{"id":11484,"date":"2020-01-08T10:45:47","date_gmt":"2020-01-08T10:45:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11484"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:25:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:25:05","slug":"5-cose-che-non-si-dicono-mai-agli-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-non-si-dicono-mai-agli-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose da non fare mai quando il vostro ex vi manda un SMS"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gli ex sono ex per un motivo.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that they feel the same way.<\/p>\n

A volte, quando un ragazzo rompe con una ragazza, si rende conto che lei era fantastica e vuole tornare da lei. In questo stato mentale, \u00e8 disposto a fare qualsiasi cosa per riconquistarla. E quando dico qualsiasi cosa, dico davvero.<\/p>\n

But I just hope that you will be so smart and that you won\u2019t go back to him because of a dozen red roses or some love quote that he found on the Net.<\/p>\n

Ricordate che dovete mettere voi stesse al primo posto e non permettergli mai pi\u00f9 di approfittarsi di voi. Ecco quindi alcune cose che non dovreste mai fare se volete salvarvi dalle lacrime.<\/p>\n

1. When he texts you don\u2019t text back immediately <\/h2>\n

You see, if you text him back immediately, he will think that he is still an important person in your life. Okay, maybe he is but he doesn\u2019t need to know about that. Let him sweat a little bit.<\/p>\n

Andate sui social media e postate cose che gli facciano capire che siete online ma che non rispondete ai suoi messaggi. Questo gli far\u00e0 capire che non \u00e8 cos\u00ec importante per voi come pensava e vi vorr\u00e0 ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Chiss\u00e0, se inizia a comportarsi come un uomo adulto e non come un idiota, forse potrete dargli una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t ask questions right away <\/h2>\n

If you ask him questions, he will think that you are interested in his life. Let him be the one to ask questions. You just answer with a short \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno\u201d. That will make him crazy and he will feel sorry for doing all those bad things to you.<\/p>\n

Ora si merita il trattamento del silenzio e questo \u00e8 l'unico comportamento che otterr\u00e0 da voi. E nel caso in cui ti mandi un messaggio dopo la mezzanotte, puoi vedere cosa sta combinando. Pensa solo che tu sia un'esca per lui e ti raggiunge perch\u00e9 non ha nulla da perdere.<\/p>\n

Che idiota, vero?<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t forget the reason you broke up with him <\/h2>\n

Vi ha tradito? Vi ha trascurato? Ha abusato di lei? Tutti questi possono essere i motivi per cui avete rotto con lui.<\/p>\n

So, once he texts, don\u2019t forget why you dumped him. I bet you will change your mind and just leave your phone.<\/p>\n

Una volta scegliete voi stessi al di sopra di lui<\/a>sarete finalmente felici. E non rispondendogli, siete sulla strada giusta per raggiungere questo obiettivo.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t take his words personally <\/h2>\n

I know that he was an important person once in your life, but he doesn\u2019t have any right to hurt you. Actually, he never did. So whatever you do, don\u2019t take his words personally. Don\u2019t believe him when he says that he has a new girlfriend that is better in bed than you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t buy his shit that he got over you and that he is living a perfect life. Why do you think he reached out to you in the first place? If he is happy, he would never text you back. This is a sign that he is just faking and that he realized how amazing you are.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t think about getting back with him <\/h2>\n

Qualunque cosa dica, non importa come cerchi di ingannarvi, non tornare mai pi\u00f9 da lui.<\/a> Tornando da lui, non fate altro che dargli un altro proiettile per uccidervi perch\u00e9 vi ha mancato la prima volta.<\/p>\n

If he couldn\u2019t see how you are an amazing person the first time he was with you, he definitely doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance. Respect yourself enough to tell him to back off and find the happiness in your life you deserve so much.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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