{"id":119678,"date":"2020-12-21T14:02:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T14:02:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=119678"},"modified":"2021-12-17T16:23:54","modified_gmt":"2021-12-17T16:23:54","slug":"mio-marito-mi-rivolta-tutto-contro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-mi-rivolta-tutto-contro\/","title":{"rendered":"Mio marito mi rinfaccia tutto: ecco perch\u00e9 (+ 7 soluzioni)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se una delle principali lamentele del vostro matrimonio \u00e8: <em><strong>Mio marito mi fa passare tutto per un'altra persona,<\/strong><\/em> questo articolo fa al caso vostro.<\/p>\n<p>L'arte malvagia di scaricarsi le colpe, cos\u00ec come <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/8-fasi-di-guarigione-dopo-essere-sfuggiti-al-gaslighting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gaslighting<\/a> \u00e8 qualcosa che molti coniugi (leggi: <em>narcisisti<\/em>) a cui ricorrono quando non sono disposti (e non sono in grado) di assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 del proprio comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>Una persona dispotica come suo marito le dar\u00e0 la colpa di tutto (anche delle piccole cose) e la sottoporr\u00e0 ad abusi emotivi con i suoi modi narcisistici.<\/p>\n<p>Faranno un dramma per un problema minuscolo e vi daranno filo da torcere ogni volta che lo proporrete. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consulenza-di-coppia\/\">vedere un consulente matrimoniale<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Sebbene la portata dei vostri problemi coniugali sia una questione tra voi due, posso dire questo: <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/6-tipi-di-violenza-domestica-e-modi-per-combatterla\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Violenza domestica<\/a> non inizia mai come un'unica grande cosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At first, you&#8217;ll feel as if you&#8217;re in a loving relationship with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-segni-che-il-tuo-ragazzo-e-in-realta-il-tuo-migliore-amico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">il tuo migliore amico<\/a>. He&#8217;s still the kind human being you met for the first time years ago and his narcissism is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n<p>Vi dice che vi ama numerose volte al giorno e molto probabilmente anche i vostri familiari gli sono affezionati.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma poi, un giorno, si inizia a vedere il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psychology\/segnali-di-allontanamento-da-una-persona-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">segnali di pericolo<\/a> che forse avete ignorato per tutto questo tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t use the word <em>abusatore<\/em> lightly, but compared to what he was like last year, you&#8217;re starting to see a different picture.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vi insidia costantemente. Manda in frantumi la vostra autostima e la relazione sana di cui eravate cos\u00ec orgogliosi si \u00e8 trasformata in un'altra relazione. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-modi-in-cui-e-cambiata-dopo-una-relazione-emotivamente-offensiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">una relazione emotivamente violenta<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/incontri-ragazza-sopravvissuta-ad-abusi-fisici-sapere\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">abuso fisico<\/a> (<em>eppure<\/em>), but he&#8217;s becoming a bad person that you have to walk on eggshells around.<\/p>\n<p>The thought: \u2018<em>Mio marito mi fa cambiare idea su tutto<\/em>\u2019 is constantly rummaging through your head. Are you leaning toward a breakup, and why is he acting this way?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ecco 20 incredibili motivi per cui vostro marito sta dando la colpa a voi. Quanti di questi riuscite a spuntare dalla lista?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/marito-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mio marito \u00e8 cattivo con me e sta lentamente rovinando il nostro matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>My Husband Turns Everything Around On Me &#8211; 20 Explanations<\/h2>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s everything you need to know about your husband\u2019s sudden toxic behavior. These explanations will help you figure out your next move.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Si sente poco apprezzato da voi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119982\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste e pensieroso che esprime frustrazione seduto al tavolo del suo ufficio davanti al computer\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-pensive-man-expressing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The simplest solution could be that he simply doesn&#8217;t feel valued by you. While I always say that it takes two to tango, there could be some truth to this after all.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re the only one who knows whether this is the case or not.<\/p>\n<p>Il suo abuso emotivo non \u00e8 mai tollerabile, ma se sentite che le vostre azioni contribuiscono in qualche modo a questo comportamento, potreste riuscire a sedervi e a parlarne.<\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-dolorosi-che-il-marito-non-ama\/\">15 Painful Signs Your Husband Doesn\u2019t Love You Anymore<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manca di empatia.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119983\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"giovane fidanzata triste che piange vicino al fidanzato che dorme in camera da letto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-girlfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are people in this world with severely low empathy levels. These individuals have a hard time sympathizing with other people&#8217;s feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Spesso vengono chiamati anche narcisisti. Sebbene non tutti coloro che mancano di empatia siano definiti narcisisti, essi condividono tratti molto simili.<\/p>\n<p>Se per suo marito \u00e8 difficile capire che dare la colpa a lei \u00e8 sbagliato, potrebbe mancare di empatia.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ha un atteggiamento da santarellino.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119984\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking-.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna imbronciata e uomo che parla durante una discussione\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking-.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-sulking--1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His self-righteous moral superiority doesn&#8217;t allow him to ever question his actions and behavior. God forbid he did that!<\/p>\n<p>People like this will be in firm denial and refuse to face the facts even when they&#8217;re staring them right in the face. You shouldn&#8217;t get involved with someone like this in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9? <strong>Because you&#8217;ll never have a life partner in the proper sense of the word<\/strong>. La loro posizione morale sar\u00e0 sempre un livello superiore alla vostra. Almeno, secondo lui.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s hypersensitive.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119985\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning.jpg\" alt=\"coppia litigiosa al mattino in pigiama seduta a letto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/arguing-couple-in-the-morning-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you face him with something he doesn&#8217;t want to hear, he gets overly emotional. He takes everything way too personally, which makes you constantly walk on eggshells.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like you didn&#8217;t marry a man, but an immature boy. He doesn&#8217;t have his emotions in check, and that means that blaming you is a common issue in the marriage.<\/p>\n<p>If you can&#8217;t handle yourself, how can you be mindful of your partner&#8217;s needs?<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-voglio-piu-che-mio-marito-mi-tocchi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> I Don\u2019t Want My Husband To Touch Me Anymore (Causes &amp; Solutions)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s vulnerable.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119987\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che discute all&#039;esterno dell&#039;edificio con pareti di mattoni rossi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La sua estrema vulnerabilit\u00e0 pu\u00f2 portarlo a desiderare potere e superiorit\u00e0. A sua volta, questo pu\u00f2 portarlo a mettervi in difficolt\u00e0 per la sua soddisfazione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Un'altra cosa che la vulnerabilit\u00e0 pu\u00f2 creare \u00e8 un senso di insicurezza.<\/strong> This can make people never want to be seen as a bad person. Do you have reason to believe that this could be your husband&#8217;s struggle?<\/p>\n<p>Se deve vincere ogni discussione e continua a deviare la colpa da s\u00e9 a voi, probabilmente la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He gets offended easily&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119988\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia indifferente seduta sul divano del soggiorno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/indifferent-couple-sitting-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Especially at the thought of marriage counseling. All you want to do is work it out and talk to someone who genuinely might be able to help you, but he won&#8217;t hear of it.<\/p>\n<p>He takes it as an offense and doesn&#8217;t give it any thought. When my husband turns everything around on me, I immediately ask him to explain his behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Chiedo di sapere perch\u00e9 si rifiuta di considerare la mia idea come qualcosa di utile. <strong>Dovete ricordargli che voi due siete una squadra.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not trying to cause him to feel bad; you&#8217;re merely trying to make things better for the sake of your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s plagued by a sense of entitlement.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che fissa fuori dalle vetrate con sguardo pensieroso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/young-woman-staring-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo lo possono dire i suoi familiari, i suoi amici, i suoi colleghi e chiunque lo conosca. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/se-fa-queste-20-cose-tossiche-e-un-narcisista-occulto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00c8 un narcisista nascosto<\/a> con un grave caso di diritto.<\/p>\n<p>This causes him to turn everything around on you, as whatever happens, he was either right to do it or he didn&#8217;t do anything wrong at all.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what you get when you get involved with narcissists. They are self-absorbed, always in the right, and if you care to question their behavior, they&#8217;ll make you feel sorry.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s a perfectionist.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pensieroso seduto sulla sedia vicino al letto che chiude gli occhi con disperazione \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-man-sitting-in-the-chair-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His point of view is always the right one. Why? Because he&#8217;s incapable of doing anything wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Now, this doesn&#8217;t make it true. His perfectionism doesn&#8217;t mean that he&#8217;s faultless. Being married to a perfectionist isn&#8217;t necessarily bad.<\/p>\n<p>But, when they resort to blame-shifting and gaslighting, now, that&#8217;s a problem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s controlling and dominating by nature.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119991\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pensoso di mezza et\u00e0 seduto al bar con il pollice che si tocca il mento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-middle-age-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Gli ultimatum sono il suo modo di fare. Pretende di sapere tutto su ogni telefonata che fate e su ogni persona che vedete.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t let you control your own life, as he needs to be on top of everything when it comes to you. He knows best.<\/p>\n<p>When you married him, it wasn&#8217;t nearly as severe as it is now. You could never imagine calling him an abuser before, but how else can you explain his behavior?<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/mio-marito-sceglie-la-sua-famiglia-invece-di-me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cosa devo fare quando mio marito sceglie la sua famiglia invece di me?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Prospera guardando gli altri fallire.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda immersa in pensieri profondi appoggiata al tronco dell&#039;albero nel parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/blonde-woman-submerging-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He often says things like &#8220;<em>OMG, did you see what a fool Steve made of himself last night? Wasn&#8217;t it AMAZING?<\/em>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>E pensate a quanto siano tristi le sue parole. A chi pu\u00f2 far piacere veder fallire qualcuno a cui si tiene? <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/segni-dolorosi-che-il-marito-non-ama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Suo marito<\/a><\/em>, credo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questo tipo di comportamento \u00e8 direttamente collegato alla sua incapacit\u00e0 di simpatizzare con qualcuno che sta attraversando delle difficolt\u00e0. Inoltre, lo rende pi\u00f9 propenso a perdere la sua bussola morale.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo, spesso pensate a voi stessi: <em>Mio marito mi fa girare tutto intorno, ma perch\u00e9?<\/em> Ora avete un'idea del perch\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He avoids feeling emotions, as to him, it&#8217;s a sign of weakness<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"donna disgregata seduta accanto a un uomo dipendente dal computer in salotto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/disgusted-woman-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In every good relationship, both partners need to be able to communicate their needs and wants. Emotions are a big part of that. You can&#8217;t see this as a weakness.<\/p>\n<p>But, your husband does. He&#8217;ll never say how he feels. He&#8217;ll never let himself be vulnerable. You&#8217;ve probably never even seen him cry.<\/p>\n<p>All that macho crap has turned him into a toxic partner who blames you for everything. That&#8217;s easier than admitting that you&#8217;re only human, and that, yeah, you&#8217;ll make mistakes.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s an egomaniac.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119994\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"uomo con occhiali da vista e abito alla moda in piedi all&#039;aperto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/man-wearing-eyeglasses-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve never seen someone as egotistical and self-absorbed as your husband. His excessive obsession with his ego means he never stops to consider how that makes you feel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He&#8217;s preoccupied with his delusions of personal greatness<\/strong> e mostra una mancanza di apprezzamento per voi e per tutto ci\u00f2 che fate.<\/p>\n<p>A volte gli egocentrici ricorrono all'aggressione per cercare di dimostrare la loro tesi.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ignore the warning signs of this. This might be a case of emotional abuse, but it could also be a matter of time before it turns physical.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ha bisogno che la gente sappia quanto \u00e8 grande.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119995\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di persone che ascoltano l&#039;uomo con la barba parlare all&#039;interno dell&#039;atrio dell&#039;edificio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/group-of-people-listening-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ha bisogno che la gente sia consapevole della sua grandezza. Il suo senso di grandiosit\u00e0 \u00e8 ai massimi storici. Fa un gran parlare di ogni cosa mediocre che fa.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Come pu\u00f2 una persona impeccabile come suo marito fare qualcosa di sbagliato? Inoltre, come potrebbe lasciare che qualcun altro lo pensi?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>He can&#8217;t allow you to be right, as that would suggest he&#8217;s human after all.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s the master of projecting.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia in pigiama che litiga con la donna che distoglie la testa da lui\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-wearing-pajamas-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un narcisista abilmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/questo-e-il-modo-in-cui-un-narcisista-usa-la-proiezione-per-portarti-dove-vuole-lui\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">usa la proiezione per portarvi dove vuole.<\/a>. That&#8217;s his area of expertise.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Che cos'\u00e8 questa proiezione di cui parlo?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2018\u2019In the field of psychology, projection \u2013 or psychological projection \u2013 is the denial of subconscious impulses by the human ego.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>E qualcosa mi dice che questo descrive suo marito alla perfezione. Ho ragione a pensarlo?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli piace controllare con la paura.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120394\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa che guarda la telecamera appoggiandosi alle braccia, triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-looking-at-camera-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Everytime he wants something, he uses scare tactics to get you to do it for him. He&#8217;s a controlling person, and creating fear is what he thrives on.<\/p>\n<p>That way, you&#8217;re unlikely to stick up for yourself, and he&#8217;s always in control of his surroundings.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/quando-tuo-marito-guarda-unaltra-donna\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cosa significa quando il marito guarda un'altra donna?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli piace naturalmente creare problemi.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120396\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna pensierosa su uno sfondo grigio e sassoso \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-young-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s just a jerk by nature. Sometimes, that&#8217;s all there is to it. He enjoys causing trouble. He loves being the reason why someone suffers be it his wife, friends, or family members.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s argumentative.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120397\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo turbato che guarda il telefono seduto sulla panchina del parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-young-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can&#8217;t leave negative social media comments alone. He has to get involved every single time.<\/p>\n<p>Not to mention real-life arguments&#8230; he can&#8217;t let things go. He&#8217;ll bite your head off if you dare defy him (yours and everyone else&#8217;s).<\/p>\n<p>A volte ci si chiede se i segnali non siano sempre stati presenti.<\/p>\n<p>But, it&#8217;s easier to believe that he just suddenly became this toxic person rather than accepting the fact that you&#8217;ve been living with him all this time.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s emotionally immature.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120398\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"uomo turbato seduto sulla piattaforma vicino allo specchio d&#039;acqua con la mano sulla testa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/upset-man-sitting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-di-immaturita-emotiva-di-un-ragazzo-madre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">He&#8217;s an emotionally immature mama&#8217;s boy.<\/a> \u00c8 stato cresciuto come un narcisista bisognoso, esigente e alla ricerca di attenzioni, e con il tempo i sintomi non fanno che peggiorare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While this isn&#8217;t <em>interamente<\/em> colpa, \u00e8 stato pienamente in grado di scrollarsela di dosso e di diventare, crescendo, un essere umano gentile e premuroso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t do anything about how your parents raise you when you&#8217;re a kid, but as you get older (and hopefully more mature), you start seeing the error in their ways and do everything in your power to change them.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, this wasn&#8217;t the case with your husband, and that tells you everything you need to know about him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He can&#8217;t handle negative feedback.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120399\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo molto arrabbiato che fa la morale alla sua ragazza durante una lite\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/very-upset-young-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente il suo processo di pensiero \u00e8 del tipo: <em>&#8220;OMG, how dare you question me or anything that I say and do?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In traduzione, <strong>la sua capacit\u00e0 di gestire qualsiasi tipo di feedback negativo \u00e8 sorprendentemente inesistente<\/strong>. You feel as if he&#8217;d fall apart if he was forced to face all of his BS throughout the years.<\/p>\n<p>Ma usa il suo fragile contegno come scusa per fare quello che vuole senza subire le conseguenze.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Usa il senso di colpa come strumento.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120400\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che discute all&#039;aperto vicino a un grande muro di mattoni sulla strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/couple-arguing-outdoors-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Spesso le persone che controllano sono molto abili nel manipolare il coniuge e le sue emozioni in modo da raggiungere il loro obiettivo.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s that you may wonder? It is getting you to feel a constant stream of guilt about every little thing that happens throughout the day so that you can do their bidding for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ti costringe con il senso di colpa a fare il suo lavoro per lui, e tu non ti lamenti mai perch\u00e9 senti un'immensa pressione a farlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Spesso, cos\u00ec facendo, si rinuncia al proprio potere nella relazione. Inutile dire che questo fa il suo gioco.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/mio-marito-pensa-di-non-fare-nulla-di-male\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cosa devo fare quando mio marito pensa di non fare nulla di male?<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>7 domande da porsi in questa situazione<\/h2>\n<p><em>Prima di decidere quale sar\u00e0 il vostro prossimo passo, ponetevi queste domande e siate onesti nel rispondere. Vi aiuteranno a capire come vi sentite nel vostro matrimonio.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Crede che il suo comportamento sia in qualche modo colpa sua?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120414\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna a casa seduta sul divano all&#039;interno della finestra chiusa, buia e triste\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The first thing you need to ask yourself is whether or not he is successful in making you believe that it&#8217;s you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Newsflash, it&#8217;s <em>NON<\/em><\/strong>ma devi capirlo da sola. Posso continuare a convincerti che \u00e8 tutta colpa sua, ma se ti rifiuti di vederlo, non si pu\u00f2 fare molto.<\/p>\n<p><em>Allora, \u00e8 cos\u00ec? Crede che il suo comportamento dipenda da lei? Credi che, in qualche modo, tu gli faccia cambiare idea su di te?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Depending on your answer, you&#8217;ll start seeing what your next steps should be.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere sposata con lui ti fa sentire bene con te stessa?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120416\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa a casa che si riposa sulla sedia gialla vicino al balcone della stanza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-woman-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This one&#8217;s simple. Being married to someone is supposed to make you feel good about yourself. Not just on some days, but EVERY day.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s supposed to emphasize all your best qualities and increase your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/50-citazioni-ispirate-allautostima-che-aumenteranno-la-fiducia-in-se-stessi-ogni-giorno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">autostima<\/a>. Dovrebbe farvi sentire in grado di raggiungere tutti i vostri obiettivi senza mai mettere in dubbio le vostre capacit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Il matrimonio dovrebbe essere un ambiente edificante, nutriente e sano, dove ci si sente assolutamente al sicuro. <strong>E tu?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sente che suo marito le copre le spalle?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120418\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet.jpg\" alt=\"donna sdraiata su tappeto pensieroso all&#039;interno del soggiorno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-lying-on-carpet-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti copre le spalle? Vi difende in vostra assenza? Vi incoraggia quando fallite?<\/p>\n<p><strong>La risposta a tutte queste domande dovrebbe essere un inequivocabile S\u00cc.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Partners should be there for each other through thick and thin without hesitation. If you don&#8217;t feel that way in your marriage, what does that tell you?<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/mio-marito-vuole-il-divorzio-ma-io-lo-amo-ancora\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mio marito vuole divorziare, ma io lo amo ancora - 16 regole e regole da non rispettare<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quale consiglio darebbe a un amico intimo che sta vivendo la stessa situazione?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista laterale di una donna pensante che beve una bevanda calda in piedi vicino alle finestre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sideview-of-a-thinking-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 uno dei modi pi\u00f9 sicuri per vedere le cose con chiarezza una volta per tutte. Se una delle vostre amiche pi\u00f9 care sta vivendo la stessa situazione, cosa le direste?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure I already know. <strong>Isn&#8217;t it amazing how differently we treat ourselves versus our best friends?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re putting up way more than you ever should while I&#8217;m sure that if your bestie was in your shoes, you&#8217;d be telling her to leave his sorry ass yesterday. <em>Perch\u00e9 secondo lei?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C'\u00e8 qualcosa che VOI potete fare per migliorare le cose?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120422\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna solitaria e pensierosa appoggiata alla porta di casa da sola \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/lonely-pensive-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While his behavior is in no way on you (as made clear by the first question), you can still ask yourself whether there&#8217;s anything YOU can do to improve your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-matrimonio-e-finito\/\">unione coniugale infelice<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s a slight chance that your actions could somehow make a positive shift, it could be the saving grace for your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">In un mondo ideale, come vorreste essere trattati dal vostro S\/O?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120425\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta da sola sul letto che guarda lontano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/sad-young-woman-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dimenticate la vostra realt\u00e0 attuale. Come vorreste essere trattati dal vostro partner se viveste in un mondo ideale?<\/p>\n<p>Riflettete su questo, poi rispondete a questo: <strong>\u00c8 necessario vivere in un mondo ideale per essere trattati in modo equo?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La risposta \u00e8 no. Il vostro matrimonio dovrebbe essere un rifugio sicuro, indipendentemente dal tipo di mondo in cui viviamo.<\/p>\n<p>Quando tornate a casa, tutte le preoccupazioni dovrebbero svanire (almeno per un minuto) e un senso di tranquillit\u00e0 dovrebbe invadervi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come sar\u00e0 il vostro futuro senza di lui?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120429\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa e sognante seduta sulla roccia in spiaggia \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/pensive-dreamy-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Guardate al vostro futuro con lui e a quello senza di lui. Come si sente il primo rispetto al secondo?<\/p>\n<p>Ti vedi felice, realizzata e curata se rimani con lui? <strong>Or, is there a sense of relief at the thought of a future in which he isn&#8217;t a part of your life?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Riflettete a lungo su questo punto. La risposta vi dir\u00e0 tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere su quello che dovete fare dopo. L'unica cosa che conta \u00e8 se lui vi rende felici o meno.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/marito-dispotico\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">7 segni di un marito dispotico e tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-120434\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"sagoma di una donna seduta su una roccia, pensierosa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/silhouette-of-a-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>My husband turns everything around on me, but this is the last time I&#8217;m going to let it fly.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is what your mantra should be from today on. After carefully having gone through all of my points, isn&#8217;t it obvious that this is not a healthy environment that you can thrive in?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Essere sposati con un narcisista ti succhia l'energia giorno dopo giorno, settimana dopo settimana. Quando sar\u00e0 abbastanza?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Il suo scaricabarile e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fake-love\/emotional-abuse\/10-tipi-di-manipolazione-emotiva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">manipolazione emotiva<\/a> are making it difficult for you to react the way you want to. Due to his gaslighting, you&#8217;re slowly losing self-respect and your sense of self.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let this go on any longer. It&#8217;s time to start <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/psychology\/assumersi-la-responsabilita-delle-proprie-azioni\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni<\/a>. Finch\u00e9 continuerete a stare seduti, a soffrire in silenzio e a non fare nulla, le cose non cambieranno mai.<\/p>\n<p>But, the moment you stick up for yourself and start letting him know that you&#8217;re not his punching bag, your life will change.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t say for certain what this means for your marriage, <strong>but when you start prioritizing your well-being over his scare tactics, you&#8217;ll know what you need to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/tagliare-fuori-le-persone\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Quando \u00e8 necessario tagliare i ponti con le persone? ( + 7 consigli per farlo)<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If one major complaint in your marriage is: My husband turns everything around on me, this article is right up your alley. The evil art of blame-shifting as well as gaslighting is something many spouses (read: narcissists) resort to when they are unwilling (and unable) to take responsibility for their behavior. A controlling person such&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":120435,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-119678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/My-Husband-Turns-Everything-Around-On-Me-Heres-Why-7-Fixes-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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