{"id":11435,"date":"2020-04-08T08:36:48","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T08:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11435"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:35:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:35:59","slug":"7-cose-accadono-perdere-buona-ragazza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-accadono-perdere-buona-ragazza\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose che succedono quando si perde una brava ragazza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I bet nobody warned you about the aftermath of losing a good girl. If someone happens to do that, they\u2019d tell you to be smart and to pay attention to her and everything she does for you.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019d tell you to never take her for granted because she is a one of the kind girl and you get to have her once in your lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>So if you gamble that away, it\u2019s something <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/si-sente-una-ragazza-che-si-pentira-di-aver-ferito\/\">you\u2019re bound to regret<\/a> per il resto della vita.<\/p>\n<p>Ma tu hai fatto le tue cose e non hai mai ascoltato gli altri. Chiss\u00e0 cosa ti passava per la testa o che tipo di ragioni o scuse ti sei inventato per sentirti meglio per averla maltrattata.<\/p>\n<p>The one thing you weren\u2019t counting on is that there is only so much a human being can endure.<\/p>\n<p>You never counted on her self-love or that she\u2019ll walk away once she gets tired of giving you all of her but never getting anything in return. You never thought you could lose her until you actually lost her.<\/p>\n<p>When you take a good girl for granted, that\u2019s exactly when you lose her.<\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t give her the love she deserves, when you disrespect her, when you let her efforts go unnoticed and when you let her feel alone even though she\u2019s supposed to have you is when you lose her.<\/p>\n<p>When you lose a good girl, you don\u2019t just lose this one person, but you lose much more.<\/p>\n<p>You lose all the opportunities you two could\u2019ve been and all the things she was doing for you. And when reality finally hits you, it can get a bit overwhelming\u2014truth be told.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando perdi una brava ragazza, perdi qualcuno che ha creduto in te.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81740 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo infelice in pigiama sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vedi, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/un-giorno-ti-accorgerai-che-uno-e-sempre\/\">era sempre presente<\/a> per fare il tifo per voi. Era quella che riponeva tutta la sua fiducia in voi e che non vi avrebbe mai permesso di arrendervi.<\/p>\n<p>Credeva in te, ti spingeva ad andare avanti ed era sempre l\u00ec a prenderti quando cadevi.<\/p>\n<p>She never let you lose faith in yourself and you could\u2019ve been so much more with her, but you gambled that away. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando si perde una brava ragazza, si perde una persona che si \u00e8 fidata di te con tutta se stessa.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81744 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia una donna da dietro in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-hugging-woman-from-back-by-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti ha dato tutta se stessa. Si \u00e8 fidata ciecamente di te e non ha mai pensato che tu potessi tradirla.<\/p>\n<p>Non ha mai fatto una pausa o si \u00e8 fermata a pensare che potessi usarla.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s because she always believed that people are as good as she is. But you weren\u2019t good\u2014at least not for her.<\/p>\n<p>Non hai mai fatto altro che giocare con le sue emozioni. E lei non ha fatto altro che fidarsi di te con tutta se stessa. Questo le \u00e8 costato troppo, ma alla fine \u00e8 riuscita a vederti per quello che sei.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando si perde una brava ragazza, si perde qualcuno che era pronto a darti il suo amore incondizionato.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81745 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake.jpg\" alt=\"donna che abbraccia un uomo di spalle accanto al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/woman-hugging-man-from-back-beside-lake-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This type of love is nothing you see on a daily basis. A good girl\u2019s love is something different, you know. And when a good girl chooses to love you, she does it wholeheartedly.<\/p>\n<p>Vi ama incondizionatamente e senza mai trattenersi. Era pronta a fare lo stesso per voi.<\/p>\n<p>But she stopped herself before you got the best of her. Because she saw you aren\u2019t worth it.<\/p>\n<p>She realized you\u2019ll only break her and you\u2019re only going to take her love and use it but never give anything in return.<\/p>\n<p>Era pronta ad amarti incondizionatamente, ma tu non gliene hai mai dato la possibilit\u00e0. L'hai sprecata troppo presto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando si perde una brava ragazza, non si ha pi\u00f9 qualcuno che c'\u00e8 sempre stato per noi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81747 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"bella coppia che si abbraccia all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/lovely-couple-hugging-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, when you look around, you won\u2019t have someone you can count on day and night.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t have someone who was ready to listen to you regardless of what you did to her.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t have someone who would forget about her needs because she was too busy focusing on the things you needed.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kirsten-corley\/2017\/03\/this-is-what-you-lose-when-you-play-a-good-girl\/\" rel=\"noopener\">quando si perde una brava ragazza<\/a>, si perde contemporaneamente una ragazza che c'era sempre per te quando avevi bisogno di lei.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando si perde una brava ragazza non si ha pi\u00f9 qualcuno che non si arrende mai con te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81743 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him.jpg\" alt=\"ragazza che lascia il suo ragazzo e lo lascia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/girl-breaking-up-with-her-boyfriend-and-leaving-him-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0 aveva pianificato di restare. Voleva esserci per te e non si sarebbe mai immaginata di rinunciare a te nemmeno in un milione di anni.<\/p>\n<p>You know how hard she tried and she stuck by your side even when any sane person would\u2019ve walked away long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>Continuava a trovare fiducia in te in posti dove nessuno aveva mai pensato di cercarla. Ma si \u00e8 stancata di essere continuamente spezzata da una persona per la quale si stava impegnando cos\u00ec tanto.<\/p>\n<p>Si era stancata di essere l'unica a non arrendersi mai. Cos\u00ec alla fine si \u00e8 arresa anche lei.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando si perde una brava ragazza, si perde il migliore amico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81746 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia sorridente che beve birra in un bicchiere di plastica\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/smiling-couple-drinking-beer-form-plastic-glass-1-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you lose a good girl, you don\u2019t only lose your lover, but your best friend as well.<\/p>\n<p>Perdi il tuo amico, il tuo compagno di vita e qualcuno su cui potevi sempre contare.<\/p>\n<p>You know well she was the one, but you\u2019re too proud or scared to admit it now.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter because life will make you admit it at least to yourself eventually. And life will make you regret losing a good girl, too.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando si perde una brava ragazza, alla fine ci si chiede se ne sia valsa la pena per tutto ci\u00f2 per cui l'abbiamo persa.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81739 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo pensieroso seduto accanto alla finestra e che guarda fuori\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/thoughtful-man-sitting-beside-window-and-looking-out-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After some time passes and when reality sinks in, when you lie awake at night unable to sleep you won\u2019t be able to help yourself wondering if all of it was worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Se tutte le cose che hai fatto di sbagliato, se tutto l'egoismo e la noncuranza, i tuoi sogni e i tuoi obiettivi valevano la perdita di una ragazza come lei.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll wonder if she\u2019s the same girl she used to be. You\u2019ll ask if she has someone who treats her right and does all the things you didn\u2019t do but should\u2019ve done for her.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro istinto vi dir\u00e0 di prendere il telefono e chiamare, ma qualcosa vi impedir\u00e0 di farlo.<\/p>\n<p>That something will be the realization that girls like her don\u2019t get to be alone for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll realize that she won\u2019t be waiting for her because someone else has done everything in his power to win her over and keep a girl like her.<\/p>\n<p>By the time you realize what is it exactly you lost, she\u2019ll be with someone who actually appreciates and deserves her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81741 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 cose che succedono quando si perde una brava ragazza\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I bet nobody warned you about the aftermath of losing a good girl. If someone happens to do that, they\u2019d tell you to be smart and to pay attention to her and everything she does for you. They\u2019d tell you to never take her for granted because she is a one of the kind girl&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":81742,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11435","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/7-Things-That-Happen-When-You-Lose-A-Good-Girl.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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