{"id":11585,"date":"2020-12-28T09:45:02","date_gmt":"2020-12-28T09:45:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11585"},"modified":"2024-10-28T01:41:40","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T23:41:40","slug":"anno-finalmente-so-abbastanza-bene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anno-finalmente-so-abbastanza-bene\/","title":{"rendered":"Quest'anno finalmente so di essere abbastanza bravo"},"content":{"rendered":"

This year I\u2019m finally done beating myself up. This year I will finally put an emphasis on me. I\u2019m done comparing myself to others. I\u2019m done seeing every trait they have that I don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

This year I finally realized I don\u2019t have to be like everyone else. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

This year I realized that I\u2019m different and that is not a bad thing, it doesn\u2019t make me less important or less smart.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mi rende perfetto cos\u00ec come sono. Mi rende pi\u00f9 che sufficiente. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done comparing myself <\/i><\/b>to all the beautiful girls you see today. I don\u2019t want to contour my face to look like them.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to wear my lipstick and draw lines over my lips to make them bigger.<\/p>\n

My face and my lips are perfect the way they are because they are mine and no one else has them. It\u2019s what makes me unique and I don\u2019t want to lose that to look like every other girl.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m more than good enough the way I am.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with being under pressure<\/i><\/b> cambiare per essere all'altezza di qualcuno.<\/p>\n

I know that I\u2019m good enough and when the right person walks into my life, I\u2019ll be good enough for him, too. No, I\u2019ll be perfect for him.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done living by the rules<\/i><\/b> that someone else made for me. I\u2019m done with looking in the mirror and seeing this mediocre woman who feels like crap because she didn\u2019t accomplish something that was expected of her.<\/p>\n

Well, what if I don\u2019t want to do that? What if that is what makes me unhappy? What if those dreams are not my dreams?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to live like that. I want to be happy. I want to feel free and satisfied. I want to feel good about myself because I finally know I\u2019m good enough.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done denying myself a chance of happiness. <\/i><\/b> This year I\u2019m going to do everything differently.<\/p>\n

Every person who doesn\u2019t value me as the person I am without modifications and false appearances can go to hell.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need you if you don\u2019t respect me for who I am. I won\u2019t be playing this role that society has imposed upon me.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done not fulfilling it and feeling like I was less worthy because I\u2019m not. I\u2019m way better than that and this year I\u2019m going to give myself another chance for happiness<\/a> perch\u00e9 me lo merito.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done trying to make people love me.<\/i><\/b> I\u2019m done accepting any kind of love that comes my way just because I\u2019m scared I won\u2019t find anything better.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done molding myself into something someone wants to have by his side.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done pretending to be something that I\u2019m not only to get the lousy love I don\u2019t deserve. I know what I deserve and this year I\u2019m going to finally have it.<\/p>\n

This year, I\u2019m done settling for less than I deserve.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done putting everyone else\u2019s needs before my own. I\u2019m done being the last resort. I\u2019m done being everyone’s doormat.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be there for others when they are in need because those others turned their backs on me when I needed them.<\/p>\n

Quando erano tristi, lo ero anch'io. Volevo aiutarli, li ascoltavo e asciugavo le loro lacrime.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Ma quando piangevo, le mie lacrime bagnavano il cuscino su cui ero sdraiata. Non avevo nessuno che le asciugasse.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Non avevo nessuno che mi ascoltasse o che fosse presente per me. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m done ignoring what I want to do.<\/i><\/b> Voglio sognare in grande come tutti gli altri.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done thinking that I\u2019m never going to achieve what I want just because someone said I\u2019m not good enough.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done doubting myself and thinking that I\u2019m not good enough to turn my dreams into my reality.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with obsessing about what others think. <\/i><\/b> I\u2019m done seeking anyone\u2019s approval. I don\u2019t care whether someone likes me or not.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t change for anyone\u2019s sake. I\u2019m the way I am and if you don\u2019t like it, walk away.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be changing for anyone because I finally know I\u2019m good enough to make myself happy.<\/p>\n

I finally realized I\u2019m good enough now and I will be good enough forever.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

\"Quest'anno<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This year I\u2019m finally done beating myself up. This year I will finally put an emphasis on me. I\u2019m done comparing myself to others. I\u2019m done seeing every trait they have that I don\u2019t. This year I finally realized I don\u2019t have to be like everyone else. This year I realized that I\u2019m different and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":176614,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/This-Year-I-Finally-Know-I-Am-Good-Enough-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11585"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176616,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11585\/revisions\/176616"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176614"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}