{"id":11501,"date":"2018-01-08T12:29:03","date_gmt":"2018-01-08T12:29:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11501"},"modified":"2022-01-10T01:11:55","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T01:11:55","slug":"puo-non-essere-perfetto-sicuramente-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/puo-non-essere-perfetto-sicuramente-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Posso non essere perfetto, ma ne valgo sicuramente la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

People always talk about perfection like it\u2019s something we should all be. But if you take a closer look, nothing and nobody in this life is really perfect. We are all flawed and we are all just humans. Perfection is a trait for more divine creatures.<\/p>\n

Yet we all strive to achieve it. And it\u2019s precisely that obsession we have with perfection that makes love something that is hard to find. It\u2019s like everybody carries around those checklists and if all the boxes don\u2019t get checked, we fail in love.<\/p>\n

Sforzarsi di raggiungere la perfezione<\/a> in realt\u00e0 potrebbe non essere una cosa cos\u00ec negativa. Dovremmo tutti cercare di essere una versione migliore di noi stessi<\/a>. To be better than we were yesterday. To compete with ourself and push ourself to reach what we consider to be greatness. Whatever that is, it should never be measured by somebody else\u2019s standards of perfection but instead by our own.<\/p>\n

That pursuit of perfection can be really damaging to our self-esteem, to our love life and to our expectations. That\u2019s why we should all start being realistic.<\/p>\n

Credo che la perfezione stia nel provare, nel dare il meglio di s\u00e9. Credo che la perfezione sia un cuore gentile e una mente aperta. Credo che siamo tutti perfetti nelle nostre imperfezioni. Credo che tutti noi abbiamo qualcuno l\u00e0 fuori che ci amer\u00e0 perch\u00e9, anche se non siamo perfetti, ne vale la pena.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we should give more emphasis to worth than to perfection. These are the things I believe make me worthy of love.<\/p>\n

1. Sono consapevole dei miei difetti e ci lavoro sempre.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Having flaws is one thing but recognizing them and being able to admit that I need to make some changes is way harder. It took me a while to get to that state. Nobody wants to see their downsides let alone work on them. I am lucky because I own my flaws and I am always trying to be better than them. I guess some of them will be stuck with me for life. That\u2019s why I just want somebody who will be able to deal with my flaws as I will deal with his.<\/p>\n

2. Sono pi\u00f9 forte grazie alla mia rottura.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Life hasn\u2019t always treated me fairly. It has beaten me down in more ways than it\u2019s humanly bearable. But, I managed to rialzarsi.<\/a> I managed to pull strength from somewhere deep inside of myself even though I didn\u2019t know I had any left. I managed to persist despite my wounded heart and broken soul and I am a better person because of it.<\/p>\n

3. Sono grato.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sono il tipo di persona che si gode la vita. Il tipo di persona che si stupisce di tutto ci\u00f2 che la circonda. Sono grata per la mia famiglia, per il sole del mattino e per le luci notturne che illuminano la citt\u00e0. Sono grata per questo mio cervello creativo che lavora senza sosta. Sono grata per tutto il dolore che mi ha reso ci\u00f2 che sono oggi. Sono grata per questo mondo e per questa vita.<\/p>\n

4. Non c'\u00e8 nulla di falso in me.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I smile sincerely. I cry when I am alone. I speak my mind. I am comfortable in my own skin. I have a good sense of humor. I listen attentively. I never pretend to be something I am not. I don\u2019t force relationships of any kind. Everything I do comes from the heart.<\/p>\n

5. Sono sinceramente gentile.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

I hate fake politeness so when I say something nice and polite it always comes from my heart. If I have nothing nice to say I\u2019d rather say nothing at all. I think kindness is the greatest gift I can give to someone. I help those who are in need of my help, especially my friends.<\/p>\n

6. I have no problem in saying the words, \u201cI am sorry.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sometimes my mouth is quicker than my brain, so I may say some things that would be better left unsaid. I hurt people unintentionally. I might hurt people\u2019s feelings or bruise their egos, but I\u2019ll always scusarsi.<\/a> I will say I am sorry and I will mean it. I am not afraid to admit when I am wrong and I will always feel bad about it. I will try to make amends and do my best to learn from the experience so that the same thing doesn\u2019t happen again.<\/p>\n

7. Fallisco. Cado. Ci riprovo.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I am a bit stubborn but that can come in handy sometimes. I will fail as many times as it takes till I get something right. My stubbornness makes me persist. I\u2019m not perfect. I\u2019m not everything on my own checklist let alone somebody else\u2019s but the give is worth the take. I am a work in progress and I hope somebody will value that in me.<\/p>\n

8. I\u2019m not perfect but there is beauty in being me.<\/span><\/h1>\n

I\u2019m not the girl on the runway or the cover of the magazine who everyone wants to be with. I am backstage creating wonders. I don\u2019t fit into societal norms of things like sizes and beauty but I learned to like me for me. I\u2019m a woman who\u2019s comfortable in her own skin.<\/p>\n

9. Sono un individuo completo e a tutto tondo, ma voglio ancora qualcuno da chiamare \"mio\".<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

I am OK with being just me in all four walls of my home. I like spending time with myself and finding new ways to make myself happy. I don\u2019t need a man to be my other half. I need a partner in crime. Someone I can laugh with, be weird with and who is comfortable with us making fun of each other. I need a partner in life. Someone I can lean on when I get too tired of life. Someone whose hug is more powerful than anything in this world. Someone who will listen. Someone to share happy moments with. Someone who will be worthy in all their imperfections just like I am in mine.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

People always talk about perfection like it\u2019s something we should all be. But if you take a closer look, nothing and nobody in this life is really perfect. We are all flawed and we are all just humans. Perfection is a trait for more divine creatures. Yet we all strive to achieve it. And it\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":11513,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11501","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/joey.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11501","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11501"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11501\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11501"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11501"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11501"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}