{"id":11820,"date":"2020-03-10T10:27:54","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T10:27:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11820"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:30","slug":"lamore-non-merita-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-non-merita-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti amo, ma non mi meriti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Ti amo<\/b><b>Lo amo. Ma amo di pi\u00f9 me stesso.<\/b> Ti ho dato tutto quello che avevo. Ho cercato in tutti i modi di aiutarti, sperando che ti rimettessi in piedi da solo.<\/p>\n<p>I tried so hard to make you feel loved, hoping that you\u2019d see that you\u2019re worthy of it.<\/p>\n<p>But you didn&#8217;t, and honestly, I can&#8217;t take it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I bent over backwards to show you that I still love you and that I don&#8217;t want us to end, but now I see the man I loved is long gone.<\/p>\n<p>Quell'uomo in qualche modo si \u00e8 perso lungo la strada e tu ti sei trasformato in un uomo che prende soltanto, ma non d\u00e0 mai. Un uomo che mi vede come la sua roccia, ma che non \u00e8 in grado di essere la mia.<\/p>\n<p>A man who thinks everyone is out to get him, that he\u2019s the only victim. I love you , but I can\u2019t take this anymore. I can\u2019t keep on being the one who\u2019s always to blame.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t keep on being the bad guy when I\u2019m not. I love you , but I love me more.<\/p>\n<p>You hurt me and even though I miss you , I know I no longer deserve this heartbreak . I don&#8217;t want to get over you , but for my own sake, that is exactly what I need to do.<\/p>\n<p>For too long have I let men control my happiness, but now it&#8217;s time I wished you good luck and took the control back.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ti amo<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my tears.<\/b> How can I stay with you when you\u2019re the guy who caused me this heartache ?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81251\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are supposed to wipe the tears from my face. You\u2019re supposed to kiss them away. You\u2019re supposed to keep me from crying.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re the one making me cry.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one whose actions break my heart every day \u2013 every time you let me fall asleep alone, every time you let me go to bed thinking that I\u2019m not enough, every time you let me walk away without coming after me, thinking that I\u2019ll come back.<\/p>\n<p>But not anymore. You don&#8217;t deserve my affection and commitment. You don&#8217;t deserve my attention anymore.<\/p>\n<p>My feelings for you have not disappeared overnight, but my respect has. I am finally ready to admit to myself that it&#8217;s the end of our love affair.<\/p>\n<p>I wish I could say that you deserve better , but that&#8217;s not true.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve better than you and by letting you go, that\u2019s the only thing I will go after now.<\/p>\n<p>Non lascer\u00f2 che il mio cuore spezzato mi definisca e terr\u00f2 la testa alta. Potrai anche avermi spezzato il cuore, ma il mio spirito \u00e8 ancora intatto.<\/p>\n<p>Andr\u00f2 avanti e ritrover\u00f2 il mio posto felice.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ti amo<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my devotion.<\/b> I\u2019m done giving you everything and getting nothing in return.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m done giving you all of my time, all of my love, all of me, just so I would fix you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m done making an effort and watching it go unappreciated and unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia infelice in piedi nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/unhappy-couple-standing-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I finally know that it\u2019s not up to me to fix you. I\u2019m not supposed to give away parts of me to complete you.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not meant to lose myself so you can find yourself. That\u2019s toxic love and I\u2019ve had enough of it.<\/p>\n<p>I used to think that I was the one whose responsibility it was to mend your heart when you felt broken. But it&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s on you. I can only give you so much without getting broken myself. Heartache is not something to be shared.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you are damaged doesn&#8217;t mean I need to be too.<\/p>\n<p>Ed \u00e8 per questo che accetto la fine di noi due. So che il mio sforzo e la mia devozione meritano di essere ricambiati, e queste sono cose che tu non potrai mai darmi.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ti amo<\/b><b>, but you don\u2019t deserve my heart. <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/im-sorry-dont-deserve-anymore\/\"> You don\u2019t deserve my love <\/a> , and you don\u2019t deserve to share my happiness or my pain.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate it anyway. You never did.<\/p>\n<p>Mi hai dato per scontato. Hai continuato a prendere e prendere parti di me senza nemmeno controllarmi.<\/p>\n<p>Mi hai usato come un bidone della spazzatura, sfogandoti sempre con me, ma non hai mai mostrato interesse ad aiutarmi. Anch'io ero distrutta. Anch'io ero triste. Anch'io avevo bisogno di te.<\/p>\n<p>Ti \u00e8 mai importato abbastanza da vedere il dolore nei miei occhi? C'\u00e8 mai stato un momento nella nostra relazione in cui mi hai visto davvero?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81257\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto accanto al suo ragazzo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-next-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not the woman who\u2019s here only to help you, but the woman who loved you with all of her heart, the woman who was ready to spend the rest of her life with you?<\/p>\n<p>La donna che ha la sua storia, il suo passato, le sue speranze e i suoi sogni? O ero solo comoda da avere intorno?<\/p>\n<p>My mother always told me, &#8221;Either make him see your love, devotion, and sacrifice for your relationship or show him the door!&#8221; and I am finally listening to her advice.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il mio modo di dimostrarti che ero comunque troppo buono per te.<\/p>\n<p>Marilyn Monroe ha detto la cosa migliore:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i> \u201cI&#8217;m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can&#8217;t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don&#8217;t deserve me at my best.\u201d <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><b>Ti amo<\/b><b>, ma <\/b><b>you don\u2019t deserve me<\/b><b>.<\/b> Non meriti pi\u00f9 il mio corpo, la mia mente o la mia anima.<\/p>\n<p>Mi hai dato per scontata e non hai mai lottato per me. Non una volta mi hai mostrato che eri pronto a impegnarti per me, che eri pronto a impegnarti per noi.<\/p>\n<p>Not once did you make me feel loved, and I don\u2019t deserve that. I deserve more than to be half-loved. I deserve more than to just be there when you need me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81260\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che sorride insieme\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/couple-smiling-together-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Merito di qualcuno che mi voglia, che voglia passare del tempo con me, che faccia di tutto per farmi sorridere.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who will want to date me for the rest of our lives, not only because I\u2019m good for him, but because he loves me.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve to be loved, and, let\u2019s be honest, you never loved me. You saw me as the all- American girl next door, but there is so much more to me than that.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavo che mi sareste mancati voi e le nostre serate \"Netflix and chill\" pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa.<\/p>\n<p>The way you stroked my hair as I was falling asleep on your shoulder \u2013 God knows how often that happened. But those are all things I am determined to forget now.<\/p>\n<p>Deve esserci qualcun altro l\u00e0 fuori che sia in grado di darmi ci\u00f2 che merito senza dover compromettere la mia felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>I choose to believe God has better plans for me than this, and that\u2019s what is helping me push through.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti amo, ma non mi meriti\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love you, I do. But I love me more. I gave you everything I had. I tried so hard to help you, hoping that you would stand on your own two feet again. I tried so hard to make you feel loved, hoping that you\u2019d see that you\u2019re worthy of it. But you didn&#8217;t,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81261,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/I-Love-You-But-You-Dont-Deserve-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11820\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81261"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}