{"id":11995,"date":"2018-01-12T12:56:43","date_gmt":"2018-01-12T12:56:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=11995"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:13:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:13:21","slug":"10-motivi-per-cui-gli-amici-ex-vanno-bene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-motivi-per-cui-gli-amici-ex-vanno-bene\/","title":{"rendered":"10 motivi per cui \u00e8 giusto essere amici del proprio ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere amici del proprio ex non \u00e8 sempre un disastro totale. A volte, che ci crediate o no, pu\u00f2 trasformarsi in un'amicizia significativa.<\/p>\n

After all, that person spent a great amount of time with you and you shared a lot of moments together. You’ve been through good and bad; that is something you don\u2019t forget that easily. You may break up, but you can’t erase the existence of that person.<\/p>\n

Although it ended the way it did, you still have some fond memories of your time together. There were times he made you happy when you were together, when he surprised you by doing something beautiful. It wasn\u2019t awful all the time, especially not in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Se riusciste a concentrarvi sui bei momenti trascorsi insieme, anzich\u00e9 su come vi siete rovinati a vicenda, potreste avere un'amicizia bella e duratura. Tutto ci\u00f2 che serve \u00e8 capire e rispettare l'altro.<\/p>\n

Here are some reasons why it\u2019s okay for you to be amici del tuo ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n

1. By keeping your heart open, you\u2019ll be able to find love again<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Se vivete la vostra vita perdonando le persone che vi hanno fatto del male e aprendo il vostro cuore a quelle che vi circondano, attirerete cose positive anche a voi. Alcuni lo chiamano karma, altri fortuna, ma il modo in cui trattate gli altri vi torner\u00e0 indietro in seguito.<\/p>\n

By maintaining a good relationship with your ex, you\u2019re forgiving yourself. You\u2019re going to be a better person with much more confidence, which will pay off when you finally meet someone new.<\/p>\n

2. \u00c8 stata una rottura felice<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

OK, no break-up is happy, but let\u2019s say that yours wasn\u2019t ugly. You kind of expected it and maybe it was a mutual agreement between two people who just realized that they had nothing in common so they decided to break it off before someone got seriously hurt.<\/p>\n

Questo tipo di situazione \u00e8 perfetta per l'inizio di una bella amicizia.<\/p>\n

3. Sa gi\u00e0 tutto di voi<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s easy to talk to him because you don\u2019t have to explain yourself and the things you do or don\u2019t do, or eat or don\u2019t eat. He already knows all of that.<\/p>\n

It feels natural talking to him and despite the fact you\u2019re no longer together, it would be nice to act nice and keep him in your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

4. Avete molti amici in comune<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

If you have a lot of mutual friends and you don\u2019t want to create any awkward situations for them, you\u2019re better off staying friends. Imagine if one of your friends is having a birthday party and you are both invited.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it be better for you to stay friends and go to the party with no resentment or anger that was left from the break-up? Also, you can always stay friends but keep your distance; you don\u2019t have to spend the whole night next to each other.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s also important that you don\u2019t bother each other with your presence.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve moved on<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve had your share of tears and you\u2019ve passed the healing process. Now that you hold nothing against him, it\u2019s normal to be friends.<\/p>\n

Now that you are over him, his new girlfriend won\u2019t bother you and you won\u2019t be staring in his direction the whole time, fearing someone will hit on him.<\/p>\n

6. Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 tensione sessuale<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Forse siete usciti da un relazione a lungo termine<\/a> where sex had turned from a source of pleasure to a habit. And now that you\u2019ve broken up, if someone else attracts you more than your ex-partner, it\u2019s safe to say that you can be lifelong friends.<\/p>\n

7. Siete entrambi emotivamente maturi<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Your maturity allowed you to look at things from a different perspective. You realized that he means a lot to you and that you don\u2019t want to lose him, so if you had to break up, that doesn\u2019t mean you mustn\u2019t see each other ever again. You are reasonable enough to let him into your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

8. Avete smesso di vivere nel passato<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Finalmente avete voltato pagina e avete capito che il passato deve restare al suo posto. Qualsiasi cosa abbiate passato \u00e8 ormai alle spalle e nulla di ci\u00f2 che fate pu\u00f2 cambiarlo.<\/p>\n

L'unica cosa che pu\u00f2 cambiare \u00e8 il rapporto con il vostro ex. Quindi, se lo decidete, potete farlo entrare nella vostra vita e ricominciare da capo, ma questa volta con ruoli diversi.<\/p>\n

9. Vi preoccupate l'uno dell'altro<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You still care about each other but not in the same way as before. You grew to develop a different relationship, so why should you lose that just because of a stupid unwritten rule that exes shouldn\u2019t be friends. If you want to be friends and if you still have some feelings for each other, do it.<\/p>\n

10. Ti d\u00e0 buoni consigli<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You know that whenever you have a problem you can go to him. Even when you were in a relationship, he knew how to give you good advice. He didn\u2019t do it that often, but when he did, he knew how.<\/p>\n

You still value his opinion and you\u2019ve got nothing against him, so he has nothing to lose and he will be completely honest.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being friends with your ex is not always a complete disaster. Sometimes, believe it or not, it can actually turn into a meaningful friendship. After all, that person spent a great amount of time with you and you shared a lot of moments together. You’ve been through good and bad; that is something you don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":12002,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/henri-pham-348523.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11995"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11995\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12002"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}