{"id":116161,"date":"2020-12-01T15:02:30","date_gmt":"2020-12-01T15:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116161"},"modified":"2022-02-22T20:13:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T20:13:55","slug":"non-il-nuovo-amore-che-ti-spaventa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-il-nuovo-amore-che-ti-spaventa\/","title":{"rendered":"Non \u00e8 il nuovo amore a spaventarti, ma il vecchio dolore"},"content":{"rendered":"

A volte avete paura di dare di nuovo il vostro cuore a qualcuno? Il solo pensiero di innamorarvi di nuovo vi spaventa a morte?<\/p>\n

You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right?<\/p>\n

Avete appena raccolto tutti i pezzi rotti del vostro cuore e li avete incollati di nuovo, e ora avete paura di innamorarvi di qualcuno che potrebbe spezzare di nuovo il vostro fragile cuore in un milione di piccoli pezzi.<\/p>\n

Yes, that’s an option, a risk, but you have to take that risk because sometimes, believe me, things turn out completely different. <\/em><\/p>\n

A volte le cose vanno bene e basta crederci.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Credere nel vero amore perch\u00e9 esiste<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Credere e sperare che tutto andr\u00e0 bene. Mantenete la fede nel vero amore, perch\u00e9 esiste.<\/em><\/p>\n

That real, honest love isn’t some imaginary, ordinary or temporary feeling. It’s so much more than that. It’s one very powerful force that can make your whole world spin.<\/p>\n

Love isn’t scary, it’s incredibly beautiful<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Why should you be scared of something so pure and wonderful like true love is? It won’t hurt you, and if it does, then it’s non \u00e8 vero amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Il vero amore ti scuote completamente. Ti d\u00e0 una ragione per vivere e ti d\u00e0 la forza di andare sempre avanti nella vita, indipendentemente da quanto le cose vadano male.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porta tanti bei colori nella vostra vita. Ti cambia completamente e ti rende una persona migliore. Vi fa innamorare di voi stessi e della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

So, tell me one good reason why you should be afraid of something so wonderful? Don’t allow that fear to ruin your chances of feeling true happiness.<\/p>\n

Don’t allow your old pain to make you lose faith in true love<\/h2>\n

\"pensieroso_sognante<\/p>\n

Okay, it didn’t work out for you once, but that’s not a reason to push love to the side. It’s not a reason to close all the doors of your heart to real love.<\/p>\n

I know that once you’re tradito dall'unico<\/a> who swore they would never betray or hurt you, it’s difficult to give your trust and your heart to someone new, to someone who could hurt you the same.<\/p>\n

I know it’s tough, but you must be tougher than that. No matter how much someone hurt you, don’t ever allow it to burn all the bridges between you and true love.<\/em><\/p>\n

Il vero amore non \u00e8 una favola<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It doesn’t just happen. It requires tradito dall'unico<\/a>, molti sacrifici, compromessi e tanta comprensione.<\/p>\n

That’s exactly why your last fairy tale didn’t have a happy ending. He wasn’t your prince and Dio lo ha allontanato dalla vostra vita<\/a> solo perch\u00e9 vuole che troviate la persona giusta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He wants you to find a man with whom you won’t have a \u201chappy ending\u201d either because your love story won’t ever end. He wants you to find your prince.<\/em><\/p>\n

Aprirsi di nuovo all'amore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don’t close your heart to a new love just because someone has hurt you before. Don’t be afraid to fall in love again because love truly is the most beautiful thing in the entire universe.<\/p>\n

Love is the whole point of living. To know this, we have that other person who’ll always be there by our side no matter what.<\/p>\n

If you close all your doors to a new love, you’ll regret it one day for sure. Life is too short and it might be too late for regrets afterward.<\/em><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 meritate di essere amati<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

So che, nel profondo, tutto ci\u00f2 che volete \u00e8 essere amati in quel modo altruistico e incondizionato.<\/p>\n

I know you want to feel that fairy tale kind of love, and one day, you will because it’s what you deserve. You’re a little bit damaged, but you still have a pure heart full of love that also deserves it.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll meet someone who’ll make you feel loved, happy and respected every damn day.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll get everything tradito dall'unico<\/a> e molto altro ancora. Basta aspettare, sperare e credere.<\/p>\n

Lasciate il vostro passato al suo posto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s high time to forget about your past and leave it where it belongs, indeed, once and for all. Forgive those who hurt you and forgive yourself for being naive enough to trust them.<\/p>\n

Forget about your painful past and those bad experiences. You’re only wasting your precious time.<\/p>\n

You should turn to the future and forget about those things that happened when you couldn\u2019t change anything about it.<\/p>\n

You’re not afraid of new love, your old pain is what hurts and scares you. Free yourself from the shackles of your past. Let the pain go out of your life and let the happiness in.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you sometimes feel scared of giving your heart to someone again? Does that bare thought of falling in love again scare the hell out of you? You’re probably afraid of getting hurt once again, right? You just collected all the broken pieces of your heart and glued them back together, and now, you feel…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":116243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116161","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Its-Not-The-New-Love-That-Scares-You-Its-The-Old-Pain-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116161","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116161"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116161\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}