{"id":116691,"date":"2020-12-03T14:30:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-03T14:30:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116691"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:49:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:49:45","slug":"mi-rifiuto-di-abbassare-la-cresta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-rifiuto-di-abbassare-la-cresta\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 mi rifiuto di abbassarmi per qualsiasi uomo"},"content":{"rendered":"

How many times have you been in a situation where a man ended up running away from you for being \u201ctroppo<\/a>\u201d?<\/p>\n

Maybe he couldn\u2019t handle the fact that you earned more money or had a higher self-confidence. Or was it because you were taller, louder, or more dominant in another way?<\/p>\n

Did he accuse you of being too bossy or assertive? Or was it your fierce and independent side? Was it the fact that you didn\u2019t actually need him?<\/p>\n

Il punto \u00e8 che era intimidito da lei.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been down that road more than once. And if you\u2019re an alpha female, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, non si tratta di un mito o di una scusa vuota che ci raccontiamo quando veniamo respinti. Gli uomini temono davvero le donne forti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non tutti lo fanno, ma ci sono uomini che si sentono minacciati da una donna potente. Che ci piaccia o no, ci sono molti cavernicoli l\u00e0 fuori.<\/p>\n

You know the type, right? The one who thinks it\u2019s his job to protect his woman and provide for her.<\/p>\n

Of course, in return, she has to follow his lead. After all, he is a man, so he must know what\u2019s best for her.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Look, no guy will tell you this outright, but if you dig a little deeper and pay attention, you\u2019ll notice that they\u2019re all around us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t only happen in romance: sooner or later, you\u2019ll face this power struggle with your male friends, coworkers, and practically anywhere you show up.<\/p>\n

So, I bet you can\u2019t help but wonder if you should dial yourself down a little. In fact, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already done it before to make a man happier.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Forse avete smesso di indossare i tacchi alti o avete abbassato il tono della voce quando eravate con lui. Forse siete stati falsamente d'accordo con la sua opinione solo per fargli piacere.<\/p>\n

Poteva essere la cosa pi\u00f9 stupida di sempre: gli avete chiesto di riparare la vostra gomma a terra, anche se sapevate farlo da soli, solo per farlo sentire pi\u00f9 uomo.<\/p>\n

Or you let him get his way, even though you knew he wasn\u2019t right, just so he could have the impression that he was the dominant one.<\/p>\n

Gli esempi sono infiniti, ma so che tutti noi donne forti<\/a> sono colpevoli di questi reati.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not here to judge because I used to do the same. It wasn\u2019t anything big at first, but later on, it hit me: I was dialing myself down for a man \u2013 that\u2019s what I was doing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cos\u00ec ho smesso. Ho smesso di nascondere il mio senso dell'umorismo solo perch\u00e9 lui potesse essere pi\u00f9 divertente, ho smesso di fingere di essere stupida solo perch\u00e9 lui potesse sentirsi pi\u00f9 intelligente e ho smesso di fingere di essere indifesa solo perch\u00e9 lui potesse sentirsi in grado di proteggermi.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

In poche parole, Ho smesso di fingere di essere debole solo per far sentire forte un uomo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non sono una donna impotente che ha bisogno di qualcuno che la guidi nella vita. Non sono incompetente e non sono fragile.<\/p>\n

Sono un donna alfa<\/a>. I am strong, and I am too much. And if a man can\u2019t handle my true personality \u2013 well, that\u2019s his problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vedete, ho lavorato molto duramente per diventare la donna che sono oggi. Ho investito molto tempo, energia e sforzi per diventare me stessa.<\/p>\n

Nessuno mi ha regalato la mia indipendenza finanziaria ed emotiva. Ho lottato per diventare autosufficiente, salda e stabile.<\/p>\n

Quindi, what does the world exactly expect from me now? To annul everything I worked so hard to achieve just so some immature boy wouldn\u2019t be intimidated?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s not going to happen, even if my life depended on it. Because if I did that, se mi attenuassi, sarebbe la mia fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Questo equivarrebbe al mio suicidio spirituale<\/strong> \u2013 killing off everything I ever believed in and stood up for. And I know for sure that no man is worth that much of a sacrifice.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How many times have you been in a situation where a man ended up running away from you for being \u201ctoo much\u201d? Maybe he couldn\u2019t handle the fact that you earned more money or had a higher self-confidence. Or was it because you were taller, louder, or more dominant in another way? Did he accuse…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116711,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/This-Is-Why-I-Refuse-To-Dial-Myself-Down-For-Any-Man.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116691"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116691\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}