{"id":11577,"date":"2020-05-09T09:27:10","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T09:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11577"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:14:07","slug":"smettere-di-pensare-che-non-sta-pensando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-pensare-che-non-sta-pensando\/","title":{"rendered":"Smettete di pensare a lui, perch\u00e9 lui non sta pensando a voi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are now. I&#8217;ve been there and I have felt just the way you&#8217;re feeling now.<\/p>\n<p>Hopeless, right? Like you weren&#8217;t good enough to please him, no matter what you did.<\/p>\n<p>You gave everything you could to that relationship, but it simply wasn&#8217;t enough. Love wasn&#8217;t enough.<\/p>\n<p>Now you&#8217;ve come to the point where your memories are overwhelming you and you can&#8217;t seem to understand why or even how to quit thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>You continue to go over everything that happened and you can&#8217;t believe the outcome. <b>He&#8217;s gone and you&#8217;re now left alone with your thoughts.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I ricordi continuano ad affiorare.<\/p>\n<p>You remember the time he brought you that huge bouquet of roses and he told you that, as beautiful as they were, they couldn\u2019t compare to your beauty.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate anche la volta in cui vi ha preparato la cena dopo una lunga giornata di lavoro e vi ha detto che era il minimo che potesse fare per voi.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate i sorrisi e le risate, le notti passate a parlare tra di voi di argomenti che solo voi due capivate.<\/p>\n<p>Si torna indietro ai ricordi creati e si piange, perch\u00e9 fa male.<\/p>\n<p>Quello che fa pi\u00f9 male \u00e8 che hai dimenticato la volta in cui \u00e8 tornato a casa tardi quella sera, con l'odore di un'altra donna.<\/p>\n<p>Hai dimenticato la volta in cui gli hai detto di andarsene dal tuo appartamento perch\u00e9 ti aveva dato uno schiaffo quando era ubriaco, e lui ti ha preparato la cena per farsi perdonare.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92763\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hai dimenticato tutte le volte che lo hai perdonato per i suoi errori, solo perch\u00e9 ti ha portato un mazzo di rose.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lo avete perdonato perch\u00e9 ha giurato di amarvi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Erano solo parole e lei non \u00e8 disposto ad accettare la verit\u00e0.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 per le donne \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile credere alle bugie che affrontare la verit\u00e0? Siamo davvero cos\u00ec <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/matthew-b-james-phd\/blinded-by-love_b_9269502.html\" rel=\"noopener\">accecati dall'amore<\/a> ci sentiamo per gli uomini che ci tradiscono?<\/p>\n<p>Questo stesso amore ci fa passare attraverso tanti dolori e miserie che nessuno pu\u00f2 vedere, perch\u00e9 teniamo tutto per noi.<\/p>\n<p>Torniamo a quegli uomini nei nostri ricordi. Dimentichiamo quanto siamo state ferite e ricordiamo solo quei momenti felici, senza mai rimpiangerli.<\/p>\n<p>I nostri occhi vengono accecati dai sentimenti. <b>Siamo creature cos\u00ec pure.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>La domanda \u00e8: Pensi che anche lui si ricordi di te? Sotto le lenzuola di un'altra donna? Che le compra delle rose ogni volta che combina un guaio?<\/p>\n<p>Baciarle il collo e giurarle quanto la ama? Pensate davvero che abbia il tempo di pensare a voi quando probabilmente, in questo momento, sta baciando lei?<\/p>\n<p>No. As much as you don&#8217;t want to hear it, he&#8217;s not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/qualcuno-sta-pensando-a-voi-2\/\">pensando a te.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You were just a phase in his life, but he was everything you ever dreamed of. That&#8217;s the problem here.<\/p>\n<p>Why would you want to think about a man who doesn&#8217;t bother to think about you?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna consapevole che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/young-mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who doesn&#8217;t bother to go through his memories of you, because he has another woman to hug right now?<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s not thinking about the way your skin felt under his fingers, because he&#8217;s too busy touching the skin of another.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perch\u00e9 gli date il piacere di essere costantemente nei vostri pensieri e in tutto ci\u00f2 che fate?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Smettetela, subito!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-tempo-smette-di-preoccuparsi-non-si-preoccupa\/\">Vi state perdendo tante meravigliose opportunit\u00e0<\/a> per incontrare un uomo che sappia valorizzarvi, proprio come meritate.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste finalmente incontrare qualcuno che manterr\u00e0 le sue promesse e vi mostrer\u00e0 come dovrebbe essere il vero amore!<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you need to stop thinking about your past, now more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it&#8217;s much harder than I make it sound, but there is no other option but to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\n<p>Non era altro che un'importante lezione di vita da imparare.<\/p>\n<p>Wasn&#8217;t that enough? He had the pleasure of being in your life for a short period of time and his time is done.<\/p>\n<p><b>Stop chasing lost moments, when your future could be filled with so much beauty that you can&#8217;t even imagine.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Let go of him and you will open your heart to receive love again. Isn&#8217;t that what we all live for?<\/p>\n<p>Il giorno in cui ci libereremo dal nostro passato e andremo avanti nel futuro, sorridendo, ridendo e amando.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92761\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Smettete di pensare a lui, perch\u00e9 lui non sta pensando a voi\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are now. I&#8217;ve been there and I have felt just the way you&#8217;re feeling now. Hopeless, right? Like you weren&#8217;t good enough to please him, no matter what you did. You gave everything you could to that relationship, but it simply wasn&#8217;t enough. Love wasn&#8217;t enough. Now you&#8217;ve come to the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":92767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11577","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Stop-Thinking-About-Him-Because-Hes-Not-Thinking-About-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11577","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11577"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11577\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92767"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11577"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11577"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11577"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}