{"id":11708,"date":"2020-07-10T10:26:01","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T10:26:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11708"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:53:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:53:51","slug":"un-giorno-si-rendera-conto-che-la-lotta-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-giorno-si-rendera-conto-che-la-lotta-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Un giorno capirai che valevo la pena di lottare (ma sar\u00e0 troppo tardi)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Un giorno ti accorgerai che ti manco<\/b>. Ti renderai conto che ti manca il modo in cui ti facevo sentire. Ti mancheranno i rituali mattutini con me.<\/p>\n<p>Ti mancher\u00e0 ballare per casa ogni volta che Elvis suona. Ti mancheranno le gite del fine settimana che abbiamo fatto, i piaceri colpevoli a tarda notte e il mangiare pasta di biscotti dal mio corpo.<\/p>\n<p>Ti mancher\u00e0 tutto di me, ma sar\u00e0 troppo tardi.<\/p>\n<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/un-giorno-ti-accorgerai-che-uno-e-sempre\/\">Un giorno vi renderete conto<\/a> che nessuno vi dar\u00e0 la priorit\u00e0 come ho fatto io.<\/b> Vi renderete conto che nessuno sar\u00e0 disposto a rinunciare a parti di s\u00e9 per farvi felici.<\/p>\n<p>No one will support you the way I did, no one will be there when you call them because you\u2019re not there for them.<\/p>\n<p>Si riceve ci\u00f2 che si d\u00e0 e tu, tesoro, non hai dato nulla. Nessuno sar\u00e0 cos\u00ec pazzo da darsi a te, per ottenere solo dolore.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un giorno vedrai finalmente il mio valore.<\/b> Finalmente mi vedrai come mi vedo io. Vedrai che donna straordinaria hai lasciato andare a causa della tua stupidit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95309\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda un bicchiere di birra\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/man-looking-at-glass-of-beer-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Capirete perch\u00e9 lasciarvi \u00e8 stata la cosa migliore che abbia mai fatto per me stesso.<\/p>\n<p>You will see that it was never about me being needy\u2014it was about you being selfish. I never asked for all of your time.<\/p>\n<p>Non ti ho mai chiesto di rinunciare a parti di te per me. Non ti ho mai chiesto di darmi pi\u00f9 di quanto puoi.<\/p>\n<p>All I ever wanted was to feel loved and to feel like you\u2019re happy to make me your choice. But I never did and I never was.<\/p>\n<p><b>One day you will finally see that I\u2019m not a scared little girl anymore.<\/b> You will see that I never had to settle for your love\u2014I did it because I wanted to.<\/p>\n<p>Non ho mai dovuto sopportare il tuo comportamento di merda, ma l'ho fatto perch\u00e9 ti amavo. Ti volevo, tutto di te.<\/p>\n<p>Volevo i tuoi giorni lunatici, il tuo passato e il tuo futuro. Volevo perdermi tra le tue braccia e annegare nel tuo amore.<\/p>\n<p>I never needed any of it, and that\u2019s what\u2019s killing you. I never needed you to know that I\u2019m amazing. But you needed me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95310\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/photo-of-man-through-wet-window-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"foto di un uomo attraverso la finestra bagnata di un caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/photo-of-man-through-wet-window-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/photo-of-man-through-wet-window-in-cafe-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/photo-of-man-through-wet-window-in-cafe-768x515.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Un giorno ti renderai conto che nessuno ti ha amato come ho fatto io. <\/b>Un giorno ti renderai conto che hai barattato il mio amore per un assaggio di libert\u00e0. Hai barattato il mio amore con avventure di una notte e incontri.<\/p>\n<p>Hai scambiato la realt\u00e0 per relazioni superficiali con ragazze a caso in bar a caso.<\/p>\n<p>And someday, you will want me back. You will want to feel loved again, but I won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n<p>When I gave you everything, you gave up on me. Now it\u2019s my turn to give up on you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Un giorno capirai che valeva la pena lottare.<\/b> Ti renderai conto che una notte con me \u00e8 valsa migliaia di altre. Capirai che valeva la pena lottare per il mio amore.<\/p>\n<p>Che valeva la pena impegnarsi per me, ma sar\u00e0 troppo tardi. Nel momento in cui sei uscito dalla mia vita, era troppo tardi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95311\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-looks-down-on-street.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo triste guarda la strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-looks-down-on-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-looks-down-on-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/sad-man-looks-down-on-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nel momento in cui hai deciso di amare te stesso pi\u00f9 di noi, \u00e8 stato troppo tardi.<\/p>\n<p>Nel momento in cui mi hai lasciato per altre donne, era troppo tardi. Nel momento in cui hai preferito te stesso a me, era troppo tardi.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9, vedete, <b>I\u2019m finally done giving all of me to gain nothing in return.<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/im-done-last-resort\/\"> I\u2019m done being anyone\u2019s last resort<\/a> because I know that I deserve to be the priority. I deserve to be someone\u2019s only choice, not an option.<\/p>\n<p>Merito di sentirmi l'unica donna al mondo. Merito di ricevere quel tipo di amore che una volta ti ho dato.<\/p>\n<p><b>E mi merito qualcuno che veda il fuoco nei miei occhi e voglia giocare con esso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Someone who will look at me and wonder how could I ever think that I\u2019m not enough.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95312 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Un giorno capirai che valevo la pena di lottare (ma sar\u00e0 troppo tardi)\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One day you will realize that you miss me. You will realize that you miss the way I used to make you feel. You will miss morning rituals with me. You will miss dancing around the house whenever Elvis hits. You will miss weekend trips we had, late night guilty pleasures and eating cookie dough&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95308,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11708","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/One-Day-You-Will-Realize-That-I-Was-Worth-The-Fight-But-It-Will-Be-Too-Late.jpg",800,544,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11708","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11708"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11708\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11708"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11708"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11708"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}