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<\/p>\nYou’ve spent a significant amount of time in your life figuring out dating and romance. Truth be told, this has been one of your primary concerns ever since your teenage years. Well, you’re not alone.<\/p>\n
But is it possible that you never got to the bottom of your love life because you had no idea how many types of relationships there are? Yes, there is much more out there than the patterns that you’re used to.<\/p>\n
Quali sono i tipi di relazione? Come si riconosce ognuno di essi? E soprattutto: come gestirle al meglio?<\/p>\n
We’ve got you covered. Here are the answers to all of these questions and more.<\/p>\n
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Many people see this kind of interpersonal relationship as normal and typical; the truth is that it\u2019s anything but healthy.<\/p>\n
Basically, when you\u2019re in a relazione codipendente<\/a>, you don\u2019t love your partner the right way \u2013 you just think you do.<\/p>\n In fact, you\u2019re addicted to them. It’s normal for your partner to play an important role in your life, but it’s much worse than this in your case.<\/p>\n You\u2019re obsessed with their presence in your life, and everything they do or say affects you.<\/p>\n Con il tempo, si perdere se stessi<\/a> completely. Your primary goal in life is to keep this person by your side because you\u2019re convinced that you would literally die without them.<\/strong><\/p>\n No, this is not romantic, and it\u2019s certainly not the way a un sano romanticismo<\/a> should look. I hate to break it to you, but you\u2019re a fidanzata appiccicosa<\/a> or boyfriend if you\u2019re codependent.<\/p>\n You have no self-sufficiency, no autonomy, and no life outside of your relationship. Truth to be told, you\u2019re unable to express any type of emotion that doesn\u2019t concern your partner.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t care what happens in the world outside of your intimate relationship, as it\u2019s the only thing that really matters to you.<\/p>\n Soffrite di una mancanza di autostima e vivete nella costante paura che il vostro partner si allontani da voi.<\/p>\n With time, you develop serious abandonment trauma. Your entire world revolves around this person \u2013 they give you meaning and make you fulfilled.<\/p>\n Without them, you\u2019d be utterly lost, and your existence would be pointless. At least, this is how you feel.<\/p>\n La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che il vostro fidanzato o la vostra fidanzata permettono la vostra ossessione. Si godono il fatto che tu dipenda da loro, anche se probabilmente non lo ammetterebbero mai.<\/strong><\/p>\n Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t have stayed with you so long, would they? The truth is that the other party enjoys the emotional control they\u2019ve managed to impose on you.<\/p>\n This is the only way for them to feel relevant. Your behavior serves them as an ego boost, and that\u2019s the only reason they keep you around.<\/p>\n L'opposto di una relazione codipendente \u00e8 una relazione indipendente. All'inizio si potrebbe pensare che le coppie indipendenti siano tutt'altro che dei veri e propri partner, poich\u00e9 raramente seguono gli schemi relazionali tradizionali.<\/p>\n Li si immagina vivere in modo completamente separato e per alcuni potrebbero addirittura sembrare degli estranei. Tuttavia, questo non \u00e8 affatto vero.<\/strong><\/p>\n You see, when you\u2019re in an independent relationship, you remain the person you were before meeting your loved one.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not subject to personal growth and improvement.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s just that neither of you changes the essence of their beings just to please the other person. Even though you\u2019re in a relationship, you keep the life you had before your partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes, you two meet halfway on some things \u2013 that is completely normal. However, you still have your goals, career, friends, family relationships, and hobbies.<\/p>\n Now you\u2019ve just found someone to accompany you on this journey called life. You\u2019ve found someone who won\u2019t try to mold you and who won\u2019t do anything to endanger your individuality.<\/p>\n La parte migliore di questa relazione \u00e8 che you don\u2019t actually need your partner<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019ve just chosen to be with them.<\/p>\n Of course, you would miss them if they were gone. You would grieve their absence, but your world wouldn\u2019t stop spinning if that happened.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t depend on them financially, emotionally, or in any other way. Their departure wouldn\u2019t mess up your life too much, and it certainly wouldn\u2019t significantly reduce its quality.<\/strong><\/p>\n This might sound harsh, but in this situation, you both put yourselves first. It doesn\u2019t mean that you don\u2019t love your boyfriend or girlfriend \u2013 you just love yourself more.<\/p>\n Trust me: this doesn\u2019t make you selfish. It only shows that you\u2019re both mature and have the capacity to look at things realistically, without feelings included.<\/p>\n Che vi piaccia o no ammetterlo, il vostro amore potrebbe svanire un giorno. Potreste separarvi. You\u2019ll be left with the life you\u2019ve built outside of your romance, so it better be a good one.<\/p>\n The title says it all: in this relationship, there is a clear difference between an active and a passive partner. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve seen tons of relationships, especially marriages like this.<\/p>\n I\u2019m talking about the ones where, for example, a wife\/mother is in charge of basically everything. She does the cooking, the cleaning, and other chores.<\/p>\n She is the one responsible for the children\u2019s upbringing, and the one everyone consults with before making a life-changing decision.<\/p>\n D'altra parte, il marito si limita a seguire la corrente. Il pi\u00f9 delle volte \u00e8 uno spettatore passivo nei confronti dei propri familiari.<\/p>\n He has no interest in how the kids are raised, where they will go on their next vacation, or what they\u2019ll have for lunch. This man\u2019s only responsibility is to go to work and bring money home.<\/p>\n Per il resto della giornata si sdraia sul divano, guarda la TV e si comporta come un vero parassita. Naturalmente le cose possono andare in entrambi i sensi e questo \u00e8 solo un esempio.<\/p>\n However, an active\/passive relationship doesn\u2019t always have to be this obvious \u2013 sometimes you don\u2019t even realize that your relationship struggles with this kind of dynamic.<\/p>\n Nella maggior parte dei casi, il partner attivo \u00e8 quello che porta l'intera relazione sulle spalle, in un modo o nell'altro.<\/strong><\/p>\n At the end of the day, they\u2019re the ones keeping it alive, while the other person just tags along.<\/strong><\/p>\n Il motivo per cui questo tipo di relazioni sono pi\u00f9 comuni di quanto si possa pensare \u00e8 che Gli opposti si attraggono<\/a>.<\/p>\n Quando si incontrano per la prima volta, il partner passivo tranquillizza quello attivo. D'altra parte, il partner attivo porta l'eccitazione che manca a quello passivo.<\/p>\n However, as soon as the initial butterflies are gone, you face trouble in paradise. The active partner starts to feel overwhelmed while the passive one can\u2019t handle the pressure.<\/p>\n Molte persone commettono un errore nel pensare che attivo\/passivo e dominante\/passivo siano due concetti che non hanno senso.tipi di relazioni di sottomissione<\/a> sono la stessa cosa. Tuttavia, le differenze sono molte.<\/p>\n Just because you\u2019re an active partner doesn\u2019t make your boyfriend or girlfriend submissive.<\/p>\n You might be louder, more capable, or even more aggressive when it comes to your common interests, but that doesn\u2019t mean that the other person is automatically compliant.<\/p>\n Quando si sentono questi termini, la prima cosa che si pensa \u00e8 la camera da letto.<\/p>\n Beh, la relazione dominante\/sottomessa \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 di questo, e le vostre attivit\u00e0 tra le lenzuola sono per lo pi\u00f9 solo una parte di essa.<\/p>\n A submissive partner has no say in and out of the bedroom, and all control is in the hands of the dominant one. They\u2019re the one who governs both of your lives in all of its aspects.<\/p>\n A prima vista, il partner dominante ha la meglio in questo tipo di dinamica di potere. La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ha molti pi\u00f9 diritti.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, their responsibilities are bigger, as well. It’s their duty to protect their moglie sottomessa<\/a> o marito, di prendersi cura di loro in tutti i modi possibili e di guidarli nella vita.<\/p>\n They\u2019re in charge of the entire decision-making process in the relationship and, therefore, take all the blame if something goes wrong.<\/p>\n Per la maggior parte delle persone, una dinamica di potere dominante\/sottomesso \u00e8 la cosa peggiore in assoluto. Tuttavia, alcuni godono della loro superiorit\u00e0 e altri amano essere obbedienti.<\/p>\n So, if it works for them \u2013 who are we to judge?<\/p>\n Tenete presente che c'\u00e8 un'enorme differenza tra una storia d'amore in cui entrambe le parti hanno accettato questa impostazione e una relazione in cui questa lotta di potere \u00e8 forzata.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you\u2019re a submissive partner, you\u2019re not your loved one\u2019s slave, nor are they your master.<\/p>\n La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 che potete e dovete porre fine a questo gioco nel momento in cui inizia a mettervi a disagio.<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you heard about this kind of relationship. It was named after the famous philosopher Plato. With time, the concept has been modified, although the source idea has remained the same.<\/p>\n In una relazione platonica, voi e il vostro partner condividete emozioni profonde l'uno per l'altro.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re committed to making your romance work; you share the same values, common interests, and you plan a future together.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tuttavia, non c'\u00e8 nulla di fisico tra voi due.<\/strong> It\u2019s not that you just don\u2019t sleep together \u2013 there is also no touching and kissing. Basically, there is no physical attraction and chemistry.<\/p>\n Questo potrebbe sembrare strano o addirittura impossibile per incontri moderni<\/a> but trust me \u2013 a lot of people choose this relationship as something that suits them best.<\/p>\n Per queste coppie, l'intimit\u00e0 \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 che soddisfare gli impulsi primordiali. Si concentrano su altre cose, come formare un legame pi\u00f9 profondo e pi\u00f9 forte e diventare la migliore versione possibile di se stessi.<\/p>\n Sembra troppo bello per essere vero, vero? Il fatto \u00e8 che non sono molte le persone che riescono a far funzionare questo tipo di relazione.<\/p>\n Whether we like to admit it or not, we all have needs that we can\u2019t control.<\/strong><\/p>\n This is why these relationships fail in most cases: one of the partners finds the passion they\u2019re lacking back home and realizes that this is not how they can continue living.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, please don\u2019t mistake friend-zoning for a platonic relationship. Theoretically, they\u2019re similar, but not the same.<\/p>\n In entrambi i casi, ci sono due persone che sono amiche e, in un certo senso, condividono una vita insieme, ma non c'\u00e8 nulla di fisico tra loro.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nevertheless, when you\u2019re in a platonic relationship, you both agree to these terms.<\/strong> D'altra parte, una friendzone significa che una persona prova sentimenti non proprio platonici per l'altra.<\/p>\n They would never choose to be platonic if they had the chance \u2013 they are just left with no other choice.<\/p>\n Allo stesso tempo, nella maggior parte dei casi, l'altra persona non ha idea dei suoi sentimenti e la vede come un semplice amico.<\/p>\n When you start a new relationship, you don\u2019t know where it will take you or how long it will last. But every time, you hope that this is the real deal.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t think about the end, nor do you plan a break-up now that everything is going smoothly. At least, this is how things usually work. Well, with a relazione temporanea<\/a>, tutto \u00e8 diverso.<\/p>\n From the very first day, this romantic relationship has an expiration date. You know it\u2019s not permanent, and you don\u2019t give your entire self to it.<\/strong><\/p>\n You don\u2019t plan your future with this person, you don\u2019t introduce them to your friends and family, and you don\u2019t share your deepest thoughts and feelings with them.<\/p>\n Officially, they\u2019re your boyfriend\/girlfriend, but they\u2019re not your life partner.<\/p>\n You might be moving out of town in a couple of months but don\u2019t want a long-distance relationship. Or you\u2019re not ready to share your life with someone else but don\u2019t want to be alone either.<\/p>\n Non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nelle storie d'amore temporanee a una condizione: che entrambi siate d'accordo sui termini della vostra relazione. La cosa peggiore che potete fare \u00e8 dare al vostro partner false speranze.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, nella maggior parte dei casi, questo tipo di relazioni sono considerate temporanee solo da una persona. Per loro, questa storia d'amore ha una data di scadenza, mentre l'altro \u00e8 completamente all'oscuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n Oppure l'altra parte si rifiuta semplicemente di accettare come stanno le cose. Ecco che si fanno progetti e si spera che tutto cambi in futuro.<\/p>\n Si vedono andare all'altare con la persona che li vede come un soluzione temporanea<\/a> invece di una soluzione permanente. In questo caso, questa storia d'amore \u00e8 malsana, tossica e, soprattutto, ingiusta.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, oggi sempre pi\u00f9 persone si lasciano coinvolgere in una relazione di evitamento senza nemmeno saperlo. In poche parole, si tratta di una storia d'amore tra due persone che evitano qualsiasi tipo di intimit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n But I\u2019m not referring to physical intimacy this time. I\u2019m talking about real connessione emotiva<\/a>.<\/strong> Consequently, they\u2019ve built strong walls around their hearts. They\u2019ve become overly careful, and their worst fear is of being hurt again.<\/p>\n So, they act as if they\u2019re heartless since they\u2019re convinced it\u2019s the only way to protect themselves from going through the same hell once more.<\/p>\n Queste persone sono emotivamente indisponibili e scelgono consapevolmente i partner con cui possono avere una relazione di tipo evitante.<\/strong><\/p>\n The avoidant person doesn\u2019t include their boyfriend\/girlfriend in their life, they refuse to open up completely, and they never give them their whole heart.<\/p>\n Instead, they\u2019re constantly on the lookout. They avoid any situation that might reveal their vulnerabilities and force them to lay down their shield.<\/p>\n Hanno problemi di fiducia profondamente radicati e sono pronti a scappare non appena vedono che l'altra persona si \u00e8 avvicinata troppo.<\/p>\n Il problema di queste relazioni \u00e8 che l'altro partner finisce quasi sempre per sentirsi trascurato emotivamente.<\/strong> At first, you think that you\u2019ll tear down your loved one\u2019s walls with time.<\/p>\n However, despite all of your attempts, that doesn\u2019t happen. You end up feeling unloved and unwanted, which severely damages your self-esteem and mental health.<\/p>\n Avete presente quelle coppie che stanno insieme da una vita?<\/p>\n Hanno fatto tutto secondo le regole: si sono laureati insieme, si sono fidanzati, si sono sposati e ora hanno dei figli, un cane e vivono in una grande casa recintata di bianco in periferia.<\/p>\n At first glance, this kind of life looks like a fairytale. After all, this is what we\u2019ve all dreamt of while growing up.<\/p>\n Ma a volte le cose sono troppo belle per essere vere.<\/strong> Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not claiming that every seemingly perfect relationship is not as great as it seems.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, le relazioni sceneggiate sono proprio cos\u00ec. In effetti, nella maggior parte dei casi, ricordano le famiglie di Stepford.<\/strong><\/p>\n They are together and do everything by the book because that is how things should be. These couples aren\u2019t living the life they want because they\u2019re too busy fulfilling expectations.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t know whether they\u2019ve been told that their life has to look like this, if they come from a traditional family who taught them that this was the only way, or if they\u2019re just too obsessed with meeting society\u2019s standards.<\/p>\n Per gli astanti, queste coppie hanno tutto: hanno un lavoro fisso, pagano il mutuo e vanno in vacanza.<\/p>\n Il giorno del loro matrimonio \u00e8 stato magico, i loro figli sono cresciuti bene, visitano le loro famiglie, trascorrono le domeniche insieme e frequentano altre famiglie simili alla loro.<\/p>\n Ma c'\u00e8 vero amore tra loro? C'\u00e8 un vero legame emotivo? Si ascoltano davvero?<\/p>\n Nobody has ever heard them arguing \u2013 but you won\u2019t see them kissing either. One question arises here: Are people in scripted relationships robots or human beings?<\/strong><\/p>\n Le persone che hanno a che fare con varie insicurezze hanno un bisogno incontrollabile di convalida in diverse forme di relazione.<\/p>\n They need someone who will tell them that they\u2019re enough, that they\u2019re doing okay, and that they\u2019re valuable. Otherwise, they won\u2019t see their own worth.<\/p>\n Questo fenomeno inizia di solito nella prima infanzia, quando un bambino chiede la convalida dei genitori, degli amici o degli insegnanti.<\/p>\n However, if they don\u2019t get the right kind and amount of proof that they matter, they\u2019ll continue seeking it through adulthood.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re in this type of relationship, all you need is your partner\u2019s acceptance. Your self-esteem completely depends on their opinion, so you\u2019re also, in a way, co-dependent.<\/strong><\/p>\n Whatever you do, you do it for them to think that you\u2019re enough. You have the need to prove your worth to them because you don\u2019t have it without their validation.<\/p>\n You constantly wonder if you could do better, if they\u2019re happy with you, and if you\u2019re giving them all you should. The moment you see their dissatisfaction, you\u2019re convinced that you did something wrong.<\/p>\n Pensate troppo a ogni vostra parola e mossa. Vi incolpate di tutto ci\u00f2 che non va nella vostra relazione, come se non avessero alcuna responsabilit\u00e0 nel vostro rapporto.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing straight: someone else can never give you confirmation of your worth until you start feeling valuable. It shouldn\u2019t depend on your relationship but your own opinion and feprima persona che incrocia il tuo cammino, e tu stai<\/strong>elings.<\/p>\n I\u2019m trying to say that your starting point for change has to be learning how to build your self-confidence.<\/strong><\/p>\n All the love you\u2019re getting from your partner is completely pointless unless you learn come amare se stessi<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n So, you\u2019ve been in a long term relationship which ended badly. In fact, it\u2019s irrelevant how long it lasted. Truth to be told, maybe it wasn\u2019t an actual relationship in the first place.<\/p>\n Either way, the bottom line is the same: you got your heart broken. I don\u2019t care if it was infidelity, if the other person didn\u2019t want you, abused you, or just didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n You\u2019re disappointed and see no light at the end of the tunnel. You\u2019ve stopped believing in love and hoping that one day, you\u2019ll find happiness.<\/p>\n Pensi che tutte le donne o gli uomini sono uguali<\/a> e che tutti ti feriranno come ha fatto il tuo ex.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t see yourself giving your heart to another person ever again, and you gave up on your \u201chappily ever after.\u201d<\/p>\n Quindi cosa fate? Elaborate le vostre emozioni? Aspettate che le cose migliorino?<\/p>\n Do you heal in a healthy way? Do you accept that you\u2019re emotionally unavailable and abstain from any romantic relationships?<\/p>\n No \u2013 you do the complete opposite. Si va in giro a risolvere i propri problemi creandone di nuovi, il che, ovviamente, non va mai a buon fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n Si afferra la prima persona che si incontra e si inizia a frequentarla.<\/strong> Not only that \u2013 you also start things seriously.<\/p>\n However, you\u2019re doing it all to forget about your ex.<\/strong> You\u2019re using this person who has nothing to do with your scars, and you\u2019re hurting them the same way you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n E questo, amico mio, \u00e8 un tipico esempio di come relazioni di rimbalzo<\/a> roll. The sad thing is that they\u2019re all around us.<\/p>\n The problem is that the other person has no clue that they\u2019re your rebound. They have no idea that you\u2019re taking advantage of them and that they\u2019re serving as a bandage for your crushed heart.<\/p>\n That is precisely what makes this entire arrangement wrong and evil \u2013 you\u2019re hurting someone harmless in the process. Li guidi tu<\/a>E date loro una falsa speranza.<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes, you\u2019re with your BF\/GF physically, but mentally and emotionally, you\u2019re somewhere far away. And that is something no person in this world deserves. Basically, you\u2019re no better than your ex.<\/p>\n Quando si inizia a frequentare qualcuno di nuovo, l'ultima cosa che si vuole \u00e8 apparire disperati.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want your new boyfriend\/girlfriend to think that you\u2019ve hit the jackpot by meeting them or to see you as some loser whose only goal is to find someone to love them.<\/p>\n After all, being emotional is out of style, isn\u2019t it? We\u2019re all acting casual, and the one who shows feelings first is a loser.<\/p>\n So, you don\u2019t put your cards on the table. Passate il tempo e dormite insieme, ma non vi chiedete mai a che punto siete.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ve never committed to not seeing other people, even though this is what you\u2019d secretly like to happen.<\/strong> Sperate che la vostra relazione inizi ad assomigliare a qualcos'altro uno di questi giorni.<\/p>\n Il number one problem is that everything looks like you\u2019re in a real relationship, but you\u2019ve actually never defined it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sembra tutto perfetto, finch\u00e9 non arriva il momento in cui qualcosa vi disturba. Forse flirtano quasi con altre persone o hanno ancora installato delle app di incontri.<\/p>\n But you can\u2019t say anything, can you? After all, you haven\u2019t made things clear, and they never promised their fidelity.<\/p>\n Sounds familiar, right? Well, this is what\u2019s called an quasi relazione<\/a> \u2013 a trap almost all of us have fallen into at least once.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not against these types of relationships. But remember that it\u2019s all fun and games until one of you catches feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n And I assure you that this will happen sooner or later. I know what you must think: you\u2019re above that, and you can control yourself.<\/p>\n Well, in most cases \u2013 you can\u2019t. So, it\u2019s better not to start these relationships in the first place to avoid any regrets later.<\/p>\n A balanced relationship is basically the one in which you receive just as much as you take. You put in the amount of effort you\u2019re getting from your partner.<\/p>\n Ma sapete cosa dice una famosa citazione? \u201cA relationship isn’t always 50\/50. Some days a person will struggle. You suck it up and pick up that 80\/20 cause they need you. That’s love.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to say is that you shouldn\u2019t measure the devotion, time, and effort both of you put into a relationship.<\/p>\n But at the end of the day, when you calculate everything, you\u2019re pretty much on the same level.<\/p>\n Neither partner feels like they\u2019re making all the sacrifices. They don\u2019t feel like they\u2019re moving mountains for someone who isn\u2019t ready to move a finger for their sake.<\/p>\n Tutto in questa storia d'amore \u00e8 equilibrato, compresi i vostri sentimenti.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not the one who loves more, nor does your partner feel like their love is unrequited. <\/strong>You two are equals, and that\u2018s the magic of it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019ll be straight with you: out of all types of relationships, this is one of the best. Not only that: it also has the most chance of succeeding.<\/p>\n Voi e il vostro partner avete una comunicazione sana. Entrambi date tutto voi stessi e unite le forze per far funzionare le cose.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nessuno si sente trascurato emotivamente<\/a> o usato. Nessuno si sente non amato e non desiderato. This one is quite similar to the rebound relationship we\u2019ve already discussed. It is also temporary, and one person doesn\u2019t share the same feelings.<\/p>\n However, when you\u2019re dating someone convenientemente<\/a>, you\u2019re not doing it primarily to get over a person from your past. You\u2019re not necessarily heartbroken or hurt.<\/p>\n In fact, you don\u2019t even have to be extra careful. In this case, you\u2019re not scared of going through the same hell you went through in your past.<\/p>\n Here, you\u2019re with your boyfriend or girlfriend just because you don\u2019t want to be alone. On the other hand, there is no one better around.<\/strong><\/p>\n Despite all of your attempts, you can\u2019t seem to find your perfect match. You know exactly what you\u2019re looking for, but sadly, you haven\u2019t crossed paths with your dream guy or girl yet.<\/p>\n So, you start dating the first person that comes along. There is no extreme chemistry here, and you certainly don\u2019t plan on spending the rest of your life with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n But they\u2019re convenient for the moment.<\/strong> They don\u2019t bother you much, they meet some of your basic standards, you like them to a certain extent, and they keep you company.<\/p>\n It\u2019s better than being alone, isn\u2019t it? Especially if all of your friends are taken, and you could use a plus one.<\/p>\n Well, isn\u2019t it obvious how wrong this is on so many levels?<\/p>\n Let\u2019s start with the fact that you\u2019re dragging someone innocent along. You\u2019ll end up breaking their heart with your little games once you leave them for the person who has everything you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n But not only that: this is also damaging for you. You\u2019re living a lie, and you\u2019re wasting your time on the wrong person while you could be out there searching for your Mr. or Ms. Right.<\/p>\n You know those relationships where it\u2019s all about the fireworks? You feel like you can\u2019t live without this person, but it\u2019s pretty obvious that you two don\u2019t function well together either.<\/p>\n So, you keep going back and forth. You\u2019ve split up more times than anyone can count, but you always find a way back to each other.<\/p>\n Naturalmente, lungo la strada trascinate altre persone nei vostri casini. Iniziate a frequentare qualcuno di nuovo, ma in qualche modo finite sempre con il vostro ex.<\/p>\n It\u2019s enough for your loved one to look at you to tear down all of your walls. No matter what happens, your love trumps everything.<\/p>\n At least, that is what you think, isn\u2019t it? This must be love \u2013 after all, it\u2019s clear that the two of you are meant to be together.<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. This is a relazione tossica<\/a> you\u2019ll waste years of your life on.<\/p>\n It\u2019s in human nature to chase what they can\u2019t have. That is exactly what you two do: you run after each other because you\u2019re both so unattainable.<\/p>\n Even though deep down, you\u2019re sure of your partner\u2019s emotions, you never know their next move. They\u2019re unpredictable, and all of this drama makes you feel more alive.<\/strong><\/p>\n As much as you hate to hear this, this is anything but healthy. Instead, it\u2019s poisonous, and it will leave severe consequences for your mental health.<\/p>\n Once again, the name says it all: this is the type of relationship where you\u2019re physically apart from your loved one. But the distance doesn\u2019t impact your love, or at least \u2013 it shouldn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, it all depends on how far away you live from each other. Most long-distance couples don\u2019t meet as often as they\u2019d like, and most of the time, they rely on technology.<\/p>\n La domanda finale \u00e8 se le relazioni a distanza funzionano o meno. Come in tutte le cose della vita, non c'\u00e8 una regola e tutto dipende.<\/p>\n Innanzitutto, \u00e8 necessario avere un piano<\/a>. You can\u2019t continue living like this forever, especially if you want to start a family.<\/strong><\/p>\n Therefore, it\u2019s crucial that you\u2019re both on the same page here.<\/p>\n Chi si sposter\u00e0 dove? Vi incontrerete a met\u00e0 strada o uno dei due lascer\u00e0 la propria vita per raggiungere l'altra persona?<\/p>\n Che ne sar\u00e0 della vostra carriera, dei vostri amici, dei vostri hobby e della vostra famiglia? Siete davvero pronti a fare questo grande passo? Queste sono tutte le domande a cui dovete rispondere prima di fare qualsiasi cambiamento cruciale.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you don\u2019t have any concrete plans and don\u2019t talk about the future, what\u2019s the point of your relazione a distanza<\/a>? Avete intenzione di avere appuntamenti FaceTime per il resto dell'eternit\u00e0?<\/p>\n Un'altra cosa da dimenticare \u00e8 l'eccessiva gelosia. Che vi piaccia o no, il vostro partner vive dall'altra parte del Paese, quindi non avete altra scelta che fidarvi di lui.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re dating, you\u2019re out there on the market. You\u2019re looking for your soulmate, and you\u2019re meeting new people during your quest.<\/strong><\/p>\n You might find your potential dates on a dating app, on social media, or you\u2019re going on blind or speed dates.<\/p>\n But this is not the only definition of dating. There is also an option when you\u2019re dating only one person at a time, but you still don\u2019t call it a relationship.<\/p>\n Either way, dating is completely harmless under the condition that everyone involved knows what they\u2019re getting themselves into.<\/p>\n You have to be clear that you\u2019re not seeing anyone specific and that you\u2019re not ready to be exclusive just yet.<\/p>\n Also, there is nothing wrong if you don\u2019t feel like dating. You\u2019re allowed to flirt and text with someone, but that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re obligated to go on a date with them.<\/p>\n The good thing about being on the dating market is that you get a chance to meet a bunch of new people. You won\u2019t like some of them, but you can always remain friends.<\/strong><\/p>\n D'altro canto, aumenta significativamente le possibilit\u00e0 di incontrare l'uno<\/a>. <\/strong>Don\u2019t be fooled into thinking that real love has to happen \u2013 sometimes you need to put effort into finding it.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not always like in the movies, and you won\u2019t necessarily fall in love with la tua persona per sempre<\/a> a prima vista.<\/p>\n Sometimes, you\u2019ll go out on a few dates, and then you\u2019ll realize that they stand out from everyone else you might be seeing.<\/p>\n Spontaneously, you\u2019ll become exclusive, start a more intimate relationship, and understand that you\u2019re meant for each other. You know, the old fashioned way.<\/p>\n In poche parole, amici con benefici<\/a> is a type of intimate relationship when you\u2019re hooking up with someone who is your friend. It\u2019s more than a casual affair in which everything revolves around physical pleasure.<\/p>\n Tra voi e questa persona c'\u00e8 un legame profondo. Vi capisce, si prende cura del vostro benessere, vi ascolta e si fa viva quando avete bisogno del suo aiuto o di una spalla su cui piangere.<\/p>\n Inoltre, avete una chimica straordinaria e andate d'accordo tra le lenzuola. Quindi, la domanda logica sorge spontanea: in cosa \u00e8 diverso da una vera relazione e perch\u00e9 non siete esclusivi?<\/strong><\/p>\n Innanzitutto, questo tipo di relazioni non sono quasi mai pubbliche. Le vostre piccole avventure vengono nascoste, il che le rende ancora pi\u00f9 carine ed eccitanti.<\/p>\n Also, you two don\u2019t go out on actual dates. There is no jealousy involved, and you\u2019re allowed to meet and date other people. How perfect is that?<\/p>\n It seems that almost nothing could possibly go wrong here. You get to kiss your best friend whom you\u2019re physically attracted to, but you don\u2019t get the bad sides every romantic relationship brings to the table.<\/p>\n Ma cosa succede quando si incontra qualcuno di nuovo?<\/strong> I know what you\u2019ll say: \u201cwe\u2019ll end our little fling.\u201d<\/p>\n Ma lo farete davvero? Continuerete a frequentarvi come se nulla fosse accaduto o uno di voi due finir\u00e0 per avere il cuore spezzato?<\/p>\n Will you be honest with your partner about the romantic history you had with your friend? If the answer is yes, how do you think they\u2019ll take it?<\/p>\n Saranno d'accordo che voi due rimaniate amici intimi? O vi chiederanno di prendere le distanze dal vostro amico con benefici? In tal caso, chi sceglierai?<\/p>\n Dilemmas, dilemmas, dilemmas. The truth is that it\u2019s quite likely that you\u2019ll find yourself in this situation. And according to relational experts, it will happen sooner than you might think.<\/p>\n Therefore, if you don\u2019t have the answers to all of these questions, I’ll give you a piece of relationship advice: maybe it\u2019s better to stay away from this arrangement.<\/p>\n Un altro motivo per non farlo \u00e8 la vostra instabilit\u00e0 emotiva. It\u2019s more likely that you\u2019ll innamorarsi del proprio amico<\/a> (who you already love in a non-romantical way) than with some stranger you\u2019ve just met.<\/strong><\/p>\n What happens if one person\u2019s feelings grow, but the other\u2019s don\u2019t? The end of your friendship, that\u2019s right. An open relationship doesn\u2019t equal infidelity. When you\u2019re unfaithful in a monogamous relationship, you go behind your partner\u2019s back.<\/p>\n You deceive them into thinking that they\u2019re the only one in your life while you\u2019re actually backstabbing them with your lover.<\/p>\n In an open relationship, all cards are on the table, without anything hidden. You\u2019re both allowed to see other people, to go on dates, or even to sleep with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tuttavia, qualunque cosa accada, si torna sempre l'uno all'altro. Per quanto possa sembrare strano ad alcuni, alcune coppie amano davvero questo tipo di romanticismo.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t love each other any less than \u201cregular\u201d couples, and they only see this as a little hobby that keeps the spark alive.<\/p>\n Cosa succede quando qualcuno supera il limite? In una relazione aperta c'\u00e8 sempre una serie di regole: un elenco di cose accettabili e inaccettabili.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ma si pu\u00f2 davvero controllare se stessi? Chi <\/strong><\/p>\n can guarantee that you won\u2019t fall in love with one of your dates?<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong: this level of trust is admirable, and not many could stand it. However, things go unplanned in a split second.<\/p>\n Alla fine della giornata, ricordate che ogni storia d'amore \u00e8 unica. Questi tipi di relazioni dovrebbero servire come punto di partenza per identificare la vostra relazione e, auspicabilmente, migliorarla.<\/p>\n Dimenticatevi di quello che diranno gli altri e scegliete l'opzione pi\u00f9 adatta a voi.<\/p>\n The only thing that matters is you and your partner’s satisfaction and joy, and nobody else, besides you two have a say in these things.<\/p>\n Also, if you’re intrigued and want to learn more about tipi di relazioni interessanti<\/a>, date un'occhiata ai nostri nuovi contenuti sul sito poliamoroso<\/a>.<\/p>\n Allora, qual \u00e8 il tipo che vi piace di pi\u00f9?<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" You’ve spent a significant amount of time in your life figuring out dating and romance. Truth be told, this has been one of your primary concerns ever since your teenage years. Well, you’re not alone. 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Indipendente<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-holding-hands.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Cosa rende una relazione sana?<\/h3>\n
\nAnd if that happens, what remains? Well, you\u2019ll be left alone with yourself.<\/p>\nAttivo\/passivo<\/h2>\n
![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-holding-mans-hand.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCome funziona?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 insostenibile?<\/h3>\n
Dominante\/sottomesso<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-hugging-woman.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Pu\u00f2 avere successo?<\/h3>\n
Platonico<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-smiling.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Cosa pu\u00f2 andare storto?<\/h3>\n
Friendzone<\/h3>\n
Temporaneo<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-kissing-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCome funziona?<\/h3>\n
Quando non \u00e8 salutare?<\/h3>\n
Evitare<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-standing-outdoor.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
\nSpesso queste persone sono state ferite in passato.<\/p>\nTrascuratezza emotiva<\/h3>\n
Sceneggiato<\/h2>\n
![\"Famiglia](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/family-having-fun-in-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe aspetto ha?<\/h3>\n
Dove si pu\u00f2 sbagliare?<\/h3>\n
Convalida<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-holding-hands-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nPerch\u00e9 succede?<\/h3>\n
Cosa lo rende sbagliato?<\/h3>\n
Rimbalzo<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-holding-hands-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Cosa lo rende malsano?<\/h3>\n
Quasi<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-sitting-near-water-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCome avviene?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 dannoso?<\/h3>\n
Equilibrato<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-hugging.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 una relazione sana?<\/h3>\n
\nYou\u2019re 100% into the other person. There are no hidden insecurities or traumas.<\/p>\nConveniente<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-sitting-on-pavement.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 un male?<\/h3>\n
Tossico<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-kissing-3.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec attraente?<\/h3>\n
A distanza<\/h2>\n
![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-using-smartphone-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Dura?<\/h3>\n
Incontri<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-having-coffee-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Dove pu\u00f2 portare?<\/h3>\n
Amici con benefici<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-laying-on-bed.jpg\")
<\/p>\nCome avviene?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2 andare male?<\/h3>\n
\nDo you want to ruin it forever for a few moments of passion? Of course, you don\u2019t. That\u2019s what I thought.<\/p>\nAperto<\/h2>\n
![\"uomo](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-drinking-wine-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nChe cos'\u00e8?<\/h3>\n
Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec grave?<\/h3>\n
Pensieri finali
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