{"id":11764,"date":"2018-01-10T13:01:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-10T13:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11764"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:18:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:18:43","slug":"storia-vera-di-una-ragazza-che-si-innamora-facilmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/storia-vera-di-una-ragazza-che-si-innamora-facilmente\/","title":{"rendered":"La vera storia della ragazza che si innamora facilmente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Falling in love is like an instinct to her, something she was born with. It\u2019s not something she chooses, it\u2019s something that comes naturally to her, like with breathing air. She lets emotions surround her and she breathes in love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She is the one who falls too strong, too hard and too fast. She feels lucky to be alive after all those heartbreaks she has been through. She doesn\u2019t know where she gets her strength from but she never gives up on the idea of true love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It is a difficult thing, giving your heart so easily. It\u2019s not something she wants, it\u2019s something she simply does. It gives people more chance to destroy her, to take advantage of that pure soul she possesses. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-he-has-really-bad-intentions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Non ha cattive intenzioni<\/a>, so she can\u2019t possibly grasp that other people might have them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Le persone la guardano spesso con occhi giudicanti, definendola disperata per l'amore, chiamandola fuori e dicendole che sta forzando le cose e che dovrebbe aspettare qualcosa di vero, che non tutti gli amori sono l'amore della sua vita.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Quello che non capiscono \u00e8 che lei lo sa. Sa che non tutti gli uomini che attirano la sua attenzione sono quelli giusti. Spera che lo siano quelli che le arrivano davvero al cuore.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So she gives them a chance. She crosses her fingers and hopes that this one is the real deal. That she no longer needs to be a part of that emotional roller-coaster she\u2019s been through her entire love life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Sa tutto e rischia il suo cuore ancora e ancora per amore. Ha paura di farsi spezzare il cuore, ma ci\u00f2 che la spaventa ancora di pi\u00f9 \u00e8 non dare a quel cuore alcuna possibilit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ha paura di perdere l'amore. Ha paura di rinunciare troppo presto a qualcosa che potrebbe essere reale. Perci\u00f2 ci prova e d\u00e0 il meglio di s\u00e9. Mette la felicit\u00e0 della persona amata prima della propria. Gli fa capire quanto sia importante e straordinario.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">L'aspetto negativo \u00e8 che, amandolo, dimentica la propria importanza. Dimentica<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/debbie-gisonni\/10-ways-to-show-people-they-matter-and-why-its-im_b_6172792.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> quanto sia preziosa<\/a>. She forgets that she has a life that doesn\u2019t involve him. She forgets her future plans and goals. She postpones her dreams so he can chase his.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>That\u2019s where she fails every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She doesn\u2019t realize that she is in love \u2018with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/segni-di-amore-per-lui\/\">essere innamorati<\/a>\u2019. She is hooked on that feeling. It consumes her and it controls her. So she always gives more emphasis to the feeling than to the person.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She doesn\u2019t pay attention to getting the love back. She doesn\u2019t see that her efforts and investments aren\u2019t reciprocated. She doesn\u2019t see that she is giving her best for somebody who is failing her in every aspect. Someone who wouldn\u2019t lift a finger for her.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows it\u2019s time to change.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows that she has to stop repeating the pattern. That she has to stop choosing to give her heart to the wrong man. She has to stop loving those who don\u2019t deserve her so easily.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">She knows that she needs to take a good look at the person she is falling in love with. She knows that expecting all that she is giving in return is not selfish\u2014it\u2019s normal and necessary.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sa che deve dare pi\u00f9 amore a se stessa. Deve smettere di trascurarsi e di rimandare i suoi sogni. Deve trovare un modo per vivere la vita che merita.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Deve mettere se stessa al primo posto, in modo che quel sentimento mal riposto possa trovare la strada giusta.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sa tutto in teoria, ma quando si arriva al dunque,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/science-choice\/201602\/why-old-habits-die-hard\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> it\u2019s really hard giving up the old habits<\/a>. It\u2019s hard when that feeling of being in love is like an addiction to her and she is aware that she needs to change, that she needs rehab.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Somehow, she also knows she will make it. She knows because she realized that she should fall in love with herself first, as easy as she has fallen for those who weren\u2019t worthy of her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ci\u00f2 di cui ha ancora pi\u00f9 bisogno \u00e8 la pazienza. Pazienza per imparare ad amarsi e a rifarsi una versione migliore. La versione che sa di avere, ma che in qualche modo le \u00e8 sfuggita. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>La pazienza di capire che vuole stare per sempre con qualcuno. Pazienza nell'aspettarlo. Pazienza perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2 affrettare tutto, ma non potr\u00e0 mai affrettare l'eternit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Falling in love is like an instinct to her, something she was born with. It\u2019s not something she chooses, it\u2019s something that comes naturally to her, like with breathing air. She lets emotions surround her and she breathes in love. She is the one who falls too strong, too hard and too fast. 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