{"id":11887,"date":"2018-01-11T14:13:36","date_gmt":"2018-01-11T14:13:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11887"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:15:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:15:03","slug":"5-modi-per-avere-una-fidanzata-perfetta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-per-avere-una-fidanzata-perfetta\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi per essere la fidanzata pi\u00f9 perfetta che abbia mai avuto"},"content":{"rendered":"

We all want to be something special to our boyfriends. We want them never to lay their eyes on someone else. We want them never to compare us to the girls they have dated before. We want to do that extra special something because we love them and to make sure they won\u2019t leave and hurt us.<\/p>\n

There are so many misunderstandings about what it takes to be the perfect girlfriend and it\u2019s not about cooking his favorite food, wearing sexy clothes, putting on perfect makeup or knowing trucchi speciali a letto<\/a> (anche se questo pu\u00f2 essere utile).<\/p>\n

The secret to a perfect relationship, the one that all others will envy you on, is being able to love yourself. Everything starts with you. If you aren\u2019t satisfied with yourself, you\u2019ll always come across problems for which you\u2019re going to blame the other party.<\/p>\n

La maggior parte di noi si rifiuta di vedere se stessa come un problema e si rifiuta di cercare la soluzione, quindi scarica la responsabilit\u00e0 sul partner e spera che sia lui a risolvere i problemi del paradiso.<\/p>\n

But, things don\u2019t go that way. You can\u2019t expect him to know all the answers. Sometimes, you have to take a look deep inside yourself and try to see what it is that you are doing wrong.<\/p>\n

Try to be the best version of yourself because you can\u2019t change the person you are with. You can only hope he will rise to the challenge and try to be his best as you are.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni consigli utili su come essere la fidanzata pi\u00f9 perfetta che ci sia:<\/p>\n

1. Bisogna essere comprensivi<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You have to respect his feelings and opinions and never judge him. Try to understand him for doing something you don\u2019t like. Maybe he really has a good reason.<\/p>\n

If you show that you are not understanding, he won\u2019t trust you and he will never confide in you. You have to show that you tried to walk in his shoes and when he messes up and he will, you have to give him a chance to explain himself and try to look at the problem from his point of view.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, questo vi dar\u00e0 un vantaggio quando un giorno farete un errore. Se gli mostrerete comprensione, anche lui vi dar\u00e0 una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

2. Dovete dire ad alta voce ci\u00f2 che volete<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Dovete essere diretti nella vostra relazione. La maggior parte delle donne si aspetta che i loro uomini sappiano solo cosa vogliono e cosa pensano. Non saranno mai dire direttamente ci\u00f2 che vogliono<\/a> perch\u00e9 pensano che un uomo debba leggere la loro mente.<\/p>\n

Now, put yourself in that position. Imagine he wants something from you, he gets frustrated because he\u2019s getting nothing and you have no idea that he wanted something in the first place.<\/p>\n

Anche se \u00e8 improbabile che ci\u00f2 accada, perch\u00e9 le donne hanno quel sesto senso che dice loro che qualcosa non va, provate a mettervi in quella situazione per vedere come si sente lui.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 anche sentirsi molto frustrato perch\u00e9, nonostante i suoi sforzi, avr\u00e0 la sensazione che nulla di ci\u00f2 che fa sia abbastanza buono per voi.<\/p>\n

If you are mad at him, don\u2019t be passive and wait for him to figure it out. Say it right away and try to solve the problem. Waiting for him to ask what is wrong will only build up tension and anger in both of you and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n

3. Dovete dirgli come vi sentite<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Women are more sensitive than men and that\u2019s perfectly fine. One moment we can be over the moon and the next we sink down because of something he said to us.<\/p>\n

He probably doesn\u2019t have a clue that he made you feel like crap, so spill it out to him. If he was insensitive, tell him that he hurt your feelings and share with him how you feel.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably be glad you told him, so he doesn\u2019t make the same mistake again. Hiding your feelings because you don\u2019t want to make an inconvenience will ruin your relationship.<\/p>\n

4. Dovete mostrargli il vostro apprezzamento<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Gli uomini desiderano davvero sentirsi apprezzati. Noi diamo loro amore e gentilezza e noi li amiamo a nostra volta. Ma questo non \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che vogliono.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice and it\u2019s thoughtful and it\u2019s the way every woman wants to be loved, but men are different. They want a feeling of acknowledgment for the things they have done for you or in general.<\/p>\n

Vogliono sentirsi apprezzati per il ruolo che svolgono e vogliono sapere che sappiamo che sanno farlo.<\/p>\n

Se vi porta da qualche parte, ringraziatelo e apprezzarlo<\/a> for taking you and making an effort to do that. It\u2019s not as easy for them as it is easy for us to do these things. This may seem silly to you, but it means a lot to them.<\/p>\n

5. Bisogna dargli spazio<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Questa \u00e8 l'ennesima prova che uomini e donne sono completamente diversi quando si tratta di gestire situazioni di stress. Le donne di solito odiano stare da sole e vogliono essere circondate dalle persone che amano.<\/p>\n

Vogliono parlare con i loro amici di ci\u00f2 che li stressa e di solito questo li aiuta. Gli uomini, invece, odiano essere circondati da persone.<\/p>\n

Di solito si ritirano nella loro caverna maschile dove si occupano delle loro cose da soli. Le donne a volte sbagliano questa mossa e pensano che i loro uomini li stiano escludendo, ma non \u00e8 affatto vero.<\/p>\n

Se lo vedete ritirarsi, lasciatelo stare. Lasciategli spazio per affrontare i suoi problemi nel modo migliore. Quando sar\u00e0 pronto, verr\u00e0 da voi e vi parler\u00e0.<\/p>\n

There is no point in pushing him to talk to you if he doesn\u2019t want to. The only thing you\u2019ll manage to do by forcing him is becoming another source of stress in his life, thus making things only worse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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