{"id":116967,"date":"2020-12-04T14:10:33","date_gmt":"2020-12-04T14:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116967"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:48:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:48:41","slug":"dimostrate-loro-che-non-potete-essere-manipolati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dimostrate-loro-che-non-potete-essere-manipolati\/","title":{"rendered":"Le persone ti danno del pazzo quando dimostri loro che non puoi essere manipolato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Avete finalmente preso posizione per la prima volta nella vostra vita e siete stati immediatamente dichiarati pazzi e folli?<\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ve put up with so many bad things. You&#8217;ve tolerated way too much from other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Y<\/em><em>ou&#8217;ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it was coming from people you loved and cared for.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now, you&#8217;ve decided to put a stop to all of that and finally choose yourself and your well-being for once in your life. I have to congratulate you; it\u2019s a very difficult task because you really must be very strong to confront cruel, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/120-citazioni-di-persone-tossiche\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">persone tossiche<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Prendere posizione allontaner\u00e0 le persone tossiche<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116970\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa e giovane seduta con capelli biondi e lisci e la testa appoggiata su entrambe le mani in un&#039;angolazione bassa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-and-young-lady-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Improvvisamente, tutte quelle persone vi hanno voltato le spalle. La vostra decisione di farvi valere ha allontanato molte persone dalla vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 un dato di fatto, ma sapete cosa? <em>It&#8217;s the best thing that could ever happen to you. Those people were bad for you anyway, and they never even deserved to be a part of your life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Honestly, people tend to be like that sometimes. They&#8217;ll forget about you, leave, or even call you insane when they realize that they can&#8217;t use you, and when you show them you won\u2019t allow them to treat you the way they did before.<\/p>\n<p>I know it can be painful to hear them talk like that about you. You might even start reconsidering your behavior and whether you were right or not. However, you must understand that&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s not you. It\u2019s them<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking-.jpg\" alt=\"Donna pensierosa che cammina in una strada stretta con le mani nella tasca del cappotto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-walking--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re never the problem; the people who mistreated you are. They want to manipulate and use you for their benefit.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever allow them to make you doubt yourself. You can\u2019t put up with things you don&#8217;t deserve because you clearly know the difference between what you deserve and what you&#8217;re getting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dire NO significa conoscere i propri limiti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116974\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging.jpg\" alt=\"una giovane donna che si adagia sul divano con la testa inclinata verso il fianco e profondamente pensierosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-lounging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t feel guilty for standing up for yourself. Don&#8217;t feel bad for setting <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/120-citazioni-di-persone-tossiche\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">confini<\/a> in your life and distancing yourself from certain people because it&#8217;ll save you from being hurt.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll definitely keep you from getting your heart broken.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s good to know your limits. <em>Tracciate una linea nella sabbia quando certe cose nella vostra vita sono inaccettabili e rispettate voi stessi abbastanza da non permettere agli altri di oltrepassarla.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s important to know when enough is enough and when it&#8217;s time to let go of people and move on.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ricordate che avere un carattere forte \u00e8 il vostro superpotere.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116975\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che pensa di bere un caff\u00e8 seduta sul davanzale della finestra con un computer portatile in grembo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-thinking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you\u2019re asking why it&#8217;s a superpower. The answer is straightforward; it can make your life much easier and happier.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Having a strong character means you&#8217;re able to control your mind and your heart, your thoughts, and your emotions. It means you&#8217;re confident. It means you have unshakable faith in yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You won&#8217;t allow others to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/citazioni-sulla-manipolazione-lelenco-definitivo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">manipolare<\/a> or play games with you because you know you&#8217;re so much better and smarter than that. That&#8217;s not crazy; <em>that\u2019s the greatest love of all \u2014 SELF-LOVE.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dare del pazzo \u00e8 solo un altro modo per manipolarvi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116976\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather.jpg\" alt=\"donna con giacca di pelle nera in piedi vicino a un edificio con le braccia incrociate\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-in-black-leather-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They want to make you think that you&#8217;re overreacting. They want to make you question your self-worth. They want to humiliate you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just one more trick they use to manipulate you and gain control over your life. BUT, they won&#8217;t succeed, and do you know why?<\/p>\n<p><em>Because you won&#8217;t fall for their cheap attempts at manipulation ever again.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">They\u2019re blame-shifting and pretending to be the victim<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116977\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna elegante e pensierosa che riposa su un marciapiede vicino a un canale in una citt\u00e0 autunnale\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/stylish-pensive-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re calling you crazy because they want to present themselves as the real victim in this story. Believe me. You\u2019ll constantly go round in circles.<\/p>\n<p>They won&#8217;t ever apologize to you, and they&#8217;ll try to make you look insane, hoping they&#8217;ll succeed in their intention to manipulate you once again.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll happen again and again until you decide to break that circle once and for all and cut them out of your life forever. It won&#8217;t make you a victim either; it\u2019ll make you a strong and courageous winner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t allow them to win<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-116978\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white.jpg\" alt=\"donna asiatica in top bianco che tiene un occhiale da sole mentre cammina all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/asian-woman-in-white-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Look at this as a fight. It&#8217;s a battle between good and evil, between you and those <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-cose-che-le-persone-tossiche-distruggono\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">persone tossiche<\/a>. They&#8217;ll use many different weapons to try to intimidate you or make you doubt yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t allow them to win the fight. Hold on and be strong. Good will always triumph over evil, trust me.<\/p>\n<p>Believe in yourself because that&#8217;s what hurts them the most. Don&#8217;t let them change you. It&#8217;s better to be called crazy than to be someone&#8217;s fool.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you finally stood up for yourself for the first time in your life and immediately been declared insane and crazy? You&#8217;ve put up with so many bad things. You&#8217;ve tolerated way too much from other people. You&#8217;ve been disrespected, manipulated, and mistreated so many times, and you kept quiet about it just because it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":116979,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/People-Call-You-Crazy-When-You-Show-Them-You-Cant-Be-Manipulated-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116967"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116967\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/116979"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}