{"id":11770,"date":"2018-01-10T13:17:44","date_gmt":"2018-01-10T13:17:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11770"},"modified":"2022-02-05T16:46:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-05T16:46:05","slug":"non-mendichera-scegliera-meritera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-mendichera-scegliera-meritera\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ti pregher\u00f2 di scegliere me, mi merito di pi\u00f9 di questo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Amore mio, quanta strada abbiamo fatto.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Da quella dolce coppia che si era innamorata e voleva trascorrere ogni singolo momento insieme a questa. <strong>From that caring couple who was everyone\u2019s relationship goals, to this example everyone uses for toxic love.<\/strong> How far we\u2019ve come. But<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-tempo-di-andare-avanti\/\"> it\u2019s time I move on<\/a> alone; it\u2019s time for me to go even further. But without you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Non ti pregher\u00f2 di essermi fedele.<\/strong> Qualcosa che eri cos\u00ec felice di fare, qualcosa che eri onorato di fare. Eri cos\u00ec felice di avermi al tuo fianco che non guardavi mai le altre donne. Mi sentivo l'essere umano pi\u00f9 straordinario che sia mai esistito perch\u00e9 tu mi facevi sentire cos\u00ec. Ma onestamente? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aconsciousrethink.com\/6343\/falling-love-5-signs-feelings-fading\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Quella sensazione \u00e8 svanita molto tempo fa.<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Non vi pregher\u00f2 di rispettarmi.<\/strong> I used to believe that respect is natural to have in a relationship. I respected you, so I assumed you will respect me back. And for a while, you did. You respected my choices, my career and everything I was. You respected when I said, \u2018No\u2019 and when I said, \u2018I\u2019m scared\u2019. When was the last time you showed me any of it? When was the last time you respected my decision? Expect for this one when I decided to leave. On this one, you had no choice.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Non ti pregher\u00f2 di restare al mio fianco nei momenti difficili.<\/strong> You refused to be here when everything\u2019s good, so I don\u2019t really have any proof you\u2019ll be here when they\u2019re bad. I needed you, you know? I needed you by my side when I almost lost my job. I needed you by my side when my book was turned down. I needed you by my side when my mom was in hospital. But you were always so busy, struggling with deadlines, that you didn\u2019t even notice my pain. You didn\u2019t even care enough to notice how I\u2019m drifting away. How my love is fading away in our empty, cold bedroom.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Non ti pregher\u00f2 di amarmi.<\/strong> Per tanto tempo ho cercato di farti capire quanto sono straordinaria, intelligente e bella. Ma tu mi hai guardato dentro. Ho provato cos\u00ec tanto <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/dr-nikki-martinez-psyd-lcpc\/10-simple-ways-to-make-yo_b_9408400.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">per farvi sentire amati<\/a>, hoping that maybe, you will give some of that love back to me. Maybe you\u2019ll finally hold me in your arms like you used to, look me in the eyes and make me feel loved right there, in that moment. With no words being said, just us, just our souls. But you never did.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Non ti pregher\u00f2 di scegliere me<\/strong> over your friends, over your job, over your fears. Because that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s holding you back. Your fear of committing to someone, your fear of settling down for only one woman for the rest of your life. You\u2019re so afraid of missing out on other things, that you never realized that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-si-perde\/\">you\u2019re losing me<\/a>. And I refuse to settle down, hoping that maybe you\u2019ll come around. I refuse to stay in a relationship where I keep thinking when will you leave. I refuse to beg you to choose me, because I already did that. I already chose myself over you, over your almost love, over your toxic behavior and over your fears. I can\u2019t fight your fears for you, I can\u2019t fight your demons for you. But I can fight mine for me. Good luck, my love. This is one last step we\u2019re doing together.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My love, how far we\u2019ve come. From that sweet couple who just fell in love and wanted to spend every single moment together to this. From that caring couple who was everyone\u2019s relationship goals, to this example everyone uses for toxic love. How far we\u2019ve come. But it\u2019s time I move on alone; it\u2019s time&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":11777,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11770","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/alexander-mils-instagram-com-alexandermils-506930.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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