I\u2019ve had my share of painful breakups \u2013 nobody argues against that. In fact, if we look at things objectively, we\u2019d all agree that I\u2019ve been through more devastating experiences than the average girl.<\/p>\n
I loved men who didn\u2019t love me back. I was used, cheated on, and left behind. I was treated like trash, and I was even abused.<\/p>\n
Ma nonostante tutto questo, Non ho mai avuto difficolt\u00e0 andare avanti<\/a> con la mia vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n No matter what I\u2019d been through, somehow, I would always find a way to brush the sadness off my shoulders and restore my true self.<\/strong><\/p>\n La cosa pi\u00f9 affascinante di tutto ci\u00f2 \u00e8 che il mio processo di recupero \u00e8 sempre stato rapido. Ogni volta, in un batter d'occhio, tornavo come nuovo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ogni volta che avevo il cuore spezzato, guarivo a una velocit\u00e0 incredibile. Almeno, cos\u00ec sembrava.<\/strong> Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che pensavano tutti quelli che mi circondavano. Al diavolo, questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che pensavo io.<\/p>\n Finch\u00e9 non mi ha colpito: Non stavo mai guarendo. Invece, per tutto questo tempo, mi sono solo costretta a dimenticare. E questi sono due concetti completamente diversi.<\/strong><\/p>\n You see, when you\u2019re forcing yourself to forget, you pretend that your traumas never happened. Si \u00e8 impegnati in una cosa chiamata autoinganno, e questo non pu\u00f2 mai essere salutare.<\/strong><\/p>\n You do your best to sweep things under the carpet. It\u2019s like you have a magic wand, and you expect it to erase everything bad you ever experienced.<\/p>\n You continue with your life exactly like this \u2013 as if you\u2019re not damaged and as if your heart is still in one piece. Sounds like the perfect recipe for felicit\u00e0<\/a>, doesn\u2019t it?<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, the problem is that this approach has one fatal flaw: it\u2019s utterly impossible. The things you run away from find a way of catching up with you sooner or later.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sometimes, your old demons come knocking on your door years after you\u2019ve convinced yourself that you were done with them. And once they do, there is no chance of escape.<\/p>\n Anzi, questa volta tutti i traumi diventano ancora pi\u00f9 angoscianti. Dopo tutto, questo dolore si \u00e8 accumulato per anni e ora \u00e8 diventato un mostro con cui dovete fare i conti.<\/p>\n So at the end of the day, I\u2019m not the tough woman everyone sees me as. I\u2019m not strong.<\/p>\n![\"donna](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/woman-standing-on-the-street-2.jpg\")
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