{"id":113642,"date":"2020-11-18T11:09:25","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T11:09:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=113642"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:25:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:25:53","slug":"tradito-da-colui-che-aveva-giurato-di-non-farlo-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tradito-da-colui-che-aveva-giurato-di-non-farlo-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"Ricordate questa frase se siete stati traditi da chi aveva giurato di non farlo mai"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siete mai stati tradito<\/a> da qualcuno che amavate con tutto il cuore? Siete mai stati feriti da una persona che aveva promesso e giurato di non tradirvi mai?<\/p>\n

Lo so, \u00e8 uno schifo essere tradito<\/a> by the only person you were completely sure would never hurt you. I think it’s the worst feeling ever.<\/p>\n

It bruises your soul, wounds your heart… In a way, it leaves some marks that change you completely and forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi lascia la paura che la stessa cosa possa accadere di nuovo, che altre persone vi facciano lo stesso male.<\/p>\n

Fa vacillare la tua fiducia nelle persone e ti fa pensare a come non dovresti mai pi\u00f9 permettere a nessuno di avvicinarsi troppo a te.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, if a person you love the most betrays you, you must be stronger than that and rise above it. The only way you’ll succeed is if you remember these following things.<\/p>\n

It’s never your fault<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

That person will probably try to manipulate you into thinking how it was all your mistake, but you must remember that it’s not. It can’t be your mistake.<\/p>\n

Vi siete fidati di qualcuno che amavate con tutto il cuore e che vi ha fatto credere che non avrebbe mai fatto nulla che potesse ferirvi.<\/p>\n

That person broke their own words and that’s their mistake for which they’ll repent of later, trust me.<\/p>\n

Accept that some people aren’t who they seem to be…<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There are so many great, Oscar-worthy actors amongst us. Many people aren’t what they seem and we have to be careful all the time.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you trust someone, don’t forget that there is always a risk of being hurt by that person. Sometimes, you can even spend years with a person and find out that they aren’t what they seem like at all.<\/p>\n

… Fortunately, those kinds of people aren’t meant to stay in your life<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 anche un segno di Dio che il tipo di persone che vi feriscono in questo modo non sono destinate a rimanere nella vostra vita per sempre.<\/p>\n

Quella persona era l\u00ec come un passante casuale che doveva entrare nella vostra vita, impararvi una lezione e lasciarla per sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop seeking revenge, that won’t help you<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In questo momento, potreste stare cospirando un atto di vendetta<\/a>. Pensate a come questo vi far\u00e0 sentire meglio e ad andare avanti pi\u00f9 velocemente.<\/p>\n

I hate to break it down for you, but seeking vengeance won’t help you. It’ll only deepen your pain and you’ll probably regret doing it later.<\/p>\n

You aren’t like that person who hurt you. You have a pure heart unlike them and that is preventing you from hurting them.<\/p>\n

Trasformatelo in una lezione preziosa e imparate qualcosa da esso.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Look at it all as a huge lesson. Try to see that person as God’s way of making you learn that you mustn’t trust people easily.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 il Suo modo di mostrarvi che, anche se non sareste mai in grado di fare del male a qualcuno intenzionalmente, ci sono altre persone che lo farebbero.<\/p>\n

It’s just His way of saying that person isn’t good for you and making you realize that you need to remove that person from your life once and for all.<\/p>\n

Don’t lose faith in good people<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust anyone else ever again. That would be a huge mistake because there are still so many good and honorable people.<\/p>\n

There are still people who deserve to be trusted completely, people with good and kind hearts who could never hurt another human being. People like you…<\/p>\n

Believe in yourself; you’re strong, you’ll heal<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You might be thinking right now how you’ll never be able to overcome this. I know it’s so difficult to understand.<\/p>\n

So quanto sia difficile far capire al proprio cuore che una persona che lo ha spezzato era in realt\u00e0 quella per cui batteva.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, with time and with faith in yourself, you’ll be able to move on. You’ll never be able to fully heal, but that’s okay because it’ll serve you as a great reminder for the future.<\/p>\n

Rivolgete il vostro cuore al vostro migliore amico<\/h2>\n

\"due<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t go through it alone. Find a shoulder to cry on because there will be a lot of tears for sure. And, there should be because I know how much it hurts.<\/p>\n

Parlate con il vostro migliore amico<\/a> or a person you trust the most. That will be the best healing therapy. There are still so many people who deserve to be in your life, and they’ll show you that you aren’t alone in all of this.<\/p>\n

Non vi permetteranno mai di affrontare tutto questo da soli.<\/p>\n

Perdonare per dimenticare<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This may not seem as simple as it sounds, but in fact, it is. You’ll never be able to forget and leave it all behind until you perdonare<\/a> quella persona.<\/p>\n

Remember, you aren’t doing it because of them, you’re doing it to get the closure you long for. You’re doing it to close that chapter and to finally move on with a new, so much better chapter of your life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever been betrayed by someone you loved with your whole heart? Were you ever hurt by a person who promised and swore never to betray you? I know, it sucks being betrayed by the only person you were completely sure would never hurt you. I think it’s the worst feeling ever. It bruises…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":113653,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Remember-This-If-Youve-Been-Betrayed-By-The-One-Who-Swore-They-Never-Would-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113642"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113642\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/113653"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}