{"id":11503,"date":"2020-07-08T12:12:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-08T12:12:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11503"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:19:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:19:01","slug":"leggi-youre-tired-waiting-love-happen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggi-youre-tired-waiting-love-happen\/","title":{"rendered":"Leggete questo articolo se siete stanchi di aspettare che l'amore accada"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mi succedeva sempre. Ero cos\u00ec stanco di in attesa dell'amore<\/a> di bussare alla mia porta.<\/p>\n

Ma questo perch\u00e9 mi aspettavo che entrasse nella mia vita. Ho fatto pressione su di me per desiderare cos\u00ec tanto l'amore<\/a> che ho perso ogni logica che avevo e ho cercato ciecamente l'amore.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t wait for love. Love will happen to you when you don\u2019t ask for it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Love will happen to you when you relax and accept the fact that things aren\u2019t going to go your way every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly how it was for me. Now, I catch myself staring at the love of my life when he\u2019s doing stupid, everyday things. I catch myself staring at him like he\u2019s doing something impossibly beautiful.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how much I love him. I love every normal and ordinary move he makes. I love how he puts butter on his toast in the morning. I love every fiber of his being.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

E ho ottenuto tutto questo perch\u00e9 ho smesso di aspettare che l'amore accadesse.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non avrei mai immaginato di dire queste cose su qualcuno. Volevo dirle, ma era troppo surreale. Speravo di poter condividere con qualcuno l'amore che avevo da dare, ma non avrei mai immaginato che mi avrebbe ricambiato.<\/p>\n

My whole life I was aching for love. I thought I was patient and I was always ready to love someone and to be loved. But now I get it that I wasn\u2019t patient at all.<\/p>\n

Ero tesa e agitata perch\u00e9 l'amore non bussava mai alla mia porta. Volevo tanto che arrivasse, ma l'amore non si vedeva mai.<\/p>\n

Avevo delle relazioni, ma le mie scuse erano che il momento non \u00e8 quello giusto<\/a>, or I had some issues of my own and I didn\u2019t want to unleash my problems on someone else. Or, I was in a relationship, but that wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

That wasn\u2019t the feeling of butterflies in your stomach. I didn\u2019t go to bed thinking about him or waking up doing the same. That just wasn\u2019t love.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Our whole lives we are searching for our soulmate. That\u2019s what it all comes down to.<\/p>\n

Vogliamo qualcuno con cui coccolarci, con cui condividere i nostri problemi e con cui tornare a casa alla fine della giornata.<\/p>\n

Questo ci porta ad accontentarci della prima persona che arriva al momento giusto, in realt\u00e0 completamente sbagliato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of giving our own lives some meaning and devotion to ourselves\u2014working on ourselves, making ourselves better\u2014we ache for something that will come, but not yet.<\/p>\n

We lose most of our lives wanting something that we shouldn\u2019t have to want yet.<\/p>\n

L'amore vi trover\u00e0 quando sarete pronti a prenderlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siamo single per un motivo<\/a>. Ci si spezza il cuore per un motivo. Tutto ci\u00f2 fa parte del viaggio che ci costruisce in persone complete, pi\u00f9 intelligenti e migliori, che un giorno saranno pronte ad amare con tutto il cuore.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

E poich\u00e9 abbiamo camminato sulle strade accidentate della nostra vita, perch\u00e9 siamo caduti e ci siamo ammaccati, siamo diventati pi\u00f9 forti in seguito.<\/p>\n

Diventiamo pi\u00f9 forti e finalmente pronti per il bellissimo regno del vero amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Keep waiting and be patient. Believe me\u2014it will pay off in the end. Don\u2019t fool yourself that you are becoming desperate because you really have plenty of time.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t convince yourself that you\u2019ve met your true love because that person will keep you from incontro con l'unico<\/a> che avreste dovuto incontrare.<\/p>\n

Quando finalmente farete pace con voi stesse e vi lascerete andare alla magia della vita, lui arriver\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I wish someone had told me this. I wish someone had told me I have to be alone to figure out my personal \u2018manuals\u2019 and the way I operate.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Vorrei che qualcuno mi avesse detto che la solitudine mi porter\u00e0 la pi\u00f9 grande felicit\u00e0 che abbia mai provato.<\/p>\n

Vorrei aver saputo che dovevo amare e rispettare me stessa per prima se volevo che qualcun altro facesse lo stesso.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I thought I was unlovable. I thought that I am never going to find love because I\u2019m broken. I was born with a mistake that can\u2019t be undone.<\/p>\n

I thought that\u2019s just the way life is. I wanted to change so many times.<\/p>\n

Volevo essere amata, cos\u00ec mi sono modellata in qualcosa che gli altri volevano.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non \u00e8 mai durato perch\u00e9 non ero cos\u00ec. E pensavo di essere una causa persa. Pensavo che non avrei mai avuto un lieto fine. Ma poi ho trovato un uomo quando meno me lo aspettavo.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Everything was so easy with him. I didn\u2019t have to pretend to be something that I\u2019m not. I was the person who I always was. I was finally myself and someone loved me for that.<\/p>\n

I really didn\u2019t see him coming. I thought I was supposed to be alone a few more years because frankly, Ero felice da solo.<\/a><\/p>\n

I found myself and I was happy with my life and with whom I have become. I didn\u2019t think I was ready to love.<\/p>\n

But there he came\u2014barging in at the apparently right time.<\/p>\n

Non era nulla di ci\u00f2 che mi aspettavo che fosse. Era completamente diverso da come lo avevo immaginato. E lo sar\u00e0 anche per voi.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have the features you\u2019ve imagined, but he\u2019ll have that special \u2018something\u2019 that will sweep you off your feet.<\/p>\n

L'uomo giusto vale l'attesa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you ever settle for someone just because you are scared or lonely. He will never love you the way you were made to be loved. He will never make you happy the way you were meant to be happy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for the mediocre feeling when the right one is waiting for you. The right love is waiting for you to stop waiting for it to happen.<\/p>\n

Mi sono fermato.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Leggete<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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