>\n

Lui ha solo bisogno di un po' di tempo da solo per concentrarsi su se stesso e sulle sue amicizie, ma lei ha piani diversi per il suo tempo.<\/p>\n

Questo pu\u00f2 influire molto su una relazione, quindi se possedete questa caratteristica, cercate di calmarvi un po'.<\/p>\n

If you smile at life, it will smile right back at you!Take it easy. You simply can\u2019t force love to come into your life.<\/p>\n

It will happen naturally if it\u2019s meant to be. So let it happen and try to find some peace on your own.<\/p>\n

Pensa che tutte le altre ragazze siano migliori di lei.<\/h2>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

A girl like this believes that she’s not beautiful or good enough for her partner and that he’ll leave her as soon as he finds someone more attractive. But she couldn\u2019t be more wrong \u2013 she just doesn\u2019t see her full potential.<\/p>\n

She’s an amazing and warm person, but unfortunately, in the age of modern dating, things like that don’t really matter that much to some guys anymore.<\/p>\n

Don’t let your twisted beliefs make you doubt your beautiful qualities.<\/p>\n

Not everyone is perfect; therefore, you shouldn’t aspire to be perfect either.<\/p>\n

You are unique and that\u2019s what the right guy will fall in love with once you meet him.<\/p>\n

If it hasn’t happened thus far, it only means your guy is out there somewhere waiting for you.<\/p>\n

Le cose belle arrivano a chi aspetta. Siete fantastici cos\u00ec come siete, lasciate che le persone giuste se ne accorgano e vi amino per questo.<\/p>\n

Lasciate che la vostra personalit\u00e0 unica risplenda e non sottovalutatevi mai pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

You’re far too amazing and strong to let your low confidence weigh you down ever again.<\/p>\n

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