{"id":11497,"date":"2020-08-08T11:49:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T11:49:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11497"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:35:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:35:14","slug":"grazie-non-scegliere-fare-scegliere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grazie-non-scegliere-fare-scegliere\/","title":{"rendered":"Grazie per non aver scelto me e per avermi fatto scegliere me stesso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avevamo una bella storia. Eravamo felici, abbiamo riso e pianto insieme, ma alla fine hai deciso di non scegliermi e voglio ringraziarti per questo.<\/p>\n

Even though we lasted for only a short time, I will never forget you because you\u2019ve set me free. You\u2019ve allowed me to be happy again. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When we were together, we had our ups and downs, but in the end when everything was over, when I cried out the tears that I\u2019d been keeping inside and when I finally healed, I remembered only the good things we had together.<\/p>\n

Quindi, grazie per avermi spezzato il cuore. Grazie per avermi lasciata sola a guarire. Grazie per avermi dato una lezione. Grazie per non avermi scelto.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Per tutta la vita ho cercato l'amore. Ho lottato per la felicit\u00e0 con tutto me stesso.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I came to you and thank God I did because you were the one who failed to give me what I deserve.<\/p>\n

You are the one who showed me I was missing out on something\u2014love.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Volevo cos\u00ec tanto amare che ho dedicato le mie attenzioni al primo uomo che ha mostrato interesse per me. Non avevo idea che ci fosse qualcosa di pi\u00f9 di un interesse passeggero, di una cotta.<\/p>\n

Non avevo idea che l'amore fosse molto di pi\u00f9 di una pura infatuazione e di una chimica temporanea.<\/p>\n

Credo che quello che voglio dire \u00e8 grazie per avermi fatto capire cos'\u00e8 davvero l'amore.<\/p>\n

Mi hai insegnato che devo avere rispetto per me stesso. Mi hai insegnato che devo amare prima me stesso per poter amare gli altri.<\/p>\n

When you didn\u2019t choose me, you made me choose myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mi hai fatto fare pace con me stesso e guardare la mia vita da una prospettiva diversa. Nel mio dolore, nel dolore che mi hai dato, sono cresciuto.<\/p>\n

Sono caduto in un pozzo buio e ho pensato che non c'era modo di uscirne.<\/p>\n

I dwelled in my own fear, choking on my tears, looking for answers. I was so frustrated and sad because you didn\u2019t choose me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I was thinking what is wrong with me and why you don\u2019t love me.<\/p>\n

Days and months passed and I still didn\u2019t find an answer until I finally realized that you not choosing me is the best thing that has ever happened to me.<\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize I\u2019m good enough for myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize I don\u2019t need to be chosen because I\u2019m the one who has the right to choose. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You not choosing me made me realize that I\u2019m just perfetto cos\u00ec come sono.<\/a> I don\u2019t have to change for anybody because that is not real love. That is not the real me.<\/p>\n

And with you, I wasn\u2019t the real me. I was something you wanted me to be. I was something you wanted to love.<\/p>\n

Ho capito di essere degno di amore e tu, non amandomi, me lo hai dimostrato. Grazie.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I know I deserve someone who will look at me like I\u2019m the only one in the world for him. I know I deserve someone who will think I\u2019m pure magic\u2014the magic only he knows to use.<\/p>\n

Merito qualcuno che \u00e8 stato fatto per me. Merito di essere felice per il resto della mia vita con qualcuno che mi ami per quello che sono.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t that person and I get it now. I\u2019m not angry you\u2019ve hurt me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t choose me and I\u2019m happy you didn\u2019t see me the way I deserved because that means I won\u2019t make this mistake every again.<\/p>\n

Thank you for making me fall in love\u2014fall in love with myself. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel guilty for not choosing me. Don\u2019t be sad because I\u2019m not sad.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so grateful to you because you made me see how much I was worth and how much I have to give to the world.<\/p>\n

Me lo hai insegnato tu, non comportandoti come avresti dovuto con me. Grazie per avermi fatto amare me stesso e tutti gli altri intorno a me. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Thank you for letting me go and choosing yourself, thus showing me it\u2019s okay for me to choose myself, too. <\/i><\/p>\n

Entrambi meritiamo di essere felici. Grazie per averla realizzata.<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Grazie<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We had a good thing going. We were happy; we laughed together and we cried together but in the end, you decided not to choose me and I want to thank you for that. Even though we lasted for only a short time, I will never forget you because you\u2019ve set me free. You\u2019ve allowed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11497","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Thank-You-For-Not-Choosing-Me-And-Making-Me-Choose-Myself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11497","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11497"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11497\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11497"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11497"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11497"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}