{"id":116982,"date":"2020-12-07T20:15:47","date_gmt":"2020-12-07T20:15:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=116982"},"modified":"2022-05-24T07:51:07","modified_gmt":"2022-05-24T07:51:07","slug":"lamore-dopo-il-crepacuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-dopo-il-crepacuore\/","title":{"rendered":"15 consigli che cambiano la vita per trovare l'amore dopo un cuore infranto"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you’re grieving over a shattering break-up, all you want is for this seemingly endless dolore emotivo<\/a> di andarsene.<\/p>\n

It’s not that finding love after crepacuore<\/a> only looks like mission impossible \u2013 it is also the last thing on your mind right now.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re convinced that you could never love anyone again and that you’re done with romance for good. You question l'esistenza dell'amore<\/a>. Your painful experience turned you into a bitter and resentful person \u2013 something you’ve never been before. <\/p>\n

Tuttavia, prima o poi, ci si rende conto che questa non \u00e8 la strada da seguire. Si capisce che ritrovare l'amore dopo il crepacuore<\/a> (o dopo uno dei I tre amori della vita<\/a>) \u00e8 l'unica cosa che vi manca e che dovete veramente andare avanti<\/a> con la tua vita.<\/p>\n

But now, after all this time, you don’t know how. Where do you start? How do you get rid of your fears? How do you open your heart to someone new?<\/p>\n

It’s normal to ask all of these questions because finding love after heartbreak is scary and tough. However, it is even more rewarding.<\/p>\n

Prepararsi all'amore dopo il dolore<\/h2>\n

You can’t start a new relationship without settling accounts with your past. Well, technically, you can, but it wouldn’t be fair or right.<\/p>\n

Per questo motivo dovete prima guarire il vostro cuore spezzato e prepararvi al nuovo amore che verr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Tagliare i ponti con il passato<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Your primary goal here is to move on, right? Well, you can\u2019t expect that to happen if you stay trapped in the same place.<\/p>\n

I hate to break your bubble, but your relationship is over. You and your ex aren\u2019t getting back together, and it\u2019s time to accept this.<\/p>\n

Prima lo afferrerete, prima riuscirete a trovare una relazione sana e il vero amore dopo la rottura del cuore.<\/p>\n

Pertanto, la prima cosa da fare \u00e8 tagliare tutti i legami con il passato. Credetemi: questo \u00e8 l'unico modo per lasciarsi alle spalle il cuore spezzato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not advising that you erase your ex and your entire relationship from your memory. This would be impossible to do.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t have to keep reminding yourself of them either. Don\u2019t turn your life into a sanctuary dedicated to your past romance.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still in touch with your heartbreaker \u2013 go nessun contatto<\/a> in questo istante. Smettetela di illudervi di poter rimanere amici della persona che vi ha fatto cos\u00ec male.<\/p>\n

Sbarazzatevi di tutto ci\u00f2 che vi ricorda loro. Se volete conservare qualche piccolo souvenir, nascondetelo e toglietelo dalla vista.<\/p>\n

No more stalking their social media profiles, no more asking your mutual friends about them, and no more detective work about their new significant other. Don\u2019t live in hope that one day they\u2019ll come knocking on your door.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care if you got the closure you wanted, if some things were left unsaid, or if you\u2019re still looking for answers.<\/p>\n

I know that cutting ties with the past hurts, but you have to come to terms with the fact that your relationship is history, and it\u2019s time for you to pack it away.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Permettete a voi stessi di elaborare il lutto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I know what you expect me to say after this pep talk: pretend that your heartbreak never happened. Well, that\u2019s actually the worst thing you can do at this point.<\/p>\n

A healthy healing process includes acceptance. It\u2019s all about looking your pain in the eyes and defeating it instead of running for your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, sarebbe pi\u00f9 facile se poteste seppellire il vostro trauma nel profondo di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Sweeping things under the carpet and moving on with your life as if you\u2019d never been through this hell sounds tempting, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Well, this way, things would be less complicated for you temporarily. You wouldn\u2019t have to go through the different stages of grief, and you could buttarsi in una nuova relazione<\/a> con la prima persona che si presenta.<\/p>\n

But what would happen in the long run? That\u2019s right: your suppressed emotions would find their way back into your life.<\/p>\n

They would reappear and haunt you when you least expect them. So, let\u2019s not allow this to happen, and let\u2019s process them the healthy way.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I advise you to allow yourself to grieve.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t only mourn the loss of your ex. Grieve the death of your hopes and dreams, the breakage of your relationship, and the loss of the person you once were.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run away from your pain because that\u2019s what cowards do.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t feel weak for going through this stage, and instead, see it as a sign of your strength. Trust me: not many have the ability to cope with their darkest emotions and thoughts.<\/p>\n

Liberate le vostre emozioni<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Quando il vostro cuore si \u00e8 spezzato, ha lasciato dietro di s\u00e9 un mucchio di ferite aperte. Si \u00e8 lacerato dentro di te ed \u00e8 andato in mille pezzi.<\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t allow each one of these pieces to remain stuck inside of you. You don\u2019t have to just let go of your ex: you also need to let go of all the sadness that\u2019s been eating you alive.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The way to do this is by not keeping your emotions bottled up \u2013 get them out of your system one way or another.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, if you feel like crying, that\u2019s what you should do. If you need some time off from your busy life and want to spend a couple of days eating ice cream in front of the TV, who am I to judge you?<\/p>\n

However, the best way of releasing your emotions is, without a doubt, writing. Don\u2019t worry. You don\u2019t have to possess a remarkable talent for it.<\/p>\n

Un foglio di carta pu\u00f2 sopportare molto pi\u00f9 di quanto si possa pensare. Si prender\u00e0 tutto il vostro dolore sulle spalle e servir\u00e0 al suo scopo.<\/p>\n

Iniziate a scrivere un diario di rilascio e annotate ogni giorno i vostri progressi.<\/strong> Ricordate che nessuno lo legger\u00e0, quindi potete essere onesti al 100%.<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 vergogna nell'esprimere i propri sentimenti scrivendone. Non \u00e8 altro che un meccanismo di coping che vi far\u00e0 stare meglio.<\/p>\n

Affidatevi al vostro sistema di supporto<\/h2>\n

\"un'amica<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a self-sufficient, independent individual who went through the worst possible things alone. You don\u2019t need anyone patting you on the back and telling you that everything will be okay.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, l'ultima cosa che volete \u00e8 esporre le vostre vulnerabilit\u00e0 ai vostri cari. Dopo tutto, cosa possono fare esattamente?<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t take any of your pain away. They\u2019ll only start worrying about you, and you\u2019ll unintentionally drag them into your problems.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, \u00e8 qui che vi sbagliate. As much as you think you don\u2019t need anyone, a strong support system will help you out a lot.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Who doesn\u2019t need a amico vero<\/a> che possono chiamare nel cuore della notte? Io lo so.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry: none of these people will think of you as pathetic. Going through something like this is perfectly normal, and I promise you that they\u2019ll understand your pain.<\/p>\n

Not only that: these people will hold your hand through all of your hardships. They will show you that you\u2019re not alone, and they will give you hope in a better tomorrow.<\/p>\n

Credetemi: avere un amico che vi ascolta senza dire una sola parola \u00e8 sempre meglio che piangere in silenzio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But what about those who don\u2019t have close friends they can count on? And those who can\u2019t find comfort in anyone? Are they sentenced to suffer in silence?<\/p>\n

Ovviamente no. There is always the option of joining an actual grief support group full of people who have gone through the same things you\u2019re going through.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, these groups are not only reserved for those grieving their loved one\u2019s deaths. Please, feel free to look them up near you and join them \u2013 these people will know how to help you.<\/p>\n

Ricordate il vostro valore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The biggest problem about your heartbreak isn\u2019t this overwhelming pain that\u2019s been consuming you. I know what you must be thinking: \u201cThere is something worse?\u201d Well, sadly, there is.<\/p>\n

Vede, il dolore sembra solo insopportabile. Ma entrambi sappiamo che, alla fine, passer\u00e0.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, l'impatto che tutto questo ha avuto sul vostro fiducia di base<\/a> e l'immagine di s\u00e9 potrebbero essere permanenti.<\/strong> E questo \u00e8 un aspetto su cui dovete iniziare a lavorare immediatamente.<\/p>\n

Looking for love after heartbreak is utterly pointless if you see yourself as unlovable, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is precisely what you\u2019ve been doing all along. Don\u2019t lie to me: I know the truth. It\u2019s like I\u2019m seeing you right now.<\/p>\n

There you are, doubting your worth and worrying that no man or woman would ever want you \u2013 that you\u2019re broken beyond repair.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Not only that: you also wonder why you weren\u2019t enough for your ex. Newsflash: your value has nothing to do with your relationship status.<\/p>\n

You have a lot to offer, despite all that has happened. You still carry a loving heart inside of your chest \u2013 you just can\u2019t feel it at the moment.<\/p>\n

Lasciare che il tempo faccia la sua magia<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be dead honest with you: your broken heart won\u2019t heal in a matter of days. Truth be told, sometimes, this process lasts for months.<\/p>\n

Ma alla fine, time will do its magic. And all you need to do is let it \u2013 you need to give time enough time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This isn\u2019t a request for you to sit down patiently and wait for a miracle to happen. Of course, your life should flow on its course.<\/p>\n

However, the trick is that nobody can tell you how much time will pass before you’re ready for new love because we’re all different.<\/p>\n

But what I can promise you is that it will happen. Things will get easier with every day that goes by. One morning, you\u2019ll wake up and see that this is it: you\u2019re ready, and there are no more past traumas holding you back.<\/p>\n

Migliorare se stessi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The final step in the process of preparing yourself for love again has nothing to do with your ex or with the person you\u2019re about to meet. Instead, it\u2019s all about the most important person in your life: you.<\/p>\n

To attract a good quality woman or man, you need to be the best version of yourself. I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re not lovable just the way you are, but you should definitely engage in some cura di s\u00e9<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, attracting romance shouldn\u2019t be your final goal here. In fact, if you work on yourself while obsessing about how to find love, you\u2019re unlikely to succeed.<\/p>\n

You have to better yourself to be satisfied with the person you\u2019re becoming. Dovete migliorare la vostra vita per essere felici da soli, con o senza una persona importante.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is your chance to rock the single life: a chance to enjoy every breath you take \u2013 a chance to find your true purpose and the chance to realize the importance of self-love.<\/p>\n

Trust me on this: happiness attracts happiness, and love attracts love. Therefore, when you\u2019re content with yourself, potential soulmates start appearing out of nowhere.<\/p>\n

When you love yourself the right way, you\u2019ll only draw those who deserve to be in your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s ironic, isn\u2019t it? To find romantic love, you have to stop craving it. But that\u2019s the beauty of it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tornare in pista<\/h2>\n

Everyone keeps advising you just to throw yourself back into dating. After all, how hard can it be? Well, in your situation \u2013 harder than anyone might think.<\/p>\n

Il pool di incontri<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure: if you feel like you\u2019re emotionally available, you really should go ritorno alla piscina degli appuntamenti<\/a>. Don\u2019t turn this search for love into your number one priority but don\u2019t run away from it either.<\/p>\n

Yes, you can join dating apps, you can go speed dating, and you can tell your friends that you\u2019re looking for your special someone.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, partecipare agli incontri \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 di questo. Significa riaprire gli occhi al sesso opposto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Significa rispondere con un sorriso a quel collega carino che potrebbe essere interessato a voi. Significa flirtare con quello sconosciuto attraente che cerca di mantenere il contatto visivo nella stanza.<\/p>\n

It means agreeing to go out on that blind date your best friend set up for you. Because let\u2019s face it: what do you have to lose?<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re single as a pringle. You\u2019ve thrown away all of your emotional baggage, and that makes you more than ready to mingle.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imparare dagli errori<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019re ready for a new relationship, you\u2019re also mentally and emotionally capable of analyzing your past relationship.<\/p>\n

No, you shouldn\u2019t spend all of your time reminiscing about it.<\/p>\n

Invece, voglio che tu prenda tutto quello che \u00e8 successo come una lezione<\/a>. The love you felt for your ex is gone, and you\u2019ve mourned your relationship.<\/p>\n

Questo pu\u00f2 significare solo una cosa: you\u2019ve finally acquired the ability to process things objectively. And that\u2019s what you should do: stand back and observe your past romance as if you were a bystander.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is the only way to look at things realistically \u2013 the only way to realize your mistakes and learn from them.<\/p>\n

Forse l'ultima volta avete scelto male. Oppure avete commesso la vostra parte di errori che non avete visto allora.<\/p>\n

Forse il vostro difetto fatale \u00e8 stato quello di darvi troppo senza chiedere nulla in cambio. Oppure avete passato anni a cercare di salvare una relazione fallita.<\/p>\n

Qualunque cosa fosse, ora lo sapete meglio. Questa esperienza devastante vi ha insegnato molto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, please, don\u2019t repeat your toxic relationship behavior patterns. Isn\u2019t it obvious that they aren\u2019t taking you anywhere?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for a rebound relationship<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

La trappola in cui cadono quasi tutti gli uomini e le donne dal cuore spezzato dopo una relazione dolorosa \u00e8 quella di entrare in una relazione ancora peggiore.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to end your single life at all costs, and you definitely shouldn\u2019t settle for a rebound relationship.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be with someone just because you\u2019re scared of dying alone or because you can’t seem to find a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look for your ex in other people, and most importantly: don\u2019t use them to heal your scars.<\/p>\n

Come on. You know you\u2019re better than that. You\u2019re better than breaking someone else\u2019s heart in an attempt to repair your own.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che accade se si d\u00e0 relazioni di rimbalzo<\/a> uno scatto.<\/p>\n

The other person might fall in love with you, thinking that this is the real deal while you\u2019re still preoccupied with your healing process.<\/p>\n

Per favore, siate onesti e corretti. It\u2019s way better to wait until you\u2019re fully recovered before starting something new than stringing an innocent person along.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, this toxic relationship won\u2019t bring you anything good either. It won’t teach you how to love again. Instead, it will bury you even further in misery.<\/p>\n

Saltare da una persona all'altra non \u00e8 la strada da percorrere<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Ehi, se avete voglia di frequentare un nuovo ragazzo o una nuova ragazza<\/a> every weekend, I\u2019m no Judge Judy. But please ask yourself if you\u2019re doing it because you really fall for all of these people.<\/p>\n

Sentite che questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che volete veramente? O \u00e8 il vostro modo di cercare di riempire il vuoto che la vostra brutta rottura ha lasciato dentro di voi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I bet I know the answer. And I\u2019m sure you do too.<\/p>\n

Saltare da una relazione all'altra non \u00e8 la strada per trovare l'amore dopo il crepacuore.<\/p>\n

Ora vi chiederete: “So, how am I supposed to find my soulmate if I don\u2019t meet new people?”<\/strong> Nessuno ti ha detto di non uscire con nessuno.<\/p>\n

Ma uscite con persone che vi piacciono davvero. Try building something bigger with the people you feel a genuine connection with \u2013 not with those you\u2019re just physically attracted to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siate chiari sui vostri standard<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve learned from your past mistakes, it\u2019s safe to say that you have a completely new set of rules.<\/p>\n

Ci sono alcuni fattori di rottura a cui non avete mai prestato attenzione prima, e probabilmente avete innalzato i vostri standard nel processo.<\/p>\n

Buon per voi! This doesn\u2019t make you troppo esigente<\/a> \u2013 it means that you\u2019ve grown as a person and that this heartbreak served its purpose.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quindi, per favore, siate chiari su cosa e chi volete. Prima di tutto, siate onesti con voi stessi riguardo ai vostri standard e poi siate aperti quando incontrate nuove persone.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should be too demanding or that you should only agree to date someone perfect. As much as you\u2019re into a guy or a girl, there will always be something you don\u2019t like about them.<\/p>\n

Ma la domanda \u00e8: Vi sembra che questa sia una piccola stranezza che potete tollerare? O \u00e8 un problema che non riuscireste mai a sopportare?<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, don\u2019t make compromises with yourself.<\/strong> Look for the kind of a person you know you deserve, and don\u2019t ever settle for anything less.<\/p>\n

Aggrapparsi alla fede<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Finally, never lose hope that love will come to you, sooner or later. Don\u2019t be obsessed about finding it but deep down, have faith in its arrival.<\/p>\n

Innanzitutto, perdere l'idea che si possa amare solo una volta nella vita<\/strong>. Yes, you loved your ex \u2013 otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t have had the chance to break your heart.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that doesn\u2019t mean that you won\u2019t learn to love again with the same intensity or even more.<\/p>\n

Maybe your ex was your soulmate at that given moment, but that doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re meant to be yours forever.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t give up on love, despite all of your disappointments.<\/p>\n

Anche se vi ha fatto male, l'amore \u00e8 bello nella sua essenza e sarebbe un peccato per voi perderlo solo perch\u00e9 avete avuto un'esperienza dolorosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dos And Don’ts Of Your New Relationship<\/h2>\n

You’ve done everything by the book, and now you’re here: closer to your final goal than ever. You’ve found someone you see yourself falling in love with.<\/p>\n

But your job isn’t done here. There are still some steps to take unless you want to ruin this relationship before it even starts.<\/p>\n

Non tutti sono come il vostro ex<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: you\u2019ll get nowhere if you compare everyone to your ex.<\/p>\n

I know that getting over this person doesn’t mean that you got over the fear of going through the same pain all over again.<\/p>\n

Pensate a voi stessi: \u201cWhat if I am a magnet for heartbreak?\u201d \u201cWhat if the next one leaves me devastated, the same way my ex did?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry: this is perfectly normal, and everyone in your situation has the exact same thoughts. But you have to learn how to chase them away.<\/p>\n

Se lasciate che la negativit\u00e0 offuschi la vostra visione, il vostro un'eccessiva riflessione potrebbe rovinare la vostra potenziale relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Look, I won\u2019t lie to you: nobody can guarantee that your new boyfriend or girlfriend won\u2019t break your heart. However, this time you won\u2019t let them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not the person you once were. Now, you have what it takes to recognize the red flags in time, so you won\u2019t stick with someone who is likely to do you harm.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t predict the future. Sometimes you have to take risks and follow your heart\u2019s lead.<\/p>\n

If things fail once again, at least you\u2019ll know you tried. You\u2019ll be proud of your bravery to take a chance and jump into the unknown, despite your painful past.<\/p>\n

Mettete il massimo impegno<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Quando si trova l'amore dopo un colpo di fulmine, don\u2019t hold yourself back<\/strong>. Instead, put your maximum effort in, as if you\u2019re in love for the first time ever.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your past ruin your future, and don\u2019t make your new partner pay for your ex\u2019s mistakes.<\/strong> Godetevi ogni momento della vostra nuova storia d'amore, abbandonatevi all'amore e vedrete dove vi porter\u00e0 la magia!<\/p>\n

Trovare l'amore dopo il dolore<\/em> libro<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Trovare l'amore dopo il dolore<\/em> \u00e8 un bestseller scritto da Stephan Labossiere, un famoso esperto di relazioni.<\/p>\n

In his book, Stephan speaks to anyone who’s been through a bad breakup they can’t seem to recover from and anyone who is convinced they’ll never find love again.<\/p>\n

Nel primo volume di una serie in due parti che potete acquistare su Amazon e su altre piattaforme, vi insegna a liberarvi dalle ferite del passato e ad aprirvi all'amore futuro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This great read won’t make all of your problems go away, nor will it magically heal you. However, it can serve as a guide through your journey of finding your soulmate and believing in love again.<\/p>\n

Per concludere:<\/h2>\n

Ora vedete che trovare amore vero<\/a> dopo il crepacuore \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 che buttarsi in una nuova relazione. It’s a real enterprise that includes plenty of self-work, introspection, and personal growth.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There will be moments when you’ll want to give up on this journey, moments when you’ll lose faith, and when despair will get the best of you.<\/p>\n

Please, don’t let those moments of weakness defeat you. Trust me: once you reach your goal, you’ll see that it was all worth it.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you’re grieving over a shattering break-up, all you want is for this seemingly endless emotional pain to go away. It’s not that finding love after heartbreak only looks like mission impossible \u2013 it is also the last thing on your mind right now. You\u2019re convinced that you could never love anyone again and that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":117167,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-116982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/15-Life-Changing-Tips-For-Finding-Love-After-Heartbreak-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116982"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116982\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/117167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}