{"id":11633,"date":"2020-06-09T12:28:50","date_gmt":"2020-06-09T12:28:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11633"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:32:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:32:47","slug":"10-obiettivi-relazionali-da-raggiungere-per-essere-veramente-felici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-obiettivi-relazionali-da-raggiungere-per-essere-veramente-felici\/","title":{"rendered":"10 obiettivi relazionali da raggiungere se volete essere veramente felici"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s a goal like every other in your life. You see it as something you need to achieve in order to be truly happy.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si inizia una nuova relazione, si ha in mente un'immagine di come dovrebbe essere per essere la relazione giusta per noi.<\/p>\n<p>Non avete mai definito i vostri desideri e bisogni, non li avete mai trasformati in obiettivi da raggiungere.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se avete mai guardato qualche discorso motivazionale su Internet, saprete che per raggiungere un certo obiettivo, dovete definirlo e definire i passi per ottenerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco quindi alcuni esempi di #relationshipgoals che potreste prendere in considerazione per avere una relazione felice e soddisfacente:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Comunicazione onesta e aperta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta in salotto a parlare con il caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-sitting-in-living-room-and-talking-with-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you start a new relationship, it&#8217;s all about learning something new about them, even their dark secrets and thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not obsessive to want to know someone better because you need to know what their motivations and their biggest fears are in order to know if you want to continue being in a relationship with them.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete essere aperti l'uno con l'altro sulle cose che vi danno fastidio.<\/p>\n<p>If you are thinking about texting him but you think that you will get on his nerves and be a bother, don&#8217;t even start a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s the point if you can&#8217;t have someone to talk to at any given time of the day?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere migliori amici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95156\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che lotta con i cuscini\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-having-a-pillow-fight-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you thought that being best friends with your boyfriend is weird, well, you thought wrong. If you&#8217;re going to be in a happy relationship, you need someone with whom you can laugh, have pillow fights and play video games.<\/p>\n<p>Sono queste le cose che vi rendono perfetti l'uno per l'altra.<\/p>\n<p>Ma la cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 che essere amici aiuta a superare i momenti difficili.<\/p>\n<p>Sex can help you to get over whatever you did to upset the other but it will get weird after some time and it won&#8217;t have any meaning anymore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tempo da soli<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep.jpg\" alt=\"Bella ragazza che si sveglia dopo un sonno notturno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-girl-waking-up-after-a-night-sleep-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Avete bisogno di tempo da soli, per ricaricarvi e concentrarvi sugli obiettivi che sono solo vostri.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to freak out every time your partner is not around! It&#8217;s nice to be alone for a while and gather your thoughts, and it might help you to find a solution to a certain problem.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s also there to see how independent you are, even when you&#8217;re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/tinybuddha.com\/featured\/10-ways-to-have-peaceful-loving-relationships\/\" rel=\"noopener\">relazione amorevole e premurosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se vivete insieme al vostro partner, potete andare in un'altra stanza per lavorare o per prendere un caff\u00e8 da soli e leggere un buon libro.<\/p>\n<p>Alcune persone vivono per questi momenti, perch\u00e9 sanno di avere sempre qualcuno da cui tornare quando si sentono sole.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi sostenete a vicenda<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95158\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book.jpg\" alt=\"Bella coppia giovane e amorevole che si lega l&#039;uno all&#039;altro e sorride mentre la donna tiene un libro\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Beautiful-young-loving-couple-bonding-to-each-other-and-smiling-while-woman-holding-a-book-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dovrebbe sapere cosa vi impegnate a realizzare nella vostra vita e anche il contrario.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete sostenere gli obiettivi dell'altro ed essere presenti per aiutare se potete.<\/p>\n<p>Be each other\u2019s support system and show the world that you can achieve everything you want together.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non fare sesso ogni volta che si sta insieme<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1.jpg\" alt=\"bella coppia giovane che dorme sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/beautiful-young-couple-sleeping-on-bed-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s very important to not make sex the highest priority in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Se riuscite a sedervi l'uno accanto all'altro, senza nemmeno toccarvi, avete avuto successo.<\/p>\n<p>Or even better, if you can cuddle for hours on end and still not feel the urge to fuck but rather to enjoy your time together like that, well, that&#8217;s the biggest #relationshipgoal out there.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lasciate il vostro telefono in giro senza il timore che il vostro partner controlli i vostri messaggi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95160\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"smartphone argento sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/silver-smartphone-on-bed-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Possiamo <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/insight-is-2020\/201409\/the-3-reasons-we-can-get-jealous\" rel=\"noopener\">essere spesso geloso<\/a> but that doesn&#8217;t mean that we have the right to invade someone else&#8217;s privacy. You need to trust your partner in order to be calm and collected when they get a text message.<\/p>\n<p>L'obiettivo \u00e8 quello di non lasciarsi mai prendere dall'impulso di vedere cosa scrive a un'altra, perch\u00e9 ci si fida abbastanza del proprio partner da credere che sia fedele.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he won&#8217;t check on you either because he knows how precious he is to you. This gets to the point where we are willing to give our phone to the other person to look after and we let them know everything that&#8217;s on there because we have nothing to hide.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Telling them that other people are attractive and knowing they won\u2019t get mad<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95161\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano e tengono in mano una tazza di t\u00e8 bianco a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/male-and-female-talking-and-holding-white-cup-of-tea-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hi! Hello. Let me update you on something new: you will be attracted to other people while you&#8217;re in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Attraction to others doesn&#8217;t magically disappear when you are in love with someone.<\/p>\n<p>Certo, per un po' di tempo si hanno occhi solo per il proprio partner, ma dopo qualche tempo si vede la bellezza fisica in altre persone e si dovrebbe avere il coraggio di dire al proprio uomo quello che si pensa.<\/p>\n<p>And, believe it or not, they won&#8217;t get mad at you if you have a stable relationship, where both sides trust each other enough to know that they&#8217;re yours no matter what.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere strani e volgari l'uno con l'altro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95162\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface.jpg\" alt=\"strana coppia che fa la faccia d&#039;anatra\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/weird-couple-making-duckface-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sapete che la vostra relazione \u00e8 vera #relationshipgoals quando siete completamente a vostro agio nell'essere voi stessi e non nascondete nulla al vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>You can laugh as loud as you can, because you know that your partner finds that cute. Or even fart and burp in front of each other, because you both know that they\u2019re normal human reactions.<\/p>\n<p>Ci sono tante cose che ci vergogniamo di fare in pubblico, ma nelle vere storie d'amore non esistono.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trascorrere la notte mangiando e guardando la TV invece di uscire<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che beve birra e guarda la TV\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/couple-drinking-beer-and-watching-TV-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Why do you need a fancy dinner to prove to each other that you are in love? Well, going out from time to time and treating yourselves is completely fine, unless it&#8217;s the only way you show each other that you are in love.<\/p>\n<p>The goal here, in particular, is that you are so happy with each other that it doesn&#8217;t matter where you are or what you do.<\/p>\n<p>Rimanere in camera a guardare film tutta la notte vi fa risparmiare denaro e vi fa apprezzare il tempo che passate insieme.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">L'emozione di vedersi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95153\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che si abbraccia all&#039;esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/happy-couple-hugging-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even after years of dating, you still get excited to see each other. What? You&#8217;ve been separated for an hour?<\/p>\n<p>Allora \u00e8 meglio che tu corra urlando verso di lui e ti butti tra le sue braccia come se vi foste visti l'ultima volta un mese fa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95151 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 obiettivi relazionali da raggiungere se volete essere veramente felici\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s a goal like every other in your life. You see it as something you need to achieve in order to be truly happy. When you start a new relationship, you have a picture in your mind about how it should look like in order for it to be the right relationship for you. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":95150,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11633","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/10-Relationship-Goals-You-Need-To-Achieve-If-You-Want-To-Be-Truly-Happy.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11633","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11633"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11633\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}