{"id":11392,"date":"2020-09-05T13:11:24","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T13:11:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11392"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:35:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:35:01","slug":"anche-se-non-era-destinato-a-durare-per-sempre-speciale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anche-se-non-era-destinato-a-durare-per-sempre-speciale\/","title":{"rendered":"Anche se non eravamo destinati a durare per sempre, tu eri speciale per me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sapevo che non avremmo mai dovuto funzionare. Sapevo dal momento in cui sei entrata nella mia vita che non ci saresti stata a lungo. Ma voglio comunque ringraziarti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Voglio ringraziarti per avermi trovato. Voglio ringraziarti per aver reso la mia vita bella per un momento.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Voglio ringraziarti per tutti gli abbracci e i baci che mi hai dato e per tutti i momenti sinceri che abbiamo trascorso insieme.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><em>Voglio ringraziarti per avermi permesso di essere chi ero veramente con te. Voglio ringraziarti per non esserti preoccupato di come erano i miei capelli o di come ero vestita. Grazie per avermi visto per quello che ero veramente.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Grazie per <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/thank-always-being-there\" rel=\"noopener\">essere presente per me<\/a> anche se non eravamo destinati a stare insieme. A volte succede. A volte, senza un motivo particolare, le persone si separano, come \u00e8 successo a noi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Now that everything is over, I finally understand that we weren\u2019t meant for each other. You have another perfect half for you and I have mine waiting for me as well.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sei stata una parte divertente della mia vita e ti ringrazio per questo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115014\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna consapevole che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/young-mindful-woman-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><strong>Ma, anche se eravamo solo temporanei, mi sono innamorata di te. Mi sono innamorata di te e volevo stare con te. E quando \u00e8 finita, stavo soffrendo, pensavo che il mio mondo sarebbe crollato.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I couldn\u2019t stop thinking what it would be if I had done things differently.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I couldn\u2019t stop asking myself why this perfect little world we had together had to fall apart, why our beautiful corner where we felt safe was gone all of a sudden.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I spent a lot of sleepless nights trying to heal my broken heart because I couldn\u2019t understand where we had gone wrong.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I couldn\u2019t understand why something so good had to be over so soon. I was still thinking about you and I wasn\u2019t ready to let you go.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><strong>I didn\u2019t allow myself to have the closure I deserved.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I couldn\u2019t see that you weren\u2019t supposed to <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/caira-ching\/2017\/11\/to-my-forever-person-you-will-always-have-my-heart\/\" rel=\"noopener\">sii la mia persona per sempre<\/a>. That\u2019s why I gave myself a hard time trying to forget about you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115015\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane donna pensierosa seduta all&#039;aperto nella natura\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ma ora ti ringrazio per non essere stata quella giusta, perch\u00e9 se fossi rimasta, non avrei mai incontrato l'uomo che avrei dovuto incontrare.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Non avrei mai incontrato la mia anima gemella che mi avrebbe mostrato cosa significa amore vero e infinito.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I wanted to have love so badly that I didn\u2019t want to accept that you weren\u2019t supposed to spend the rest of your life with me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I was blinded by the idea of love and I was missing it so badly that I deserted logic and didn\u2019t want to see the truth.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Che non mi ha fatto altro che spezzare il cuore. Che mi ha fatto vivere nell'illusione di me e te per sempre, fino alla fine.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><strong>That\u2019s why I missed something that was right in front of me. I couldn\u2019t understand that after having something good and letting it go, I could have something even better.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115016\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Il vero amore non \u00e8 solo amare qualcuno. Il vero amore \u00e8 anche amare se stessi. Il vero amore \u00e8 apprezzare la persona che sei e la persona che sei quando sei con lui.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mi ci \u00e8 voluto molto tempo per capirlo, quindi grazie per avermi lasciato e per avermi dato un'altra possibilit\u00e0 di incontrare l'uomo che avrei dovuto incontrare dal giorno in cui sono venuta al mondo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Our love story was nice and cute, but it wasn\u2019t real and that is okay because now I know you were just a part of my life\u2019s journey that made me realize I shouldn\u2019t change for or adjust to anyone.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Dovrei essere ci\u00f2 che sono e dovrei esserne orgogliosa, sapendo che un giorno avrei trovato qualcuno che sarebbe stato orgoglioso di me. E cos\u00ec \u00e8 stato.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ho commesso un errore enorme che mi ha ingannato. Ho dimenticato di seguire il mio cuore. Ho seguito il mio istinto e i miei desideri. Ho seguito ci\u00f2 che pensavo fosse giusto.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I completely ignored the person who lies within me and I tried to be something that I\u2019m not only <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/blog\/quit-trying-to-be-perfect-you-already-are\/\" rel=\"noopener\">per essere perfetto per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">In questo processo, ho fallito con me stessa e ho dimenticato chi ero. Ci sono voluti un cuore infranto e molte lacrime per riportarmi indietro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115017\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con camicia di jeans\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-woman-wearing-jeans-shirt-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Grazie per averlo reso possibile.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><strong>Anche se non siamo mai stati destinati a stare insieme, tu sei ancora molto importante per me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Non dimenticher\u00f2 mai tutti i momenti felici che abbiamo trascorso insieme. Ogni volta che andr\u00f2 nei luoghi in cui mi hai portato, penser\u00f2 a te e alla sensazione di felicit\u00e0 che mi hai dato.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Non dimenticher\u00f2 mai ogni volta che ti ho abbracciato come non avrei mai voluto lasciarti andare. Non dimenticher\u00f2 mai il modo in cui mi facevi ridere e il modo in cui mi facevi dimenticare i miei problemi anche solo per un secondo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Anche se sei stato nella mia vita solo temporaneamente, mi hai cambiato.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You made me realize what I really need and I found what I need because of you. That\u2019s why you will always have a special place in my heart.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Mi avete aiutato a diventare la persona che sono oggi.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Grazie per questo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-115019\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Anche se non eravamo destinati a durare per sempre, tu eri speciale per me\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I knew we were never supposed to work out. I knew from the moment you walked into my life that you weren\u2019t going to be there for long. But I still want to thank you. I want to thank you for finding me. I want to thank you for making my life beautiful for a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":115018,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11392","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Even-Though-We-Werent-Meant-To-Last-Forever-You-Were-Special-To-Me-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11392","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11392"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11392\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/115018"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11392"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11392"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11392"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}